Girlfriend Thinks We Don’t Spend Enough Time Together: Do This

If your girlfriend thinks you don’t spend enough time together then this is something you should do. In this article, I will share with you several things to do when your girlfriend thinks you don’t spend much time together.

 

There are several reasons why your girlfriend thinks that you don’t spend much time together.

 

If you will be able to find out these reasons then it will be very easier for you to make her feel that you spend enough time together.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you what you can do about this.

 

What to do when your girlfriend thinks you don’t spend enough time together;

1. Find out why she thinks you don’t spend much time together.

If your girlfriend thinks you don’t spend enough time together then this is something you should do first.

 

Before you think of spending 24 hours with her simply because you want to show her that you are spending enough time together this is the first you should do.

 

You have to find you why your girlfriend thinks you don’t spend much time together.

 

When you find out why she thinks that way then you will be able to come up with the solution for this issue.

 

Some things make her think that you don’t spend much time together.

 

It can be that you don’t spend much time together and that is why she thinks of it and another reason could be that she just doesn’t enough of your attention even when you are around her.

 

These are some of the things that can make your girlfriend think you don’t spend much time together.

 

So, confront her and ask her why she thinks that you don’t spend enough time together.

 

Hear what she has to tell you and take note of the things she points out.

 

Those are the things that you will need to know to make her feel that you spend enough time together.

 

After you have these reasons then it’s time for you to move to the second section of this article.

 

2. Ask her what she expects you to do.

Now that you have an idea why she thinks you don’t spend enough time together this is something else you need to do.

 

There is no way you can fix this if you will choose to do what you think will fix this issue.

 

This is something that comes within her and the solutions also will come from her.

 

Ask your girlfriend what she expects you to do so that she feels you spend enough time together.

 

Listen to what she will tell you and verify if it will be possible for you to do that or not.

 

It can be that your girlfriend wants you to spend 24 hours with her and this is something that can never happen.

 

Especially, if you have a 9-5 job it will be difficult to be around her all day.

 

So, after she has told you what she expects you to do and you know that it’s something you can do then do it to fix this issue.

 

But if she expects something unrealistic from you then I will share with you what you can do about that at the end of the article.

 

3. Make a point of spending several nights with her.

If your girlfriend thinks that you don’t spend enough time together then this is something you should do.

 

Have you been spending nights with her?

 

If you have not been spending several nights with her then this could one of the reasons she feels that you don’t spend enough time together.

 

When you spend a night with your girlfriend she will just feel you have spent so much time together.

 

This is because when you are with her all night you will be giving her so much attention.

 

You will have so much to talk about and so many things to do together. You will never feel the rush of you going anywhere because you have made up your mind that you will be there with her the whole night.

 

This will make you give her so much attention and she will end up feeling that she has all of you.

 

The attention that you will give is what will make her feel that you have spent so much time together.

 

So, if you have not been sleeping over to her place or you haven’t been inviting her to your place for a sleepover then this is something you should consider doing.

 

It will make your girlfriend feel that you have been spending so much time together.

 

4. Use every small window on your schedule to be around her.

If your girlfriend thinks that you don’t spend enough time together and when you take your time to process it you end up finding out that it’s true then this is something you should do.

 

There is no way your relationship with your girlfriend will grow if you will not spend enough time together.

 

A relationship needs commitment and sacrifice for it to work. You wanted to be in a relationship with her, you have to make this work.

 

You have to sacrifice your time for her if you want this to turn into something beautiful.

 

No matter how busy you are you will have to find ways to be around her.

 

Now, she thinks that you don’t spend enough time together as time goes by she will end up concluding that you don’t make time for her.

 

This will make her feel you value her less and this might make her pull herself away from you.

 

Trust me, this is not something you want to experience.

 

So, when you make small efforts to be around her even if your schedule is so tight this will make her feel that you care so much about her.

 

Even the minute that you will spend with her will make her feel you have spent so much time together.

 

Your girlfriend understands that you are a busy person and when you do such a thing for her she will just find the time to be enough for her.

 

Make use of the small windows you have in your schedule if you want to make your girlfriend feel that you spend so much time together.

 

Always makes some excuses to be around her even if it’s for an hour.

 

Use that one hour to make her smile, give her maximum attention, be playful around her and don’t forget to be romantic around her.

 

The moment that one hour is over she will be so thankful that you made an effort to be around her yet you weren’t supposed to be.

 

This is one of the ways that will make her stop thinking that you don’t spend much time together.

 

5. Let her know that you can’t always be there for her.

If your girlfriend thinks that you don’t spend much time together because she has unrealistic expectations of you then this is something you should do.

 

For instance, if your girlfriend expects you to spend 24 hours around her so that she feels you have spent enough time together then this is something you should do.

 

You have to be honest with her about what she expects from you.

 

If what she wants from you is something impossible then don’t be afraid to let her know.

 

Sit down with her and let her know why you can’t always be there for her.

 

This is what will make her understand and appreciate the little time you have with her.

 

Let her know that what you do requires so much of your time but you will try your best to be there for her.

 

You have to make her see that what you are working on is something that will benefit both of you in the future.

 

Ask her to be patient as you work hard on your projects and once they are successful she will have all of you.

 

This is something that will change her mind about the time she wants to spend with you.

 

It will get rid of the unrealistic expectations she has of you.

 

If you feel so tied up with your work then let her know about it and let her know what you will do to make it up to her.

 

Once your girlfriend understands this then she will stop thinking that you don’t spend enough time together.

 

She will appreciate every minute she gets with you.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend thinks that you don’t spend much time together and when you think about it you find it to be true then you have to make time for her.

 

There are no excuses, if you want this relationship to work then you have to sacrifice your time for her.

 

You don’t have an alternative to this. Make yourself available for her and this will change how she thinks about the time you spend together.

 

Also, when she thinks you don’t spend enough time together ask her what she expects you to do to fix that.

 

It can be that she just has a simple fix for what she is feeling.

 

All in all, if you want to make her feel that you spend enough time together then you have to learn how to communicate with her.

 

If there is anything that hinders you from always being there for her then let her know the truth.

 

Let her know the things you are dealing with and this will change how she feels and think about you.

 

This is what will make her appreciate the one hour you will have with her.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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