When A Guy Says I Can’t Give You What You Want

when a guy says he can't give you what you want

When a guy says he can’t give you what you want, he might have meant several things at the same time.

 

The only part that most ladies make is that they assume that the guy doesn’t care at all. 

 

So, in this article I’m going to be talking about these terms; when he says he can’t give you what you want right now, he can’t give you what you want, he can’t give you what you deserve and what they mean.

 

What does it mean when a guy says can’t give you what you want?

When a guy says he can’t give you what you want then this is what it means.

 

When a guy says that he can’t give you what you want it means that he can’t give you the kind of love you need, the kind of maintenance you need, he can’t give you his heart and possibly the time you need from him.

 

Now let me start elaborating on these terms so that you can understand. I will be linking them to some situations that I will be outlining in the examples.

 

For instance, you have fallen for a man and he is dating someone else. He has a good relationship–a strong one. 

 

So, when you ask this man to give you a chance to be with him and yet he told you that he has someone else then he will end up telling you that he can’t give you what you want from him.

 

The other situation might be that you have been in a relationship for a while with him. Everything has been going good between the two of you and suddenly he tells you that he can’t give you what you want.

 

This might mean that he is finding it very difficult to handle you in that relationship. It can be that he can’t satisfy you sexually or financially.

 

Let say if he finds you to be that expensive chick. According to his pocket, he can’t support you financially.

 

To add to that, your maintenance is high. You need to go to expensive resorts, have your vacation in Africa, you need expensive makeup and a phone. 

 

If he is finding it hard then he will also end up telling you that he can’t give you what you want, especially if you start complaining about missing these things that you need i.e the ones that are in the paragraph above.

 

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The other thing is that is when a guy says that he can’t give you want is that what you may be asking of him is too much.

 

Especially, when you hear this term after you have asked him to do something for you.

 

If it’s something that he can’t handle then he will tell you he can’t give you want.

 

The moment a guy says that then think critically of what you have asked of him. This is because he can’t just say a word out of nowhere.

 

When he says he can’t give you what you want right now.

When he says that he can’t give you want right now this is a bit different term because of the adverb of time “now”.

 

When he says that he can’t give you what you want right now he means that what you are asking of him it’s impossible for now to be done. Though, there is a great possibility that what you want from him you can get it later.

 

So, when he tells you that he can’t give you what you want and stop at that point then this means that there is not even a single spark of hope that he can provide for you what you want.

 

The moment he adds now after saying that he can’t give you want then you should continue holding on to him because later on, things will be on the right track.

 

The other that that that I will be talking about now is the same but now we have the word deserve on it.

 

When a guy says he can’t give you what you deserve.

when he says he can't give you what you deserve

 

When a guy says that he can’t give you what you deserve he exactly knows what you deserve.
 
 
In most cases, this is a guy that knows you deeply and he knows your value. 
 
 
The qualities that you have in you are what makes him say that he can’t give you what you deserve.
 
For instance, you have been dating a man who has been cheating on you for a while. He knows that you know nothing about it and you have never even suspected it.
 
 
So, if he cares enough he will end up feeling guilty about what he does behind your back. 
 
 
The moment you will ask him to marry you and he finds sees that you have incredible qualities and he knows that he doesn’t fit to be with you because of the things that he has been doing then he will tell you that he can’t give you what you deserve.
when he says he can't give you what you want right now
 
 
When a man says he can’t give you what you deserve he is trying to tell you that you are so much better than he is. He feels that what he can offer you doesn’t add up to the qualities that you have. He degrades himself for you.
 
 
Lastly…
 
If a man says that he can’t give you want and he decides to walk away from you then this means that he is not planning to come back.
 
 
He knows that he will never be able to give you what you need and he feels that he should walk away so that you get to find the person who will give you what you want.
 
 
When a man says he can’t give you what you want right now, he is trying to tell you that he can’t offer what you want from him now, but later on he feels that there will be a possibility for him to give you what you want.
 
 
So, when a man says this, you have to be patient with him. Hold onto him because he is sure that soon things are going to get better.
 
 
If a man finds that you are too good to be with him because of the things that he does for you, let us say lying to you, keeping secrets from you and cheating on you then he will eventually conclude he can’t give you what you deserve.
 
 
The qualities that you have are way too good and he knows that he isn’t doing any good to you then he will tell you that deserve better and he can’t give you what you deserve.
 
 
In these situations, men usually degrade themselves.
 
 
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