My Girlfriend Wants Nothing To Do With My Family: Do This

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family then you have to do something about it. You have to try to come up with ways you can get her to connect with your family if you are thinking of moving the relationship to the next level.

 

It will be hard for you to be with her if she wants nothing to do with your family because at one point or another you will have to involve her in your family issues.

 

Your family is the most important thing in your life and your girlfriend should take note of that.

 

I know you can’t force her to like your family but at least come up with ways you make her see the need for her to connect with your family.

 

If you get any problem that she can’t handle the only people she will think of calling is your family.

 

I think you see the need for her to connect with your family even if she wants nothing to do with them.

 

If she wants to be part of your life then this is something she will have to do.

 

After all, she will not be living with your family, she will be living with you.

 

With that much said, let me share with you several things you can do to make your girlfriend at least connect to your family.

 

What to do when your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family;

1. Find out why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family then this is the first thing you should do.

 

You have to find out why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family.

 

I don’t think it’s possible for her to hate your family without having a solid reason behind that.

 

She understands that they are your family and they will always be connected to you.

 

So, why should she hate them in the first place?

 

There is a reason behind why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family.

 

If you will find these reasons is when you will have a rough idea of how you can tackle this issue.

 

The first thing you have to do is to talk to her.

 

Get her in a situation where you can have a meaningful conversation and ask her why she doesn’t want anything to do with your family.

 

Let her tell you why she doesn’t want to connect with your family.

 

Gather the reasons she will tell you because from them you will find the solution to this issue.

 

2. Try to eliminate issues that make her want nothing to do with your family.

After you have all the reasons why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family then it’s time for you to work out these issues.

 

You have to try and eliminate the things that make your girlfriend want nothing to do with your family.

 

If it’s something you can fix then you should put in the effort to fix it.

 

For instance, if your girlfriend told you she doesn’t want anything to do with your family simply because they never treated her nicely the last time she met them then come up with a way to fix this.

 

Now that your know your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family simply because of how she was treated by them the last time she was around them, you will have to approach your family about this issue.

 

The main cause of your girlfriend wanting nothing to do with your family was brought about by your family.

 

You will have to call your family for a meeting and let them know what they did to your girlfriend wasn’t appropriate.

 

Let them know that the way they treated your girlfriend made her disconnect herself from them and they should find a way to apologize to her.

 

If your family never meant to hurt her feelings on purpose then they will never find it a big issue to apologise to her.

 

They will be happy to talk to your girlfriend and let her know how sorry they are for the things they did to her.

 

And this will fix this issue.

 

But if your family never treated your girlfriend nicely simply because they don’t like her then they will be real with you.

 

They will say straight to your face that they don’t like your girlfriend.

 

If this is the case then your girlfriend has the right to want nothing to do with them because they don’t like her.

 

You will have to let her be.

 

So, if there is anything that your girlfriend told you about why she wants nothing to do with your family that is fixable then try to come up with a way to fix it.

 

But if she just wants nothing to do with your family because of her selfish reasons then you should do what I’m about to share with you next in this article.

 

3. Let her know the importance of her connecting with your family.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family then this is the next thing you should do.

 

You have to let her know how important it’s for her to connect with your family.

 

This is something that will push her to connect with your family if she cares about you.

 

Share with her the need for her to connect to your family and let her know that your family means everything to you.

 

Let her know the things that will require her to connect with your family.

 

Like the things, I talked about when I was starting this topic.

 

Let her know that when you are in trouble the only people she will need to call are your family.

 

If she will have to call your family when you have problems that she can’t manage that will force her to have a good relationship with your family.

 

And the next important part is making the relationship official.

 

Let her know that if you want to make your relationship official she will have to be before your family for this to happen.

 

When you want to get married your family will have to be there.

 

So, let her know that she can’t disconnect herself away from your family because they are important to your relationship journey.

 

The moment it clicks in her mind that she can’t disconnect herself completely from your family because of your relationship then she will find ways to connect herself with your family.

 

4. Come up with frequent activities that will make your girlfriend connect with your family.

The next thing you have to do if your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family is to have frequent occasions that will make her connect to your family.

 

This is something that will help her connect to your family.

 

You will have to think of ways you can make your girlfriend and your family come close.

 

This means you will always have to invite your family over to your place a couple of times.

 

Also, you will have to be hosting Thanksgiving dinner at your place, hosting your birthday at your family’s place, calling your family over for the holidays and trying to make your girlfriend connect to your family.

 

It will need much effort for this to happen but as time goes by your girlfriend will end up feeling connected to your family.

 

She will end up liking your family because of how frequently she will be hanging out with them.

 

If she is willing to connect to them then this will happen as time goes by.

 

5. Make your decisions according to her response.

After you have tried everything to make your girlfriend connect with your family then you should now make your decisions according to how your girlfriend reacted to what you did.

 

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family because your family don’t like her and you know that this is true and you have tried everything to make your family like her but nothing seems to be working, then you have to let your girlfriend be.

 

There is nothing else that you can do about this. Your family doesn’t like her and that is why she wants nothing to do with them.

 

So, let your girlfriend be the way she is.

 

But if your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family simply because of her selfish reasons then you should let her know that it will affect your relationship.

 

Let her know that if she wants to be with you and she cares about you she should also care about your family.

 

Your family is connected to you and if she wants nothing to do with them then this shows that she wants nothing with you too.

 

When you let your girlfriend know this fact then she will be ready to turn things around.

 

That is if she cares about you and she wants to keep the relationship going.

 

But if she doesn’t care about you and she is not afraid to lose you then she won’t care about what you will ask her to do.

 

You might like this: Why Your Girlfriend Is Not Afraid To Lose You

 

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family due to her selfish reasons even after you have tried to let her know what is at stake then you will have to let her go.

 

There is no way you will move that relationship to the next level if she will want nothing to do with your family even after you have tried everything to turn things around.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family because of how they treat her then you should find a way to make your family treat your girlfriend nicely and ask them to apologize to her for treating her badly.

 

But if your family hates your girlfriend because they don’t want you to date her yet you made your decision to be with her then you should not force issues.

 

Let your girlfriend be the way she wants. There is no way you can force your family to like your girlfriend.

 

Just let your girlfriend stay disconnected from your family because that is what will make your relationship healthy.

 

But if your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family due to her selfish reasons yet you have told her that she is putting your relationship at risk then you should cut her off.

 

There is no way that relationship will move forward if your girlfriend wants nothing to do with your family.

 

If she cares about you then she also has to care about your family, if she wants nothing to do with your family then she wants nothing to do with you too.

 

Someone who loves you will love everything about you and what is connected to you.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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