If you are wondering why guys go after a date mostly the first one, then this is what you should know.
Guys do go silent after a date if they haven’t liked you and they have no interest in you. The moment when you have gone out with a guy and he finds out that you are not the kind of a lady he expected you to be then he will go silent.
So, when you go on a date with a guy and he finds out that you are completely different compared to what you said you are then he will go silent.
This is usually the biggest turn-off for anyone. I know you will also do the same if you have gone out for a date with someone and you eventually find him or her different from what you expected him or her to be.
Not finding what you expected from someone can make you go silent.
The other thing is that if a guy didn’t like you after the first date you had then he will go silent on you.
There might be so many things that might make him not like you.
He might not like you on how you handle yourself, he hated how you dressed, how you talked, and maybe you were so damn boring.
So, if you had any aspect in you that he didn’t like then he will go silent on you.
It’s obvious that if a guy didn’t like you after the date you had then he will also have no interest in you.
What will keep him on you if he never got interested in you?
He went silent after the first date.
There is always a reason that can make a guy go silent after the first date.
If a guy goes silent after the first date with you then this means that he completely lost his interest the moment he saw you. When a guy finds out that you are not the type of girl he thought you would be then his interest will be gone.
There are several things that men try to look at a girl before they decide to keep committed to her after the first date.
Every man has some of the things that he observes from a girl. What he finally sees from that girl will decide whether the communication between the two of you will go on or flop.
Some of the common things that men look on the first date to determine if they will keep the communication going are;
- The first thing men look at is the beauty of a woman. So, if your beauty attracted him then he will keep the communication going after the first date.
- Men look at how you behave on the first date.
- Men look at how you dress on the first date.
- They are also keen on looking at how you express yourself.
- They also observe how you spend money on the first date.
- Men try to look if you are that caring lady.
- Men look at how you respond to questions and how you communicate.
So, if a man finds out that he doesn’t like most of the things in you then he will not be willing to hurt you on the date.
He will pretend that he is enjoying time with you but he is just pushing time.
Some guys will be open enough to tell you that they don’t like you after the first date while other guys will decide to keep silent on you.
Why has he not texted me after our first date?
Are you asking yourself why he hasn’t texted after your first date? So, many questions are probably running in your head currently.
This might help you to know why he hasn’t texted you after your first date.
If he hasn’t texted you after your first date then this is because he wasn’t pleased with you; he never found you good enough. Otherwise, if he found you to be amazing then the first thing he would have done is to text you immediately after you have departed from each other.
When the first date goes well then you will notice that the communication between the two of you is increasing.
This is a sign that he liked you and you are exactly the kind of girl he wanted you to be.
If he hasn’t texted you since your first date then this is clear that he never found you good enough.
What you can do if he stopped texting after the first date is to move on because that is a clear sign that he isn’t into you.
You can’t force someone to feel the way you feel. It’s always about interest and when you first meet someone you will notice this.
The sad thing about relationships is that you might have fallen in love with someone but he might not be feeling the same.
Such kind of a difference will never allow you to be on the same page.
Guy blocked me after the first date.
Being blocked after the first date is a very painful thing but you will have to deal with it.
If a guy blocked you after the first date it’s a clear sign that he isn’t into you. It would have at least been better if he went silent on you; it could have been maybe he’s trying to think it through. But if he blocked you then he never liked you.
When a guy blocks you after the first date then just don’t ask yourself so many questions.
Don’t think too much about it because it might make you undermine yourself and this will eventually lead to low self-esteem.
This will do you more harm. You have to understand that everyone has his or her own choices and interest.
Understand that you will never change that. Accept and move on and you will one day find someone who will love you for who you are.
Did he lose interest after the first date?
He might have lost interest in you after the first date, who knows.
You might notice this if he lost interest in you after first the first date.
If he lost interest in you after the first date with you then he will never call you or text you. The other thing is that if he cut short the date when he told you that you will spend two hours together then this shows that he lost interest in you.
If someone is not interested in you during the first date then you will notice this.
You won’t have to depart from each other to notice this.
The way he will he will act and talk before you will tell you a lot about his interest.
So, let me dive into things that you will notice when a guy isn’t interested in you after the first date.
How do you tell if he’s not interested after the first date?
If a guy isn’t interested in you after the first date then there will be signs that will convey themselves to you.
There will always be things that will tell you that he isn’t interested.
You can tell if a guy isn’t interested after the first date by observing his communication patterns and how he treats you. If he isn’t interested in you then the first thing he will do is to ghost you. Additionally, he will treat you badly if he lost interest in you.
You can tell if he isn’t interested in you after the first date by the following things;
1. He will stop communicating with you.
This is the first thing almost all guys do if they aren’t interested in a lady after the first date.
If a guy found you not to be his type then he will find no need to keep on communicating with you.
A guy will keep the communication alive with you after the first date if he had an interest in you.
But if he never got interested in you after the first date then don’t expect him to call you or text you. Don’t be surprised if he decides to block you.
Other guys will text you or call you but the conversation will never be the same.
It won’t be that funny and exciting again. Furthermore, it will be decreasing gradually until it will eventually stop.
So, when you notice this after the first date then know that he isn’t interested in you.
2. He will not treat you nicely as he used to.
This is something else you should expect if he isn’t interested in you after the first date.
If he used to send you gifts and romantic notes with a bouquet then forget that.
The moment a man loses his interest in you then the romantic side of him for you will start fading.
He will stop sending you those gifts and anything that conveyed romantic gestures between the two of you.
He will treat you like treat you just like the rest of his friends.
If you want something from him you will have to wait as the rest of his friends does.
You will no longer be the priority to him.
Don’t be surprised, that is how guys behave when they lose interest in a girl.
3. He will never ask you for another date after the first one.
Most men when they are into you after the first date they will ask you when you can meet again.
A guy will be so much excited to spend time with you again because of how much you have enticed him.
This will be the opposite of a guy who isn’t interested in you after the first date.
If he has lost interest in you after the first date you will never hear him talking about a next date.
He will never ask you for another date after the first one.
When you manage to gather your courage and ask him for a second date with you he will come up with so many excuses until you give up.
Other guys will just tell you clearly that they can’t while others will keep on rescheduling until it fails to happen.
So, when you come across these things then know that a guy isn’t interested in you.
4. He will keep pushing you away and ignoring you.
I almost forgot this point and it’s one of the things that guys do when they have lost interest in ladies after the first date.
The moment a man has lost interest in you he will keep on pushing you away.
He will do things that will keep annoying you so that you walk away.
For most of these things, he will be doing them intentionally.
He knows that if he does them you will end up getting pissed but he will keep doing them even if you tell him not to.
Since he has no interest in you then your word to him will never affect him.
He won’t care if you get mad at him or resent him.
As you get annoyed by him and start being distant that is exactly what he will be encouraging.
He will continue pushing you away until you also lose interest in him.
He will ignore your text and calls. What you will get in his WhatsApp inbox are blue ticks.
If you meet him accidentally in the streets he will walk past you and pretend not to have seen you at all.
When you come across these things after the first date with him just know that he isn’t interested in you.
5. Other guys will openly tell you that they aren’t interested in you.
As other guys will do things using their actions to show you that they aren’t interested in you after your first date.
The others will prefer to be open and honest with you that they don’t have an interest in you.
In my case, I think these guys who decide to tell the truth about what they felt after the first date are awesome.
It’s not okay to fake it to someone yet you aren’t interested in him or her.
So, a guy who isn’t interested in you after the first date will just tell you openly so that to avoid playing games with each other and waste time.
When a guy decides to open up and tell you the truth then keep it in your mind that he means it and move on.
That is how this world is, we will not be liked and loved by everyone.
To wrap it up, if a guy decides to go silent on you after the first date then know that he isn’t into you.
You should not force yourself into him because you aren’t in his choice. When a date goes well you will notice because he will be excited so much that it will be hard for him to hide it.
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