7 Reasons Why Your Girlfriend Wants You To Move Out

If your girlfriend wants you to move out and you don’t know why she recommends it then I have several reasons that I will share with you in this article.

 

Your girlfriend can’t just wake up and tell you to move out without any reason.

 

I will list some of these reasons in this article that will give you an idea of what to do about it.

 

Without further ado, let me get into it.

 

This is why your girlfriend wants you to move out;

1. She wants space from you.

If your girlfriend wants you to move out after you have stayed with her for a while then this is the reason behind that.

 

Your girlfriend wants space from you.

 

Staying together with your girlfriend is not as simple as you may think.

 

The first week or month you will be so happy that you moved in together with her.

 

But as time goes by this excitement will keep on declining.

 

And it will reach a time where you will all feel that you need space from each other.

 

Especially, if you have a lot of unresolved conflicts and some misunderstandings it will be hard for both of you to live together.

 

So, if your girlfriend asked you to move out then it’s because she wants some space from you.

 

She wants to be alone for a while to figure things out.

 

If she asked you to move out after you had an argument or a fight then know that she wants some space from you.

 

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Also, if you noticed that her excitement is no longer visible then know that she is stressed about moving in with you and that is why she asked you to move out.

 

It can be that she is not happy and that is why she asked you to move out.

 

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2. She is losing interest in you.

This is another reason why your girlfriend asked you to move out.

 

She is losing interest in you and that is why she wants you to move out.

 

When a girl loses interest in you she will not feel connected to you. She will want to be distanced from you.

 

And since she doesn’t feel you there is no way she will be happy staying with you.

 

Several things can make a girl lose interest in you. Check the article below to know what you can do about it.

 

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So, when a girl loses interest in you she will just want to be far away from you.

 

You will notice that the way she is treating you is not the same way she used to.

 

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The way she talks to you will change, she will start doing things that hurt your feelings intentionally and she will no longer care about you.

 

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If you noticed these signs before she asked you to move out then know that she is losing interest in you.

 

3. She is overwhelmed.

If she wants you to move out then this could be another reason.

 

When you move in with your girlfriend things will never be the same.

 

You will not have a chance to turn yourself away from your partner because you will be together every second.

 

This can be too much to handle.

 

Especially, when it comes to a point where you will have to do anything keeping in mind how your partner will feel about it.

 

Not all people can handle this. You might have thought moving in together with your partner was a good choice but your girlfriend may not be feeling the same.

 

If your girlfriend has so much to handle and she feels that she can’t do anything important when you are around her then she will want you to move out.

 

So, if she feels that she finds it too much to concentrate on the issues she is doing and at the same time make sure you are always happy then this might have been the reason that made her want you to move out.

 

She is feeling overwhelmed because she has to deal with you and other issues that are draining her emotionally.

 

All these things make her feel like she can’t breathe when she is around you and that is why she wants you to move out.

 

4. She no longer feels comfortable staying with you.

The way someone feels around you will at one point change.

 

This may be the same case with your girlfriend.

 

The way you handle each other is what will determine whether you will feel comfortable around each other or not.

 

If you did anything that made her feel uncomfortable being around you then she will want you to give her space.

 

Since she can’t tell you to give her space while you are staying together then she will want you to move out.

 

A girl will be uncomfortable around you when you do the following things;

  • When you invade her privacy.
  • You don’t treat her the way she wants.
  • You are pushy on everything you want.
  • You are always controlling her.
  • When you make fun of her frequently.
  • You make everything about yourself when you are around her.
  • You force her to talk about things she doesn’t feel like.

 

These are some of the things that will make your girlfriend feel uncomfortable staying with you.

 

So, if you did any of these things and she no longer feels comfortable around you then she will ask you to move out.

 

She knows that if you keep staying with her things might end up turning ugly.

 

And she doesn’t want that to happen.

 

5. You don’t meet her expectations.

This is another reason why your girlfriend wants you to move out.

 

If your girlfriend had different expectations when she decided to move in with you and none of these expectations has been met she will ask you to move out.

 

We all have certain expectations when we do something.

 

These expectations are what will always drive us to do things that add value to our relationship and at the same time, these expectations are the ones going to kill our energy.

 

If your girlfriend had high expectations of some of the things that will happen when you move in together and it turned out the opposite of what she expected then this is what could have made her unhappy.

 

And since she is not happy with how things are progressing after you moved in together she will not continue to stay with you.

 

This is why she wants you to move out.

 

6. You are too dependent on her.

If your girlfriend wants you to move out then it can be that she finds you to be too dependent on her.

 

This is something you should ask yourself, “I am too dependent on her?”

 

It can be that you do nothing for her since you moved in.

 

When you move in with your girlfriend she will expect you to divide responsibilities.

 

She may have not told you about it because she thought you understood everything about moving in with her.

 

So, if she has been paying for everything in that house while you did nothing and she eventually asked you to move out then know that she is tired.

 

She is tired of taking care of you and supporting you financially.

 

It can be that she doesn’t want to tell you that you are too dependent on her because she doesn’t want you to feel that she is being mean to you.

 

I’m sure you would eventually be exhausted staying with someone who depends on you to do everything for them.

 

7. She just doesn’t feel like staying with you.

Moving in with someone can be a pretty cool thing.

 

But you should know those feelings do change over time. The way she may be feeling current is not the same way she felt when you moved in together.

 

It’s all about the vibe sometimes. If you don’t feel like doing something then you will prefer not to do it.

 

So, it can be that your girlfriend doesn’t feel like staying with you.

 

She just doesn’t feel the vibe of being with you every day and that is why she wants you to move out.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend wants you to move out the first thing you should do is to respect her decision.

 

Don’t get mad about it because she is not telling you to break up with her.

 

After you have moved out try to reach out to her and ask her why she wanted you to move out.

 

When you know the reason then try to fix that issue with her if it’s something fixable.

 

If she wanted you to move out after an argument or a fight then try your best to resolve the issue between the two of you and she might want you to move in with her again.

 

You should not force yourself to stay with her if she wants you to move out.

 

Give her space to figure out the things she wants to, if everything is okay she will ask you to move in.

 

If her interest in you is fading then it’s time for you to do things that will make her interested in you again.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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