My Girlfriend Won’t Stop Being Friends With Ex: Do This

If your girlfriend won’t stop being friends with her ex then this is what you should do. In this article, I will share with you what to do when your girlfriend won’t stop being friends with her ex.

 

You have to do something about this if you want your relationship with her to survive.

 

Being friends with her ex is a red flag! Should you break up with her immediately when she won’t stop being friends with her ex?

 

Before you think of breaking up with her this is something you should try to do first.

 

What to do when your girlfriend won’t stop being friends with her ex;

1. Find out why she won’t stop being friends with her ex.

If your girlfriend won’t stop being friends with her ex and this is something that bothers you then this is the first thing you should do.

 

Take your time to find out why she won’t stop being friends with her ex.

 

It can be that there is a certain reason that makes her be friends with her ex.

 

Maybe it’s something very important.

 

So, before you do anything try to find out why she won’t stop being friends with her ex.

 

And you will find this information from her.

 

She is your girlfriend, you have the right to ask her why she doesn’t want to stop being friends with her ex.

 

Sit down with her and let her give you the reasons why she won’t stop being friends with her ex.

 

Listen to what she tells you and before you conclude anything, take your time to verify those reasons.

 

Do you think it’s appropriate for her to be friends with her ex because of the reasons she gave you?

 

Let me make it easier for you to verify what she told you before you do something else.

 

The only reason that should make your girlfriend be friends with her ex is if they have a kid or they are still running a business together that is tied to their names.

 

And there is a risk of that business failing if one of the pulls aside from the business.

 

If it’s the issue of the kid your girlfriend will have to be in touch with her ex if she has the kid with her.

 

Her ex has the right to know how the kid is doing.

 

These are the only situations that should make your girlfriend be friends with her ex.

 

If this is not the case, then your girlfriend should never give you any reason for her to be friends with her ex.

 

Also, in the situation I have shared with you above, your girlfriend should put a boundary between her and her ex.

 

If your girlfriend gave you any other reason apart from the two situations I have shared with you then she should ask her to end that friendship with her ex.

 

2. Let her know how you feel about it.

If your girlfriend won’t stop being friends with her ex then this is the next thing you should do.

 

You have to let her know that you don’t feel comfortable with her being friends with her ex.

 

Let her know that what she is doing is something that keeps hurting your feelings.

 

If you haven’t told her how you feel about it then you should make the effort of doing it.

 

It can be that she thinks you are okay with her being friends with her ex.

 

The moment you open up to her about how you feel about the issue of her being friends with her ex then you will be able to make her stop being friends with him without any further action.

 

If your girlfriend cares about you and she knows that her being friends with her ex is something that hurts your feelings then she will end the friendship.

 

She will cut her ex off. But if she doesn’t care about you she will bring an issue about this.

 

The next thing you will have to do after you have told her about how you feel is to ask her to end the friendship.

 

3. Ask her to end the friendship with her ex.

If you have already told her that you are not comfortable with her being friends with her ex then this is something else you should do.

 

You should ask her to end the friendship with her ex.

 

Be real with her if you want this issue to stop. If you won’t tell her to end the friendship with her ex then it might never stop.

 

This is not the time you should be making jokes about it. You should show her that you are serious about what you want her to do.

 

But If you ask her to end the friendship with her ex and yet you are smiling at her then she will never take you seriously.

 

She will conclude that you are just joking around.

 

Ask her to end the friendship with her ex and be firm about it.

 

She should not give you any “but” she should do what you ask her to do.

 

The response that she will give you when you ask her to end the friendship with her ex is what will guide you to take the next action.

 

4. Take necessary action according to her response.

If your girlfriend listens to you and ends the friendship with her ex then that is great.

 

This shows that she cares about you, she loves you and she wants to keep the relationship going.

 

But if she will refuse to end the friendship with her ex and she makes this a big deal out of this then know that she doesn’t love you, she doesn’t care about you and it can be that something is going on between her and her ex.

 

Also, it can be that she is still in love with her ex and that is why she won’t stop being friends with him.

 

You can check the article below to know some of the reasons why your girlfriend won’t stop being friends with her ex.

 

You might like this: Why A Girl Would Want To Be Friends With He Ex

 

If after you have asked her to end the friendship with her ex and she won’t do it then the only option you will have is to end the relationship with her. This shows she is still in love with her ex and she is only taking you for granted.

 

You might like this: How To Walk Away When Someone Takes You For Granted

 

Lastly…

 

If there is nothing that makes your girlfriend be friends with her ex then you should ask her to end the friendship at once.

 

This is not something you should debate with her.

 

She should do what you ask her to do because it’s not right for her to be friends with her ex.

 

If your girlfriend is still in love with her ex or something is going on between them then she will not stop being friends with him.

 

And if she won’t stop being friends with him then your last option will be cutting her off.

 

There is no need to be with her because she is surely taking you for granted.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

Previous articles in Love Profile.

  1. Why She Still Have Pictures Of Her Ex
  2. My Girlfriend Won’t Tell Her Ex About Me: Why
  3. My Girlfriend Keeps Changing Her Mind About Us: Why
  4. Why Your Girlfriend Keeps Talking About Her Ex? (Explained)
  5. My Girlfriend Pays More Attention To Other Guys: Do This
7 Reasons Why Your Girlfriend Is A ...
7 Reasons Why Your Girlfriend Is A Private And Secretive Person

Leave a Comment