If your girlfriend is pregnant and you have no money then this is something you should do. Some things in life can happen without us being prepared for them. If you knew that your girlfriend would be pregnant then this would have been easier for you.
Anyway, some of the things that happen in our lives we don’t have control of.
But when they happen we have to find ways to get past the challenges that we are facing.
In this article, I’m going to be sharing with you some of the things you can do if your girlfriend is pregnant and you have no money.
Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to know about this issue.
What to do when your girlfriend is pregnant and you have no money;
1. Talk to your girlfriend about your situation.
If your girlfriend is pregnant and you have no money there is no need for you to panic about this.
The moment you start to panic and put so much pressure on yourself you will end up being stressed.
When you are stressed it will be hard for you to handle this situation.
Your girlfriend is already stressed about this especially if she was never ready to have a baby.
If you are stressed and she is also stressed who will help the other?
You will have to be strong as a man and talk to your girlfriend about your financial status.
There is no way you will be able to help each other if you won’t talk to your girlfriend about this.
Take your time to talk to your girlfriend about your financial status and hear what she will say about it.
Let her know that you don’t have the money currently and this situation is makings things difficult for you.
Your girlfriend may have an idea of how she can help you out on this issue.
2. Get to know what your girlfriend thinks about the pregnancy.
The next thing you should do is to ask your girlfriend what she thinks of the pregnancy.
It can be that you are stressing yourself so much about this and your girlfriend doesn’t think of keeping the baby.
So, before you think so hard and stress yourself about anything ask your girlfriend what she thinks about the pregnancy.
Does she want to keep the baby? Is she thinking of aborting the pregnancy?
These are some of the questions you should ask her and the answers you will get from her are what will make you decide which path you should follow.
Don’t force your girlfriend to pick a side because this is something very sensitive and it stresses her too.
It doesn’t matter whether she was ready to have a baby or not this will also stress her.
When you ask her those questions and she takes time to give you the answers that you want then you should be patient.
Give her time to think through this and let her tell you what she feels about the pregnancy on her terms.
If your girlfriend tells you that she is thinking of aborting the pregnancy then there is nothing much you do about it.
To you, it will be a relief because you won’t have to go through all the things I will be talking about in this article.
But if your girlfriend concludes that she wants to keep the baby then you should continue reading the next section of this article.
3. If she will decide to keep the baby you have to find the means to support her.
The moment your girlfriend decides that she is going to keep the baby simply because she is ready for it then you should think of ways you can support her.
Don’t break up with her simply because she told you she is keeping the baby.
You don’t know what the future holds.
She is your girlfriend, you love her, she is the girl you promise to stick with and you did everything to make her happy.
The pregnancy happened because of the love and affection you had for each other.
So, don’t try to break up with your girlfriend simply because she has decided to keep the baby.
As a man, you will have to find the means to support your girlfriend.
She believes in you and she knows you are capable of handling this issue appropriately.
So, don’t let her down. Think of what you will do to earn money so that you can support your girlfriend through this period of her pregnancy.
I can’t lie to you things will be hard but you have to pull through. This is just a challenge and you have to be strong to pass through it.
If you have any skills that you can use to earn yourself some money then you should think of implementing them.
I know you have something that you can teach someone and earn yourself some money.
Not everyone knows what you know.
So, think critically about the means you will use to earn money so that you support your girlfriend while she is pregnant.
4. Find a job to do so that you support your girlfriend.
This is the next thing you should do if you want to support your girlfriend while pregnant.
If your girlfriend is pregnant and she decided to keep the baby then you will have to think of a way you will support her.
This means if you have no job to do then it will force you to find a job.
If you don’t have something you can do that can generate income then you have to go out there and search for a job that you can do to support your girlfriend.
This will be easier for you if you already have some certificates that show your capabilities.
If you don’t have certificates it doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world.
You can jump into online work where people will never ask you for any degrees.
There are so many works you can do online that will give you the quick cash to support your girlfriend while she is pregnant.
You can choose to teach online, be a copywriter, make YouTube videos, do drop shipping and so many other works.
This is something that will help you get several hundred dollars every month that you will use to support your girlfriend.
Don’t just sit down and think there is nothing you can do to earn money.
It’s possible to make it happen.
5. Think of a long term solution to your financial freedom.
Your girlfriend is now pregnant but it will reach a time she will deliver the baby and more responsibilities will start to pop up.
This means you will need more money to support your girlfriend and the kid.
As the kid grows he/she will want to be in school and so many other problems that you will have to have money for you to solve.
So, if you have no money you have to think of a long term solution to your financial freedom.
If you will have several streams that will be bringing in cash every month then it will be easier for you to support your small family.
Think of something that you can do that will keep on bringing money.
A good example is starting a blog, that is if you are into the online world.
You can start a blog and write a hundred articles that will keep on bringing you money every month.
It will take time before you earn your first 5 dollars but once it starts this cash will come in continuously.
This will give you financial freedom and you will use that money from your blog to invest in real estate and other business ideas you may think of.
You will have to have an entrepreneur mindset for you to achieve the things I’m talking about.
Once this happens then you will have it easy with your small family.
If your girlfriend is pregnant and you have no money then you should find a way to support your girlfriend.
You will have to come up with means you can use to support her if she has decided to keep the baby.
This means you will have to find a job that you will do to support your girlfriend.
Don’t break up with your girlfriend simply because she chose to keep the baby.
Hold on to her and find ways you can use to support her financially and emotionally.
You don’t have money today, but this is something that can change if you use the right approach.
Don’t waste your time on issues that will never bring a solution to this issue.
Focus on things that will make you financially free and support your girlfriend and the newborn.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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