My Girlfriend Is Not Virgin What Should I Do?

If your girlfriend is not a virgin and you are wondering what you should do, then this is the right article for you.

 

Let me share with you some insights that will help you to understand that virginity has nothing to do with a relationship.

 

How you handle each other in a relationship is what matters. Though, there are some situations when you find out your girlfriend is not a virgin then you will have so much to question her.

 

But for now, let me share with you what you need to do when your girlfriend is not a virgin.

 

If your girlfriend is not a virgin and she has never told you that she is a virgin then there is nothing to do about that. Accept her for how she is and love her as no one else would. But if she lied to you that she is a virgin and you found out she isn’t then break up with her.

 

So, before you conclude anything about what I have shared with you in the above paragraph, give me a chance to explain everything.

 

When you find out that your girlfriend is not a virgin and she has never told you anything about it and you have never asked her then there is nothing to argue or fight about.

 

You will have to accept her the way she is. You fell in love with her in the first place, you never fell in love with her virginity, right?

 

The worst thing will be when she told you that she is a virgin and you, later on, find out that she isn’t.

 

This is the part where I would advise you to leave her. Walk away from her because she doesn’t deserve you in the first place.

 

If a girl has the ability to lie to you about something sensitive like that then she has the ability to do more than just lie to you.

 

She is not good for you.

 

When you find out that your girlfriend is not a virgin don’t treat her like she is nothing to you.

 

Don’t change the way you view her and block all negative thoughts that come in your head about her.

 

When you do this then you will be able to enjoy your relationship with her. But if you allow negative thoughts to flood your head then you will never love her and you will end up breaking up with her.

 

Don’t assume that your girlfriend is cheap or she doesn’t respect herself. You were once hurt too.

 

Were you stupid back then?

 

So, what I can tell you is that just accept how she is, treat her nicely and build and support her.

 

Should I leave my girlfriend if she is not a virgin?

You should only leave your girlfriend if she told you that is a virgin and when you later find out she isn’t a virgin. But if she never told you she was a virgin and you never asked her either then when you find out she isn’t a virgin don’t leave her.

 

You should only leave her if she lied to you about her virginity. But if she never lied about her virginity then there is no reason for you to break up with her.

 

As I said earlier, you should accept her, love her for how she is and keep on building her.

 

Don’t start talking bad about her state of virginity even if you are mad at her. When you do it she will assume you don’t respect her and she will never respect you.

 

Trust me, where there is no respect in a relationship, nothing is going to work in that relationship.

 

I have seen it. I’m not just writing to fill this blog but I have seen it from my closest friends.

 

No matter how mad you are at her don’t ever talk about her virginity. Show her that you respect her and you love her for who she is and not her virginity.

 

If your girlfriend is not a virgin it doesn’t mean that she is cheap. It doesn’t mean that she just can sleep with any man she meets in the streets.

 

So, respect her and show her that you value her and not her virginity.

 

Though, virginity is something to be celebrated for. Most men find it so cool when their girlfriends are virgins.

 

Can my girlfriend really love me if she lost her virginity to someone else?

Yes! Your girlfriend can love you so much even if she lost her virginity to someone else. As long as you love her for how she is, for who she is and give her the respect she deserves. In fact, she will love you so hard since you accepted her without considering her virginity state.

 

Nowadays, most men don’t care about the state of virginity in their girlfriends. The most things they look for is someone genuine, caring, understanding, smart and so forth.

 

It depends on your preferences.

 

So, if your girlfriend lost her virginity to someone else it doesn’t mean she will not love you.

 

If she has feelings for you and she accepted to be your girlfriend then nothing else will matter as long as you handle her nicely.

 

I used to believe that ladies will never forget the men they first slept with. And also these men who took their virginity away will forever stick into their souls.

 

But that is not the case. If you treat a woman right and love her how she wants to be loved then she will never forget you even if she meets someone else.

 

Virginity is not the case.

 

Lastly…

If you care so much about the state of virginity that your girlfriend has then before you seduce a girl to be your girlfriend ask her about her virginity.

 

And see how many ladies will respond to that question. You will find out that no one really cares about virginity nowadays because it doesn’t determine a great relationship.

 

Except when it comes to religious issues. For instance, in most cases, Muslims prefer a woman to be a virgin before she gets married because the religion prohibits (Zinaa) sex before marriage.

 

In these cases, is when you should care so much about the state of virginity.

 

So, you should not leave your girlfriend if she is not a virgin as long as she never lied to you about it.

 

Love her for how she is and accept her for who she is. Don’t flood your mind with negative thoughts about her virginity if you want to be happy with her.

 

But if she lied to you about her virginity state then I would advise you to leave her because she is not worth your time.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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