If guys are ignoring you but talk to your friends then I will share with you some of the reasons. When you change these things that I will share with you guys will not ignore you.
Before guys think of approaching a girl there are some things they are usually looking for.
There are some qualities these guys are looking for and the way you also handle yourself will depend on whether they will want to talk to you or ignore you.
In this article, I will share with you some of the things that they observe before they decide to talk to a girl.
This is why guys ignore you but talk to your friends;
1. You are always gloomy.
This is the first reason why guys ignore you but talk to your friends.
If you want guys to talk to you then you should not always put on a serious face.
When you are too serious you will push them away.
These guys talk to your friends because your friends seem inviting.
They are girls who always put on smiles on their faces.
If you are prettier than them and guys prefer talking to them it’s because they make themselves beautiful by smiling.
When a guy is about to approach you to strike up a conversation with you he will observe your face.
If you seem gloomy that guy will turn away from you because what he will think is that you will not welcome him.
So, if you want guys to talk to you then you have to make sure that you have a bright face.
Your facial expressions should be welcoming.
But if you frown then they will not find you welcoming, they will ignore you and end up talking to your friends.
2. You are not as interactive as your friends.
If you are in a group of friends and you don’t seem interactive then guys will only notice your friends because they seem active and alive.
You have to be active if you want guys to talk to you.
No guy will want to talk to you if you don’t seem interactive. He will think that you are a boring person, even if he liked how you look he will just stop himself from talking to you.
So, the way you handle yourself when you are with your friends will determine whether guys will want to talk to you or not.
You have to show the energy and the vibe that you are ready to talk to anyone.
And guys can see this from afar. So, if your friends are the active ones and interactive and you barely say a word when you are with them then guys will prefer talking to them.
They will ignore you and talk to them because they seem ready to talk about anything.
If you are not interactive most guys will have to think twice before they approach you.
And the probability of them talking to you will be lower since your friends are around you.
They will choose to talk to your friends who seem ready for a talk and ignore you.
So, if you are not that interactive then you should think of changing that.
Show positive vibes and energy. It doesn’t matter when you are an introvert or an extrovert.
You can draw men to you if you can show the energy within you.
Show them that you are ready to talk to them and they will stop ignoring you and talk to you instead of your friends.
3. You are pushy.
This is something else you have to know. If you are pushy no guy will want to talk to you.
If you are the kind of girl who pushes people away because of several reasons no guy will want to talk to you.
So, if you have been ignoring these guys whenever they try to talk to you in the past then this could be the reason why they ignore you and talk to your friends.
When you ignore a guy more than thrice he will think you don’t want to talk to him and he will give up on you.
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You will have to initiate the conversation with him to talk to you again.
If you won’t then he will never talk to you.
So, if you have been ignoring these guys and you have never replied to their greetings then this could be the reason why they ignore you and talk to your friends.
They know that you will ignore them and that is why they prefer talking to your friends and not you.
4. You don’t show interest in these guys.
If you want guys to talk to you then you have to show them that you are interested in talking to them.
There is no way a guy will want to talk to you if you don’t show any interest in him.
It doesn’t have to be a romantic interest. Guys are pretty smart to identify if you want to talk to them.
These guys talk to your friends and ignore you because your friends show interest in them.
They are active and they take the initiative of showing them that they want to talk to them.
For instance, when a guy comes to you and greets you if you reply to him and ask him something that will keep the conservation going he will know that you are interested in talking to him.
Check out the example of the conversation below;
Him: Hi! How are you doing?
You: I’m cool, what about you?
Him: Pretty chill, but I’m pushing on.
You: You must be that guy…
When he tells you that he is pushing on and you add on “he must be that guy,” this will make him curious.
He will want to know what you mean by saying that and this will keep the conversation going.
This will also show him that you are interested in keeping the conversation going.
But if he says hi and you reply hi and you say nothing after that then he will think you are not interested in talking to him.
So, guys talk to your friends because they show interest in them, they keep their conversation with them going on even if they have nothing important to talk about.
You have to show that you are interested in talking to them if you want them to notice you.
But if you show no interest in them they will ignore you and talk to your friends who show them that they want to talk to them.
5. You isolate yourself from the rest of your friends.
This is something else you should know, if you are always isolating yourself from your friends then this could be the main reason why guys ignore you and talk to your friends.
If your friends are doing certain things and you don’t seem interested in those things and you keep yourself a distance from them guys will always ignore you and talk to them.
Since you are a distance from your friends, guys tend to find it hard to reach you because they think you are not interested in talking to them.
This is something normal and you should expect this if you have nothing in common with your friends.
For instance, your friends are into partying and you hate partying, when you go to the club with them you will prefer to sit far from them and you will leave them on the dance floor.
You will be drinking soda while they will be dancing.
Guys will go for your friends and talk to them because they seem active and ignore you because you are not dancing together with them.
So, if you always isolate yourself from your friends simply because you don’t do what they do guys will always ignore you and talk to your friends.
This is simply because the guys are into the things that your friends are doing and that is why they find it easy to talk to them.
6. You don’t put yourself in an approachable condition.
If you want a guy to talk to you then you have to put yourself in an approachable condition.
Make yourself approachable.
I mean you should give these guys a reason to talk to you and not your friends.
You have to have something unique about you that will draw these men to you and not your friends.
I can’t tell you what is unique about you, you will have to figure it out on your own because you know yourself better than I do.
Think of something that will make you stand out.
Also, make sure when you go out with your friends you are smartly dressed, you smell nice, your hair is done in a pretty way and you don’t forget to put on a smile when these guys approach you and your friends.
When you manage to do this then guys will not ignore you.
They talk to you because there is something about you that intrigues them.
7. The guys are not used to you.
If you are new to the group of friends you are hanging out with then it can be that guys don’t know who you are.
You are a stranger to them and they are not used to you. This makes it hard for them to start a conversation with you and that is why they ignore you and talk to your friends.
So, if you are new to that area and your friends have been living in that street then don’t worry about that.
They still don’t know you, it’s not that you have lost your charm.
They ignore you and talk to your friends because they know your friends and not you.
I know you can relate to this situation.
If you want guys to talk to you then you should show them that you are interested in talking to them. Keep your conversation with them going and talk about the things they seem interested in.
When you do this they will never ignore you and talk to your friends.
Also, don’t forget to put a smile on your face if you want them to talk to you and not your friends.
Show that positive energy and vibe of hanging out with them and this will make them want to talk to you.
The next thing you have to do to make these guys talk to you and not your friends is to find something unique that will make guys want to talk to you.
And this will draw them to you.
Thanks for reading, I hope this has helped you. If you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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