My Guy Friend Talks Bad About My Boyfriend: Do This

If your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend then here is something you need to know about him. There is a reason why your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why your guy friend does that and what you can do about this.

 

The first thing you should keep in mind is that your guy friend is trying to change how you feel for your boyfriend.

 

He knows talking bad about your boyfriend will change how you perceive him.

 

It can be that your friend is trying to end your relationship with him.

 

There is so much you can conclude from this.

 

Without wasting much time, let me share with you these reasons why your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend.

 

Why your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend;

1. He hates your boyfriend.

If your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend then this is one of the reasons why he does that.

 

Your guy friend hates your boyfriend and that is why he talks bad about him.

 

Check your relationship between your guy friend and boyfriend. Are they close enough?

 

If your boyfriend is not a big fan of your guy friend then know that there is friction between them.

 

This friction is what makes your guy friend talk bad about your boyfriend.

 

If your boyfriend was a good friend to your guy friend then I don’t think this could have happened at all.

 

You never know, it can be that your guy friend and your boyfriend crossed paths one day because of you and they both never told you about it.

 

So, if there is anything that happened between these two then this could be the main reason why your guy friend talks bad about him.

 

On the other hand, if your boyfriend is not friends with your guy friend and he talks bad about him then know that he just has a hatred for him.

 

He hates him and that is why he talks bad about him and there is more to it, continue reading to know the rest of the reasons.

 

2. He wants you to end your relationship with him.

How will your guy friend benefit from talking bad about your boyfriend?

 

Will he get paid for talking bad about him?

 

Your guy friend is doing this for a reason. He wants you to end your relationship with him and that is why he is talking bad about him.

 

He knows that when he talks bad about your boyfriend then this will change how you perceive him and this will eventually change your feelings for him.

 

And the moment your feelings for him changes because your guy friend has corrupted you with the bad things that he tells you about your boyfriend then you will end up ending the relationship.

 

This is what your guy friend is aiming at and that is why he keeps talking bad about your boyfriend.

 

There is a possibility that he doesn’t like the fact that you are in a relationship with him.

 

And he knows the only to change your mind about your relationship with him is to tell you bad things about him.

 

Your guy friend is not happy for you.

 

If he was happy for you then he would have supported you with the decisions you chose to make.

 

He would have talked good about your boyfriend and he would have encouraged you to stick to him.

 

But if this is the case, this means when something bad happens in your relationship your guy friend will be the first one to tell you to end the relationship.

 

He will never give you advice on how you can save your relationship but end it.

 

Your guy friend wants you to end your relationship with your boyfriend and that is why he is talking bad about him.

 

3. Your guy friend wants you to date him.

Your guy may be talking bad about your boyfriend simply because he wants you for himself.

 

Have you thought of that? It can be that your guy friend has feelings for you and that is why he is not happy that you decided to date the guy you are with.

 

Try to think about how your guy friend used to handle you. Has he ever shown any romantic interest in you?

 

Has he ever asked you out on a date? Has ever expressed his feelings to you by either words or actions?

 

These are some of the questions you should ask yourself before you conclude that he wants you.

 

If your guy friend has ever shown any interest in you then know that he wants to be with him and not the guy you have right now.

 

On the other hand, if he has never shown any interest in you then know that he has feelings for you but he never had the courage to express what he felt for you.

 

When he realized that you are dating someone else this made him furious and he can’t get over the fact that you are dating someone else and not him.

 

Your guy friend has a romantic interest in you and he knows talking bad about your boyfriend will change your mind about your current relationship.

 

If he talks bad about your boyfriend and praises himself then know that he wants you to leave your boyfriend and date him instead.

 

Anyway, if this is something that has been happening for a long time don’t be afraid to confront him.

 

Ask your guy friend how he feels about you and hear what he will have to say about it.

 

I will share with you what you can do about this situation at the end of this article.

 

Continue reading the reasons.

 

4. He wants to make you feel bad for dating him.

Your guy friend may not want to date you and he may not even have feelings for you.

 

He may be talking bad about your boyfriend just to make you feel bad about dating him.

 

You have to know that not all of your friends will be good to you.

 

Some of your friends will hate the progress you make in your life. They will always want you to be on the same level as them.

 

Your guy friend is not happy with you being in a relationship with him.

 

He just wants to make you feel bad about the decision you made.

 

It can be that your guy friend just wants to torture you. He knows talking bad about your boyfriend will make you hate yourself for dating him.

 

Also, if he has ever told you not to date him and you ended up dating him then know that is why he wants to make you feel bad about the decision you made.

 

Your guy friend enjoys seeing you unhappy and blaming yourself for the things that you decide to do in your life.

 

You may ask me, what is he benefiting from this?

 

Your guy friend just likes the fact when you feel so down around him, he pretends he is taking good care of you so that he can keep you around.

 

He knows this is the only way he can keep you around.

 

5. He doesn’t see your boyfriend the way you do.

Have you thought of the things that your guy friend talks about your boyfriend?

 

Do the things make sense to you? Do you think your guy may be telling you the truth?

 

If you haven’t then take your time to think about the things that your guy friend tells you.

 

It can be that you are blinded by your love for your boyfriend and that is why you don’t see the negative side of things.

 

Your guy friend may be trying to protect you from him and that is why he is telling you about these things and all you can think of is that he just wants to end your relationship with him.

 

The way you see your boyfriend, may not be the same way that your guy friend does.

 

So, before you conclude that your guy friend is talking bad about your boyfriend just to ruin your relationship take your time and observe your boyfriend from a different mirror.

 

Don’t look at him as your lover, try to look at him as a stranger and see if the things your guy friend tells you about are real.

 

If you don’t find the truth about what your guy friend tells you about your boyfriend then you should do what I will share with you in the next section of this article.

 

What to do when your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend.

If your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend and when you confirm what he tells you about him is all lies then you should cut off your guy friend. He is not happy for you and all he is doing is trying to destroy your relationship with your boyfriend.

 

The truth is that if you keep listening to the bad things that he tells you about your boyfriend you may find yourself believing them.

 

And once that happens you will find yourself leaving your boyfriend simply because of what your guy friend told you.

 

If you have confirmed what your guy friend told you about your boyfriend and you have found that it’s all lies then you should get rid of him.

 

He is your enemy and this is not someone you should trust.

 

On the other hand, if you have found out that what your guy friend talks about your boyfriend is true don’t be quick to make any decision based on the words you have heard from your guy friend.

 

Talk to your boyfriend first and hear his side of the story.

 

Lastly…

 

When your guy friend talks bad about your boyfriend the first thing you should do is to confirm what he says about him.

 

Don’t just dump your boyfriend based on what your guy friend talks about your boyfriend.

 

The moment you find you that what he is talking about your boyfriend is a lie just get rid of him.

 

He is not a true friend to you. The only thing he wants is to destroy your relationship and have you for himself.

 

If you find out that what your guy friend talks about your boyfriend is true then don’t make any decision based on what you have heard from your guy unless you talk to your boyfriend.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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