Why Your Girlfriend Wants Nothing To Do With You (+Do This)

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you and you want to fix this issue then this is an article you should read.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you and what you can do to change this situation.

 

This situation can be tough to handle if you have no idea why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you.

 

The reasons that I will share with you in this article, will give you a clear picture of how to handle your girlfriend in this situation.

 

I will also share with you easy ways you can use to make your girlfriend want you around again.

 

With that much said, let me get into today’s topic.

 

Should you break with your girlfriend immediately when she wants nothing to do with you?

 

I will give you the answer to that question in this article.

 

Why your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you;

1. Your girlfriend is losing interest in you.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you the first thing you should know is that this behaviour is influenced by how she feels about you.

 

What your girlfriend feels about you is what will determine either if she will want you close or not.

 

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you then know that she is losing interest in you.

 

It can also be that her interest in you is lost completely and that is why she wants nothing to do.

 

The moment your girlfriend loses her interest in you this will change how she feels about you.

 

Her feelings for you will vanish and she will not want you around because she doesn’t feel connected to you anymore.

 

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The interest that your girlfriend may have in you is what will make her want you around.

 

This is what will make her feel the need to put effort into that relationship to keep you around.

 

The moment the interest she has in you is fading then you will turn out to be the person she hates the most.

 

She will keep on pushing you away, doing things that will hurt you intentionally and she will even stop caring about you.

 

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The next thing that you will notice is that she will be distanced from you, she will not be affectionate around you and she will keep picking fights when you are around her.

 

This is all because she has lost interest in you and she no longer feels what she used to feel for you and that is why she wants nothing to do with you.

 

I will share with you what you can do about this.

 

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2. She hates how you treat her.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you this shows she is unhappy with how you handle her.

 

The way you handle your girlfriend is what will either make her want you close or push you away.

 

The moment you don’t treat your girlfriend the way she wants, you keep hurting her feelings by the way you handle her and you don’t consider the things that she wants, she will react negatively to that.

 

For the first few weeks or months, she may just be calm observing if you will change how you handle her.

 

She will not be quick to shout at you when you do something that irritates her.

 

But when she is fully done with what you keep doing to her this is when you will see the real her.

 

When your girlfriend is not happy with the way you treat her, she will not want you close to her.

 

She will want nothing to do with you.

 

If you keep hurting her, why should she keep entertaining you?

 

Your girlfriend will show you that she wants nothing to do with you unless you figure out a way to change how you treat her.

 

No girl will want to be around a man who treats her like a piece of trash.

 

Women love to be treated with care because they are delicate people.

 

These are people that can change how they feel about you depending on the things you do around them.

 

So, if your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you then know that she is just not happy with the way you treat her.

 

If she was happy with how you treated her then she would have pulled you closer to show you how she feels about you.

 

3. She is mad at you.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you then know that it also has something to do with how your relationship with her is.

 

When your girlfriend is mad at you because of something you did to hurt her feelings, she will not want anything to do with you.

 

Don’t make your girlfriend mad and expect her to handle you like she used to.

 

She will never be that nice girl you used to know, she will do everything to push you away from her.

 

The moment a girl is mad at you for something you did she will never make peace with you.

 

She will not look at you the same way she used to.

 

This is because of the negative tension that will be between the two of you.

 

There will be no good vibes between the two of you because of how she perceives you.

 

She will not want anything to do with you unless you fix what you did to make her mad at you.

 

Also, if you did something that hurt her feelings and you never bothered to apologize to her then know that she is mad and that is why she doesn’t want anything to do with you.

 

The only thing that will make her want you around her is if you fix the mess you made.

 

4. She is just pushing you away.

When your girlfriend wants to push you away because of how she feels about you then she will want nothing to do with you.

 

There are so many reasons why a girl may want to push you away.

 

Your girlfriend will push you away when she doesn’t feel the same for you, she is mad at you, she wants to be distanced from you, she is bored with you and she is stressed and exhausted from being with you.

 

So, if your girlfriend wants to push you away because of any reason she will not want anything to do with you.

 

She will never give you the attention she used you, she will keep doing to annoy you, she will treat you badly and she will not want you next to her.

 

Your girlfriend knows that when she does things to show you that she doesn’t want anything to do with you it will make you distanced.

 

She knows that you won’t tolerate her treating you like that and that is why she is doing it.

 

By wanting nothing to do with you it will make you feel that she doesn’t want you around and you will choose to be distanced from her.

 

That distance that you will give her is what she wants.

 

She is doing all things so that she can distance herself from you.

 

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When your girlfriend wants to push you away she will want nothing to do with you so you create the distance that she wants you to.

 

5. She exhausted being with you.

Can someone get exhausted by being with you?

 

Yes! Someone can get exhausted by being with you depending on how you handle them.

 

Your girlfriend may want nothing to do with you because she is just tired of being around you.

 

The moment when your relationship with your girlfriend is a mess, you are in constant conflicts, nothing between the two of you connects and the relationship seems complicated your girlfriend will get exhausted from being in this kind of a relationship.

 

Is your relationship with your girlfriend this way?

 

If your relationship has a lot of issues and every day you keep getting yourselves into a new conflict then it will reach a point your girlfriend will no longer take this.

 

She will want nothing to do with you because she is exhausted from fixing the relationship.

 

Your girlfriend will want nothing with you because you keep her in constant pain and stress.

 

She can’t even think of the things that matter to her and the only thing she always thinks of is how to make the relationship between the two of you work.

 

The moment your girlfriend is under this pressure, it will reach a point whereby she will just turn off.

 

When she concludes that she is done fixing the issues between the two of you that is when she will want nothing to do with you.

 

So, if your girlfriend is exhausted from being with you because of how things are in your relationship then she will want nothing to do with you.

 

6. You don’t give her what she wants.

When you don’t give your girlfriend what she wants then she will not want anything to do with you.

 

What she needs is what will make her happy and keep on pulling you closer to her.

 

If she wants nothing to do with you then know that you don’t give her what she wants.

 

The moment you don’t give your girlfriend what she wants she will start to pull away from you.

 

If you can’t give her what she wants why should she pull you closer to her?

 

If your girlfriend wants something from you but she is not getting it then don’t expect her to treat you the way she used to.

 

She will never be happy around you because you don’t give her what she needs.

 

This is what will make her push you away completely.

 

So, if you know she wants something from you and you have never given it to her then know that this is the main reason why she doesn’t want anything to do with you.

 

7. She is in love with someone else.

Your girlfriend can still fall in love with someone else the way she fell in love with you.

 

If she found you attractive and fell for you that is the same way she will find someone else attractive and want to be with him.

 

The moment your girlfriend falls in love with someone else the only thing she will want to do is to focus all her attention and energy on the new person that she fell in love with.

 

This means she will stop giving you the attention she used to, she will push you away, she will hurt you intentionally and she distance herself from you.

 

If lately, your girlfriend has not been the girl you used to know, she has changed the way she handles you, she is always going out without letting you know, she doesn’t spend time with you anymore then know that she is into someone else.

 

She wants nothing to do with you because she is giving all her energy and attention to the person she fell in love with recently.

 

If you have come across any of the things I have talked about then know that your girlfriend is in love with someone else.

 

She wants nothing to do with you because she just wants you to leave her alone.

 

8. She wants to end the relationship.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you, she is pushing you away and she doesn’t want to work things out with you then know that she wants to end the relationship.

 

When your girlfriend is no longer feeling you, she is tired of being with you, she hates how you treat her and she is not happy with you she will want to end the relationship.

 

The moment she wants to end the relationship with you she will make things hard for you.

 

She will keep doing things to push you away to the edge.

 

By doing this she will be distancing herself from you and cutting the romantic connections she has with you.

 

Also, you will notice that she comes up with so many excuses not to be around.

 

She will never prioritize you and she will behave like you are not even dating.

 

All these are things that are meant to destroy your relationship.

 

But she is doing them intentionally without even caring how you feel about them.

 

Your girlfriend is doing all this to end the relationship with you. It has reached a point where the relationship feels nothing to her.

 

And this is why she wants nothing from you. The moment your girlfriend has made up her mind that she is done with the relationship then it will be hard for her to turn back from that.

 

Is there anything you can do about this if your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you?

 

What to do when your girlfriend wants nothing with you;

1. Find out why she wants nothing to do with you.

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you then this is the first thing you should do.

 

The only way you can fix this issue is by knowing what is bothering your girlfriend.

 

The moment you have an idea why she doesn’t want anything to do with you is when you will have a chance of fixing this issue between the two of you.

 

You can find all this information from her because she is the one pushing you away.

 

Get her in a situation where you can have a conversation with her about your issues.

 

Ask her why she doesn’t want anything to do with you and note down all the reasons that make her push you away.

 

If you will be able to fix the issues that make her not want anything to do with you then you will be able to solve this issue.

 

2. Fix any misunderstandings between the two of you.

The next thing you should do is to fix the misunderstandings between the two of you.

 

If she wants nothing to do with you because of something you did that annoyed her then you should start by fixing that.

 

Apologize to her for the mistakes you did, show her that you are sorry for the things you did to hurt her and try to make peace between the two of you.

 

If she never wanted anything to do with you because she was mad at you for the things you did then this will change.

 

The next thing you should do is to fix the issues that make her want nothing to do with you.

 

The information that you collected from her after you asked her why she doesn’t want anything to do with you is what you will use.

 

If she told you that she wants nothing to do with you because of how you treat her then you should make a point of changing how you treat her.

 

Treat her the way she wants and she will eventually pull you closer to her.

 

Try your best to deal with the issues that she told you and you will be able to fix this problem.

 

Use specific approaches to different problems she told you and you will eventually make her pull you closer again.

 

3. Rekindle the feelings she had for you

If your girlfriend wants nothing to do with you then it’s because of how she feels about you.

 

Her feelings for you are the main reasons why she is behaving this way.

 

All the reasons I shared with you at one point will connect to how she feels about you.

 

The only way to make her want something to do with you is to rekindle the feelings she had for you.

 

Try to do things that will make her feel you again and she will want you closer.

 

When wants nothing with you just don’t panic.

 

The only thing you can do is to do things that make her feel you more.

 

This means you have to change the way you treat her, you be more romantic to her, you give her more of your attention, you spend more time with her and do things that will make her happy.

 

Do things that will make her feel you and this will rekindle the feelings she had for you.

 

Come up with up things you can do to make her pull you closer.

 

Do the things she likes and completely avoid anything that turns her off.

 

4. Ask her what she wants from you.

After you have tried to rekindle her feelings you and things don’t seem to be working, this is the next thing you should do.

 

If she wants nothing with you after you have done all those things then ask her what she wants you to do.

 

It can be that you are doing the wrong things and that is why she keeps pushing you away.

 

Get to know what she wants you to do so that she can change how she handles you.

 

If the only thing she wants from you is to give her space then you should do it even if you don’t want to do it.

 

And if she wants you to do something that she prefers to that she pulls you closer then you should go ahead and do it.

 

As long as it’s not something that will hurt your feelings or hers.

 

5. Give her space.

If you have tried everything and nothing seems to be working then this is the next thing you should do.

 

You will have to give her space to figure out what she wants.

 

Taking a break from this relationship will be the only thing that you will have to do.

 

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If she is stressed and she wants time to process she what is handling then time apart will solve this.

 

Also, when you give her space, she will get to know how she feels about you.

 

If she will miss you during the period that you have given her space then she get back to you and this will drive things back to normal.

 

This is the only thing you will do to make her recognize how she feels about you.

 

The space you will give her will either break the relationship or build it depending on how she still feels about you.

 

If she wants nothing to do with you simply because she no longer feels you and she wants to end the relationship the space will break your relationship into pieces.

 

On the other hand, if she had issues that she was dealing with and made it hard for her to manage the relationship then the space will get her, even more, closer to you.

 

After she has dealt with her problems she will get back to you and explain what was going on.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have given her space and she doesn’t bother getting back to you after a month then know that she no longer wanted to be with you and that is why she wanted nothing to do with you.

 

The only thing you can do if she doesn’t get back to you after the space you have given her is to let her go.

 

There is no need to keep pushing her to let you in yet that is not what she wants to do.

 

You will have to admit that she no longer loves you and step on your feelings and move on.

 

If you keep forcing yourself on her then you will end up hurting yourself.

 

Also, it can be that she wanted to end the relationship with you and that is why she wanted nothing to do with you.

 

If this is the case then nothing you could have done to change her mind if she decided that is what she wanted to do.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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