Why He Doesn’t Compliment You (+ What To Do)

If your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you and you are wondering why that is so then stick with me, I have an answer for you.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why he doesn’t compliment you and what to do about it.

 

There is always a reason why your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you these reasons.

 

This is why your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you;

1. He doesn’t find you attractive.

If your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you then know that he doesn’t find you attractive.

 

The truth is that if he found you attractive then he would have been always complimenting you.

 

It can be that he doesn’t find you as attractive as you may think you are to him and that is why he doesn’t compliment you.

 

For a guy to compliment you there has to be something that he finds impressive in you.

 

This can be anything from the way you dress, the way you do your hair and nails and the way you apply your make-up.

 

If there is nothing he finds impressive in you he will never compliment you.

 

Also, if you never change your look not even a single day or try to wear something new then this is one of the reasons he doesn’t compliment you.

 

When he looks at you he only sees the usual thing you do on your body and that is why he isn’t impressed with anything from you.

 

The moment a guy doesn’t find anything attractive or new from you he will not compliment you.

 

2. He is not focused on you.

If your boyfriend doesn’t give you his attention then this is one of the reasons why he doesn’t compliment you.

 

For your boyfriend or guy friend to compliment you he has to give you his attention.

 

When a guy gives you his attention he will be able to notice anything you do on your body.

 

If he notices the change then he will compliment you.

 

Furthermore, if your boyfriend is too busy to notice anything you do on your body then he will never notice you.

 

You should conclude this if your boyfriend rarely spends his time with you and he is too focused on other matters.

 

When a guy doesn’t give you his attention he will not notice any changes you make on your body.

 

And if this is the case then know that he will never compliment you.

 

3. He doesn’t find anything new to compliment from you.

If your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you then know that he doesn’t see anything new in you.

 

For a guy to compliment you he has to see something new or awesome in you.

 

The kind of clothes you wear and the change you make on your body is what will make him compliment you.

 

If you don’t change your outfits or try anything new on your body to look amazing then don’t be surprised if he doesn’t compliment you.

 

He doesn’t compliment you because there is nothing new for him to compliment at.

 

4. He doesn’t find it necessary to compliment you.

If your boyfriend doesn’t find it necessary for him to compliment you then he will never do it.

 

We have people with different thoughts on this.

 

Some don’t find it necessary to complement their girlfriends and we have those who find it important.

 

If your boyfriend is in the category of those who don’t see the need to compliment you then this is the reason why he doesn’t.

 

Also, it can be that he thinks that when he compliments you then you will start being arrogant because of how you will feel when he does it then he will not compliment you.

 

So, if this is something your boyfriend thinks then know this is why he doesn’t compliment you.

 

What to do when he doesn’t compliment you;

1. Find out why he doesn’t compliment you.

If your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you and it’s something that bothers you then find out why he doesn’t do it.

 

You can find out why he doesn’t compliment you by talking to him.

 

There is no other way you will find out these reasons unless you talk to him because it’s how he perceives you.

 

Have a conversation with him and ask him how he perceives you.

 

Ask him simple questions that will make him open up to you.

 

You can start asking him the following questions to find out why he doesn’t compliment you.

  • Do you find me attractive?
  • What would you like me to change on my body?
  • If there was one thing you could change on me, what could it be?
  • Do you find it a big deal to compliment any girl you find attractive?
  • Have you ever thought of complimenting me?

 

These are some of the questions you can ask him to know how he feels about you.

 

The answers that he will give you will contain some of the reasons why he doesn’t compliment you.

 

2. Let him know that you need him to compliment you.

This is something else you should do if your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you.

 

Talk to your boyfriend about it if it’s something that is bothering you.

 

It can be that he thinks you don’t need to hear his compliment because you know he finds you attractive.

 

When a guy thinks that you don’t need to hear his compliments then he will never waste his time and energy to do it.

 

He will be silent even if you try something new on your body just to impress him.

 

So, take your time and talk to him about this issue.

 

Let him know why you want him to compliment you and tell him to compliment you when he notices anything new.

 

When you tell him this he will eventually understand why you need him to compliment you and he will not hesitate to do it.

 

He will do it because it’s something you care about.

 

3. Get his attention.

If your boyfriend doesn’t give you the attention you want then you will have to get his attention.

 

You might like this: Is It Bad To Want Attention From Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend?

 

There is no way he will compliment you if he doesn’t notice you.

 

For him to compliment you he has to see the things you change on your body.

 

He has to see the new outfits you put on.

 

But if he is too busy and focused on something else that he finds important do you think he will compliment you?

 

Try your best to make him notice you if you want him to compliment you.

 

You can find some additional tips on how to get his attention in the article I linked to the beginning of this section.

 

When your boyfriend gives you his attention he will notice any change you make on your body and this will make him give you his feedback on what you have tried.

 

He will compliment you when he gives you his attention.

 

4. Make yourself attractive to him.

If you want your boyfriend to compliment you then you have to make yourself look attractive to him.

 

There is no way he will compliment you if he doesn’t find anything amazing about you.

 

So, make sure you try new things that will impress him for him to compliment you.

 

Take good care of yourself, try new outfits and change your make up this will make him notice what you are trying to do with your body.

 

He will compliment you when he sees something amazing in you.

 

If you don’t do anything to make yourself look attractive, there is no way he will compliment you.

 

Lastly…

 

If your boyfriend doesn’t compliment you try to find out why he doesn’t do it. When you have the reasons on your palm try to use them to fix your issue.

 

Do things that will make him compliment you.

 

Also, make a point of talking to him about this issue if it’s something that bothers you. Let him know how important it’s for you when he compliments you.

 

When you tell him this, he will understand why you want him to compliment you and he will always do it to make you feel better.

 

There is nothing wrong with you telling your boyfriend that you need him to compliment you.

 

It can be that he thinks he doesn’t need to compliment you and that is why he is not doing it.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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