When A Guy Says He Is Not In The Mood To Talk: Know This

When a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you it means several things.

 

And I know you are looking for answers to this so that you can know what to do about it.

 

Don’t worry, you are in the right article.

 

I will share with you what it means when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk and what to do about this situation.

 

Without further ado, let me get into it.

 

What does it mean when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk?

When a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you it means she doesn’t feel like talking to you currently. He is not in a good shape to respond to your questions or tell you anything about his state. It can be that he is stressed, mad at you or not feeling the vibe.

 

This is what it means when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk.

 

So, when a guy tells you he is not in the mood to talk then know that he is not in his usual shape.

 

He doesn’t feel like talking to you due to several things. It can be that he is mad at you, he is stressed and also he may be pushing you away.

 

If a guy tells you he is not in the mood to talk to you then he will not engage in any conversations with you.

 

You might talk to him but he will never say a word. He will just listen to you but he will never respond.

 

Some guys will walk away from you when you talk to them while they have told you they are not in the mood of talking to you.

 

Let me elaborate on the aspect of him pushing you away.

 

If a guy doesn’t want you next to him then he might use this phrase to push you away.

 

He knows that when he tells you that he is not in the mood to talk to you then you will walk away from him.

 

And this is exactly what he wants.

 

What to do when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk

When a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you there are several things you can do.

 

You can choose to cheer him up or if he is too aggressive you can give him space.

 

This is what to do when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you;

 

1. Find out why he is not in the mood to talk.

This is the first thing you should do when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

You should first make sure that you know the reason why he is not in the mood to talk to you for you to help him out.

 

There is nothing wrong with you wanting to know why he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

If he is your boyfriend, you should never hesitate to ask him what is wrong with him.

 

You can find out why he is not in the mood to talk to you by asking him several questions.

 

Sit next to him and try to understand why he is not in the mood of talking to you.

 

The fact that he is not in the mood of talking to you doesn’t mean that he will not say a word to you.

 

He will say a word for him to push you away, but through that, you may find out why he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

If you find the reasons why he is not in the mood to talk to you then you can fix any misunderstandings between the two of you.

 

That brings me to the next step.

 

2. Try to fix any misunderstandings.

If you found out that he is not in the mood to talk to you because you did something to annoy him then it’s time for you to fix this.

 

There is no way he will be in the mood to talk to you if he is still mad at you for something you did.

 

He will just push you away. So, if you know that you did anything that made him mad then apologize to him.

 

Be real with your apology and show him that you are sorry for the mistakes you did.

 

It’s the negative tension that still exists between the two of you and that is why he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

If you will be able to eliminate that tension then you will be able to bring him back in the mood again.

 

That is if you did something wrong to make him mad.

 

But if you never did anything to annoy him and he says he is just not in the mood to talk to you then don’t walk away immediately.

 

Sit around him and say nothing. Give him company, unless he says he doesn’t want you next to him.

 

Which will be something else and not a matter of mood.

 

If he doesn’t push you away or tell you to leave him alone then follow the next step.

 

3. Cheer him up by doing the things he likes.

This is the next step you should take if you want him to talk to you if he is not in the mood.

 

Every guy loves to be cheered up. So, use this opportunity to make him happy.

 

He is not in the mood to talk to you because he is not happy at all. If he was happy then he couldn’t have told you that he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

You know him better than I do, so find things that he likes the most and do them for him.

 

When you do the things he likes and he can’t resist then it will be very easy for you to hook up his mind.

 

You will be able to make him smile and when that happens you will start to find him playful again and talkative, if that is how he is.

 

So, gently do things that please him and he will eventually be happy and in the mood to talk to you.

 

4. Comfort him.

This is something else you can do when a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

When he says he is not in the mood to talk to you don’t just walk away from him.

 

Be next to him and try your best to comfort him. He is not in his best shape.

 

And when he tells you that he is not in the mood to talk to you and walk away you wouldn’t have helped him.

 

What you can do is try to make him comfortable in his state. If he is not pushing you away when you sit next to him just give him a big hug.

 

Hug him tight and don’t say a word. Listen to his heartbeat and enjoy the moment while holding him.

 

You can also spoon with him and just enjoy the moment around him.

 

There is a great possibility that this will cheer him up and comfort him.

 

The negative tension that was holding him off might be lifted and he will suddenly start talking to you.

 

Also, if he is stressed then this will help him out and he will start talking to you.

 

He will open up to you. But if he tells you that he is not in the mood to talk to you and you walk away from him without even him telling you to leave him alone then you won’t solve the issue.

 

5. Give him space.

This is the last thing you can do if your boyfriend says he is not in the mood of talking to you.

 

You should do this if the above ways I have shared with you aren’t successful.

 

Also, you should only give him space when he says so.

 

If he tells you to leave him alone, he needs time alone then give him time to deal with wherever the issue is troubling him.

 

It can be that the space he wants from you is what will get him back in the mood to talk to you.

 

So, don’t be pushy about anything when he tells you that he is not in the mood to talk to you.

 

Understand what he wants from you and do it for him.

 

If he wants to be alone then give him some hours or days if it’s too intense and let him cool off his steam.

 

Lastly…

 

When a guy says he is not in the mood to talk to you then these are the things you should do.

 

I’m sure one of the ways is going to work out for you.

 

When a guy tells you he is not in the mood to talk to you then know that he doesn’t want to talk to you.

 

But it doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t want you around.

 

Unless he says he doesn’t want you around is when you should give him some space.

 

If he says he is not in the mood to talk to you and you just walk away from him he will assume that you don’t care about him at all.

 

You never know, he might have told you that he is not in the mood to talk to you because he wants you to comfort him, make him happy and just enjoy the silence with him.

 

The moment he tells you that he needs space then understand him. Give him some time off to figure out the things that are dragging him down.

 

Thanks for stopping by, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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