Guys & Relationships: 14 Answers That Will Enlighten You About Them

If you want to start a relationship with any guy you have to know these Questions & Answers for you have a deep understanding of men.

 

Furthermore, if you are thinking of starting a relationship and it’s your first time or if you were in one but it failed then this is something you should understand more about these men.

 

Even for someone who is already in a relationship, this will help you so much.

 

In this article, there will be different questions that most girls ask about guys that I will clarify.

 

1. How do you start a relationship with a guy?

If you want to start a relationship with a guy there is a procedure that I will share with you that will make it so easy for you to get him in a relationship with you.

 

Though, some people find it awkward for a girl to ask a boy to be her boyfriend. The main reason why people find this awkward is due to the fact men are mostly the ones asking women to be their lovers.

 

With the current situation and the way, things are going for you to get what you want you to have to fight for it.

 

So, without wasting time let me get right into how you can get a guy in a relationship with you.

 

You can start a relationship with a guy by doing the following things;

 

1. Get the guy to notice that you have a crush on him.

If you want to get a guy in a relationship, you will have to make him notice that you have a crush on him.

 

You will never be able to make any step before going through this.

 

You can make him notice that you have a crush on him by staring at him and winking, smiling whenever you come across him, always saying “hi” to him whenever you come across him.

 

When you start doing these things he will definitely notice that you like him.

 

The moment he notices that you have a crush on him he will start coming closer to you.

 

He will want to know you.

 

2. Get to know every detail of him before you enter a relationship with him.

Now that he has noticed that you have a crush on him; he will want to be your friend.

 

If he doesn’t come around then he might be shy. Make a point of talking to him and ask him to be your friend.

 

Don’t just go directly and say that you want him to be your boyfriend. He might think that you are a freak.

 

Put him in the friend zone so that you get to know him better if you want to have a successful relationship with him.

 

You should never rush into a relationship with a guy. It doesn’t matter if he came to you fast after he noticed that you have a crush on him.

 

It’s not good to move fast in a relationship.

 

Find out why here,

 

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Take your time to know about him, his hobbies, his ambitions, his family and so many things that you will be curious to know about him.

 

3. Get him to like you even more.

If you want to make a relationship that will thrive then you have to make him like you even more.

 

So, take advantage of your friend zone to show him the kind of a girl you can be to him.

 

You can make him like you more by;

  1. Spend more time with him.
  2. Help him in anything that you can when he is stranded.
  3. Give him your full attention.
  4. Do the things that he is interested in doing, guys get easily attracted to girls whom they have a common interest.
  5. Open up to him; share with him your personal life and the things that you have encountered in your life.
  6. Flirt with him when he is about to fall for it pull away; you will make him think about you.
  7. Show him that you are a principled chick by sticking to your principles.
  8. Send him some gifts when he least expect.
  9. Make sure you keep the communication alive. Communicate with him even if it’s thrice a week. Do this since you are in a friend zone still don’t communicate too much with him, but If he texts or calls then talk to him.
  10. Be the kind of a girl he wants you to be.
  11. Be an independent girl. Men like independent women. Not too independent though.

 

These are some of the things that you do that will make him like you even more.

 

This will make him go ahead and ask you to be his girlfriend.

 

4. When he asks you to be his girlfriend give him a big YES.

You have to know that if you have made him like you, and you have been in touch for a while with him he will have the urge to take things to the next level.

 

So, when he opens up and tell you how he feels about you and he asks you to be his girlfriend then give him the chance.

 

You would have already gotten that guy in a relationship with you.

 

Anyway, you don’t have to be too hard on yourself. You don’t have to wait for him to ask you to be his girlfriend. You can gather your courage and ask him to be your boyfriend.

 

2. How can I ask a guy to be my boyfriend?

 

If you have been waiting for so long for him to make his move and he seems to delay then you can go ahead and make your move.

 

There is no need to hesitate if you love him. Go and get him.

 

If you are wondering where you can start on how to ask him to be your boyfriend then this can help you.

 

You can ask a guy to be your boyfriend by being honest about how you feel about him. You can ask him by saying, “It’s hard for me to face you, but to be honest you are all over my mind and heart. Can you be my boyfriend?”

 

It’s not a must you use the exact words I have used. The main thing here to do is to express yourself how you feel about him.

 

If you find it hard to use words to express how you feel you can go ahead and use actions.

 

You can steal a kiss from him and wait to see how he will respond to it.

 

If he has no one else, he has feelings for you and he likes you then nothing will prevent him from saying yes to you.

 

You have to know that he might also turn out not to like you. So, you should not get obsessed with him. Make your mind flexible and know that he might reject you.

 

If he rejects you, there is no need to worry. There are still so many guys who will be willing to spend their time with you. You will eventually find the right guy for you.

 

Frequently Asked Questions & Answers.

 

3. What does a guy want in a relationship?

If you manage to give a guy what he wants in a relationship then he will definitely stick with you.

 

So, it’s very important to know what a guy wants in a relationship if you want to keep him.

 

A guy wants to be loved, trusted cared for, understood, and supported in a relationship. These are the top things that a guy would want in a relationship. If you will manage to give a man these things then you will keep him.

 

4. How do you get a guy to commit to you?

For any relationship to thrive commitment should be put into play. Without dedication, a relationship will end up failing.

 

You have to understand that commitment comes from both sides (The man and woman both have to put their commitment in a relationship for it to work.)

 

You can get a guy to commit to you by making him love you more, show him that you are serious about the relationship, sacrifice for the relationship, prioritize him and trust him with the decisions that he makes in the relationship; he will commit to you.

 

The moment a guy notices that you are making an effort to make the relationship better by doing things that add value to the relationship then he will commit to it.

 

5. What makes a man fall deeply in love with a woman?

There are so many things that can make a man fall deeply in love with a woman.

 

Though, you should understand that every man has his own measures that can make a man fall deeply in love with a woman.

 

Though here are the common things that make a man fall deeply in love with a woman.

 

  • This is what makes a man fall deeply in love with a woman;
  • The honesty of a woman can make a man fall deeply in love with her
  • The beauty of a woman can make a man fall deeply in love
  • If a woman handles a man in a good way he will fall in love deeply with her.
  • A man will fall in love deeply with a woman when he is cared for and understood by her.
  • A man will fall deeply in love with a woman when she does the things that the man wants.
  • If you are a faithful woman, he will fall deeply in love with you.
  • The commitment of a woman to her man can make him fall in love deeply.

 

All in all, just handle him the way he wants to be handled. Do the things that make him happy and avoid everything that makes him mad. Prioritize him and support him he will fall deeply in love with you.

 

6. What do guys like in a girl?

 

I want to be frank with you. Every guy has a thing that he wants his girl to have.

 

Some guys prefer their girls to be stubborn, crazy, and naughty while other guys prefer their girls to be humble, smart, religious, and responsible.

 

Though, there are common things that every man would like a girl to possess.

 

Guys like a girl to be smart, cute, responsible, loving, caring, and faithful. These are the common things that you will hear every guy saying that he wants his girl to have. They are the things that guys like in a girl.

 

7. Do guys distance themselves when they like a girl?

Guys are of different kinds. We have those guys who are shy—They lack the courage to face a girl and express what they feel about them.

 

We have those guys who are courageous and when they like someone they go for her.

 

When guys like a girl they don’t distance themselves instead they make an effort to make the girl realize that they have feelings for her. Though, if the guys are shy or have a fear of rejection they will definitely distance themselves even if they like a girl.

 

There are so many reasons why men can distant themselves or hide their feelings completely from a girl they like.

 

Read this article to know more about that.

 

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8. Do guys miss you when you walk away?

Guys will miss you when you walk away if they still have feelings for you. They will make an effort to bring you back into their lives. If you walk away from a guy who is over you he will never miss you. You will get neither a call nor a text.

 

So, don’t expect a guy who is over you to miss you when you walk away from him.

 

9. Why do guys suddenly lose interest?

A guy can be so much into you for now but later he might act like he doesn’t know you.

 

He may show you that he has feelings for you but the next day he might not want anything to do with you.

 

This is something that happens.

 

Guys lose interest suddenly in a girl when; they are bored, they didn’t see what they expected in a girl, they shift their attention to someone else or something else, they never got wanted from a girl and they have been kept on pending for too long.

 

So, when a guy has a crush on you and he has made it clear to you by expressing what he feels about you then you keep him pending for a long time he will definitely lose interest in you.

 

If you want to know more about losing interest in a relationship then check out this article here.

 

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10. Will a guy change his mind about you?

Love changes over time; it can either grow stronger or get weaker over time.

 

So, if you are wondering if a guy can change his mind about you then this is what I can tell you.

 

A guy will change his mind about you when he no longer feels the same way as he used to do. The moment his feelings for you vanish then he will change his mind about you. He may also not be in love with you but later on, he might fall for you.

 

A mind of man will change his mind about you depending on what you do for him. If you keep on pleasing him then his love for you will never change, it will even grow stronger day by day.

 

If you keep hurting him and make his life miserable be sure that his love for you will decrease. He will no longer love you.

 

11. Can a guy’s feelings change overnight?

 

A guy’s feelings can change overnight. If he finds out you have been cheating on him while he had much trust in you then he will never have even a spark of feeling for you.

 

Additionally, if a man gets someone else to whom he is attracted then his feelings for you will change.

 

This is something that can happen.

 

12. What does a guy think when you ignore him?

There are might be so many things running in a guy’s mind if he is ignored.

 

Being ignored hurts so much, especially when it’s the person you love most.

 

If you are asking yourself what a guy thinks when he is ignored then this might give you a full insight.

 

When a guy is ignored by his girlfriend he usually thinks that his girlfriend is has lost interest in him. And if the guy doesn’t trust his girlfriend or he is insecure he will think that she is busy with someone else who she finds important than him.

 

13. Do guys ignore you when they are hurt?

The answer is YES, when a guy is hurt he will ignore totally ignore. Guys will ignore you when you hurt them so that they prevent you from hurting them again and make you suffer for hurting them.

 

14. How do guys behave when they are hurt?

When guys are hurt they distant themselves, they cut off the communication, they ignore you, they can even pick a fight with you, they will not be sweet to you and they will eventually walk away from you, that is the way they behave when they are hurt.

 

Lastly…

I have tried my best to answer these questions appropriately so that you can get the knowledge you require before you decide to enter a relationship with a guy.

 

If you haven’t understood a certain question feel free to leave your comment in the comment section.

 

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