If you have a lot of female friends but you have no girlfriend then there is something you should know.
There are several reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend yet you have many female friends.
So, let me share with you these reasons.
This is why you have a lot of female friends yet you have no girlfriend;
1. You are too choosy.
If you have a lot of female friends but you have no girlfriend then this is the first issue you have.
You are too choosy.
You want specific qualities from a girl which are rare and when you even come across one who has almost every quality you want there will be a tiny detail that will draw you out of her.
If you are that choosy then it will always be hard for you to get a girlfriend because finding exactly the type of girl you want will be hard.
You have a lot of female friends because you want to get to know them so that you can filter out the ones with the qualities that you want.
The moment you find out that there is no one who has the qualities that you want then you will keep on adding the list of females friends and it will continue to grow.
So, if you don’t want to be single stop being too choosy. This is because it will be very hard for you to find the type of girl you want.
The only thing I can advise you to do is to find someone you can get along with in a good way and start a relationship with her.
As long as you continue staying with her you will eventually know the other side of her that you never knew existed.
2. You don’t have your eyes focused on one girl.
This is another reason that makes you be single. If you have a lot of female friends it will be very hard for you to find that one person you will put your attention to.
For instance, if you hang out with this girl today who stays in LA and tomorrow you hang out with another worker staying in Las Vegas. It will be hard for you to focus on one person.
This is because the more you spend your time with different girls the more you get more and compliment characters that will eventually confuse you and even fail to be sure of which to hang out with.
In the end, you will be stranded and you will have no idea which of your female friends suits you.
So, if you want to have a girlfriend the first thing you should start doing is reducing the number of female friends you have.
Do anything to get rid of them or ignore them and they will walk away.
Choose about three girls and start filtering out the one that doesn’t suit you until you remain with one.
Once you have remained with one girl then you can finally focus on her, get to know her, and make a move on her.
The moment you put your focus on one person it will be very easier for you to win her.
Compared to when you have your attention distributed to hundreds of girls. It will be very hard for you to make up your mind about a single girl.
3. You are afraid to make a move.
If you have a lot of female friends there are different factors that will make you be afraid to make a move on them.
The first one is; that you will be very afraid to change what you already have with them.
If you have been friends with them for a while you will get used to the fact that they will always remain to be friends.
This will make it hard for you to try to change the friendship you have with them.
You are afraid that if you try to express yourself to one of your female friends you might lose them.
Trust me, change is a scary thing, but if you keep on living in fear of change then you will never find a girlfriend.
So, get rid of the fear that makes you keep stalling on making a move.
The second one is; that you will be afraid to be the kind of guy they will talk about when you are in a relationship.
This is another thing that you might be afraid of; if you think that if you start a relationship with one of your female friends the other friends will talk bad about you or push you away then you will never make a move on any girl.
This is another issue of having many female friends.
Anyway, it’s obviously true they will start talking about you when you get into a relationship with one of your female friends.
Kick away the fear and get one for yourself. The friendship with many female friends will never help you more than the relationship you need.
Since you know how these female friends talk about their ex, you will be afraid to be in the same situation.
I know you have heard them talking so much about their guys. I know this might have made you scared of you making a move.
You are thinking that if you get into a relationship your girlfriend will also be talking about you with her friends.
Don’t allow fear to control you, know what you want and go for it.
4. You have the issue of comparing different girls.
As I said earlier that if you have a lot of female friends it will be very hard for you to focus your attention on one girl.
If you have issues with focusing on a single girl then the big problem you will find yourself in is comparing them.
As you keep comparing them, every girl will have her own unique character.
There are some characters you will like but some you will hate in them.
This will keep you on a continuous cycle of comparison that will never end simply because each and every day you will be adding the list of female friends hoping that you will find the perfect one.
If you want to have a girlfriend then start reducing the list and understand that you will never find the perfect girl.
No one is perfect. Every girl has her own flaws and you should accept that.
If you have found one girl that you like don’t compare her with another one since you will always find an issue to draw you back from her.
5. You are stuck in the friend zone.
If you have many female friends but you have no girlfriend it’s probably that you are stuck in the friends’ zone.
This is because they are too friendly to you and when another girl sees you out there thinks that you are in a relationship simply because you always have a female friend on your side.
This prevents other girls from making a move on you.
Your female friends are used to you in such a way they feel it’s impossible for them to date you since you are like a brother to them.
If they call you bro then this means you are stuck in that friend zone because whenever you try to make your move on them they will tell you that you are like a brother to them.
You are stuck in a friend zone. That’s bad.
To escape this, start getting rid of the too-friendly mode with them and show them that you want more than a friendship.
The one who will be willing you will find her getting closer to you and this will make you find a girlfriend.
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If you have a lot of female friends and you don’t have a girlfriend then start eliminating them. Too many of them will confuse your focus and you will never be able to give attention to only a single girl.
Don’t be too choosy, if you want to have a girlfriend from the many female friends you have.
You have to know that each and every girl will have her own unique character.
Get a female friend that you get really good with but is not too friendly to you and start taking your shots.
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Don’t be too afraid to change the friendship and don’t allow yourself to be too friendly to any of them to the extent they call you bro. Don’t get stuck in the friend zone.
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