If Your Girlfriend Is Not Putting Effort: Here’s Why

If your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship then you are probably confused and wondering what is wrong with her.

 

In this article, I will share with you some of the things you should know if your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship.

 

But before is start sharing with you what to do, you have to know the meaning behind this.

 

She is not putting the effort into your relationship due to several things.

 

If you know them well and good, but I might be knowing things that you have no idea of.

 

So, without wasting time, let me share with you what it means when your girlfriend no longer puts effort into your relationship.

 

What does it mean when your girlfriend stops putting effort into your relationship?

When your girlfriend stops putting effort into your relationship it means she is exhausted from being in that relationship, she doesn’t care about you anymore, she is losing interest in you and it can also be that she is thinking of ending the relationship.

 

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There is more to it that I will share with you in this article, so stick with me till the end.

 

Reasons why your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship;

1. Your girlfriend doesn’t put effort into your relationship because she is tired of being with you.

 

When your girlfriend doesn’t put effort into your relationship it shows that she is tired of being in that relationship with you.

 

If your girlfriend is tired of being with you she will never bother putting any effort into your relationship.

 

She will be ready to walk away from you whenever she feels like it. And this is a dangerous thing.

 

She will also never care if you break up and this is the part where she will never be bothered to work things out with you.

 

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This is the first reason why your girlfriend doesn’t put effort into your relationship.

 

If you are wondering what might have made her exhausted from being with you then keep on checking for the next article.

 

But before I release the next article about that, let me share with you some of the reasons why your girlfriend is tired of being with you.

 

Your girlfriend is tired of being with you because she doesn’t get what she wants from you, she is not happy with you, you don’t treat her the way she wants, she is losing interest in you and it can be that she has her mind on someone else.

 

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2. The second reason why your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship is that she doesn’t care about you anymore.

 

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The moment your girlfriend doesn’t care about you she will also stop caring about the relationship.

 

She will never care if you get mad at her or break up with her. The only thing she will be concerned about is her happiness.

 

You will never matter. And when a girl stops caring about you she will start treating you bad leave alone not putting effort into the relationship.

 

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So, when a girl no longer cares about you she will never bother putting effort into the relationship.

 

She will let you do everything in that relationship. Let me say that the relationship will turn out to be one-sided.

 

And when a relationship is one-sided, things will start weighing on you pretty hard and you will even start thinking you are the only one holding all the responsibilities in your relationship.

 

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There are several reasons why she doesn’t care about you.

 

To know them don’t forget to check the article below.

 

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3. The third reason why your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship is that she is losing interest in you.

 

Your girlfriend can lose interest in you pretty fast if you are not doing what she wants.

 

So, don’t get surprised when I tell you that your girlfriend is losing interest in you and that is why she doesn’t put any effort into that relationship.

 

You have to know that it’s the interest that drives girls to do what adds value to their relationships.

 

Let me name interest as a motivating factor for girls. That is what drives them to care, to want to fix things, to spend time with their partners and connect with them.

 

If your girlfriend has an interest in you she will be close to you, she will care about you, she will feel you, she will be willing to sacrifice anything for your relationship and she will be putting so much effort into it.

 

The moment she is no longer interested in you all her energy will vanish with the interest.

 

She will not put any effort into the relationship and with the way she will be treating you, you will be sure that the relationship is going to end so soon.

 

Have I told you that you can win her interest back and make her put effort into the relationship again?

 

Check the article below.

 

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4. The fourth reason why your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship is that she is thinking of ending the relationship.

 

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The moment your girlfriend has made up her mind that she is going to end the relationship then she will never do anything to please you.

 

This is the moment she will hurt you intentionally, she will speak rudely to you, she will flirt with other guys in front of you and she will show you every kind of disrespect.

 

She doesn’t care about any action you will take because back in her mind she made it clear that she is going to end the relationship with you no matter what happens.

 

So, the moment you notice that your girlfriend is no longer putting effort and she is treating you badly and she doesn’t respect you then know that she intends to end the relationship.

 

She is not putting any effort into the relationship because she wants to end the relationship.

 

These are some of the reasons why she wants to end the relationship;

  • She no longer loves you.
  • She is tired of being with you.
  • She found someone else.
  • You don’t give her what she wants.
  • She is not happy with you in that relationship.
  • She just wants to be away from you.
  • She finds you to be unworthy of her love.

 

5. The fifth reason why your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship is that she is pushing you away and distancing herself from you.

 

When your girlfriend wants to be away from you she will never do anything that makes you get closer to her.

 

She will not do anything that a girlfriend should be doing for her boyfriend.

 

This means she will not spend time with you, she will give you so many excuses not to be around, she will skip your birthdays, she will no longer text or call, she will even ignore your calls and texts and so many issues that you care about.

 

All this is for her to push you away so that you create the distance that she wants.

 

In my other blog I talked about these issues, so don’t forget to check them out.

 

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Your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship because she is trying to distance herself by not doing what is required of her in the relationship. She knows that when she stops doing what is required of her you will be distanced since she will be pushing you away.

 

Is it okay to ask for more effort in a relationship?

 

should I ask my girlfriend to put effort into the relationship if she isn't

If your girlfriend or boyfriend is not putting effort into a relationship it’s okay for you to ask him or her to put in more effort. Since when you ask him or her to do so you will remind him or her of his or her responsibilities in that relationship.

 

There is nothing wrong with asking for more effort from your partner if she or he is not putting it in.

 

You have to talk when you realize something is not going the way you expect in your relationship.

 

In this way, you will be able to solve so many issues in your relationship so fast.

 

Don’t wait for a problem to build up in your relationship if you don’t want it to be complicated for you to handle.

 

How do I tell my girlfriend she needs to put more effort in?

If your girlfriend is not putting more effort in just be honest with her and let her know that she is required to put more effort into the relationship. You can tell her, “Hey babe! I’m feeling the whole weight is on me can you try a little harder to help me out.”

 

You can also tell her directly, “I know you are trying honey, but can you put more effort, kindly?”

 

When you tell her in such a way she will understand that she is required to put more effort into the relationship.

 

If she loves you and cares about you she will do what is expected of her.

 

She will remember that she also has responsibilities in that relationship.

 

But if she is done with you she will never care about that and she will probably talk to you rudely when you tell her to put more effort into the relationship.

 

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What to do when your girlfriend is not putting effort into the relationship.

When your girlfriend is not putting effort into your relationship, first, find out why she is not doing so. If there are any misunderstandings, solve them. Also, rekindle the spark in your relationship by doing things that make her happy and remind her of her responsibilities in that relationship.

 

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If she still loves you and she cares about the relationship then she will start doing what is required of her.

 

But if she is no longer into you she will ignore you and she will even walk further away from you.

 

You should know that if your girlfriend forgot that she was supposed to be putting effort into that relationship she will instantly be active when you remind her of what she is supposed to be doing in that relationship.

 

It’s a good thing you remind each other of the relationship goals you implemented so that you all remain on track.

 

Lastly…

If your girlfriend is not putting any effort into the relationship then try to find out why that is so.

 

The moment you realize that you did something that made her stop putting effort then go ahead and fix it.

 

If you made her angry then apologize to her and let her know that you feel so bad about the mess you made.

 

In this way, you will be able to make her put effort again into that relationship.

 

Don’t keep quiet if you notice there is something wrong with your relationship.

 

Always talk and communicate with each other about any issue that is affecting your relationship.

 

But if you notice that she is treating you badly, she disrespects you, she hurts you intentionally then know that she is no longer in love with you.

 

If she is not in love with you no matter what you do she will never put effort into that relationship.

 

The only thing you will have to do is to let her go, I guess that is what she wants.

 

Thanks for sticking with me till the end, see you next time in my next article. Don’t forget to leave a comment if you have any questions.

 

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