What To Do If He Doesn’t Know How To Flirt

If your boyfriend doesn’t know how to flirt and you want to spice things up with him this can be a challenge.

 

In this article, I will share with you some of the things you can do if your boyfriend doesn’t know how to flirt.

 

Don’t get me wrong, not all guys are good at flirting. The way you may want a guy to flirt with you it’s not the same way he may be doing it.

 

If he doesn’t know how to flirt the way you want him to or he completely knows nothing about flirting, I got you covered.

 

So, without further ado, let me share with you what you can do about this.

 

This is what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t know how to flirt;

1. Let your boyfriend know why you want him to flirt with you.

If your boyfriend doesn’t know why you want him to flirt with you then it will be very hard for him to understand why he should do it in the first place.

 

You will have to give him a reason why you want him to flirt with you so that you can motivate him to flirt with you.

 

When you tell him why you would like him to flirt with you then he will understand why it’s important for him to do it with you.

 

If your boyfriend is completely unaware of flirting you should take your time explaining to him everything about flirting and how it can strengthen your relationship.

 

The moment your boyfriend realizes why you want him to flirt with you this will give him a reason to want to learn more about it.

 

There is nothing wrong with talking the way you would like to spice things up with your boyfriend.

 

You should tell your boyfriend everything about flirting, how it makes you feel and how it will add value to your bond.

 

If you won’t give him a reason why he should flirt with you and he has no idea then nothing will happen between the two of you.

 

Trust me, the relationship will be boring.

 

2. Watch romantic movies together.

After you have told your boyfriend why you want him to flirt with you this is another thing you should think of doing.

 

You must watch romantic movies together so that your boyfriend can capture one or two ideas from the romantic movies you watch.

 

I would recommend you check out romantic reality shows, they are very awesome.

 

I remember watching Love Island it’s one of the best romantic reality shows that you can watch with your boyfriend.

 

When you watch these kinds of movies and tv shows you will make your boyfriend aware of the whole romantic world.

 

He will be able to pick one or two things and use them with you.

 

I can’t tell you he will be perfect after watching one reality show but at least he will have an idea of what to do when it comes to flirting.

 

So, take your time watching several movies and romantic shows and you will give him an idea about the whole flirting thing.

 

You should not have high expectations of him, after watching several shows.

 

This is just to give him an idea of what flirting is.

 

3. Take it easy on him for him to understand how you want things to be done.

If your boyfriend doesn’t know how to flirt then you should take it easy on him.

 

You should not force him to grasp things at a go. Take it easy, it’s not a marathon.

 

For him to flirt with you perfectly you have to handle him in a way that he will feel comfortable doing it.

 

In this process of learning how to flirt you shouldn’t be frustrated with him when he does things that you don’t like.

 

You should not push him away when he doesn’t get the idea of flirting right.

 

This will take time for him to master how to flirt with you even if you have watched several romantic movies together.

 

I know there will be a point you will feel like nothing is going the way you expect it to.

 

And that is okay.

 

So, take it easy on him and make him feel that he is trying to do something good.

 

As time goes by he will master the whole idea of flirting with you.

 

4. Teach him how to flirt with you.

This is something else you can do to speed up the learning curve.

 

You want him to flirt with you, then you should teach him how to do it.

 

Don’t take it as a class. Make it something fun with him and you will enjoy it.

 

Take your time to let him know how you would like him to flirt with you.

 

Let him know which places you would like him to touch you and everything you would like him to do.

 

When he does it the way you want you should give him positive feedback so that he feels he is doing the right thing.

 

If he does something wrong don’t push him away instead show him how you would like it to be done.

 

Doing this every day with him will help him, master, how you want things to be done.

 

After a short period, he will know how to flirt with you the exact way you want him to.

 

5. Make the habit of flirting with him.

If your boyfriend doesn’t know how to flirt you should make the habit of flirting with him.

 

When you flirt with him frequently you will make him feel good.

 

The moment he feels good when you flirt with him he will also want to make you feel the same way he feels.

 

This will turn out to be two-way traffic.

 

And since you have taught him how you would want him to flirt with you then he will always do it with you.

 

This will make him understand flirting better.

 

But if you rarely flirt with him yet you want him to flirt with you it will be hard for him to do it.

 

He will find it hard to initiate flirting with you because you rarely do it.

 

So, make the habit of flirting with him if you want him to flirt with you.

 

The more you flirt with him the more you will make it easier for him to master how to flirt with you.

 

6. Make him fall in love with the game of flirting.

If your boyfriend hates flirting he will never want to learn it.

 

So, for you to make him want to flirt with you then you should make him fall in love with it.

 

The moment he falls in love with the game of flirting this will motivate him to flirt with you.

 

And when he is motivated he will feel the need of him to learn how to flirt with you.

 

This will make him do his research and also what he will learn from you will make him better.

 

Since he will be in love with it he will do it with a passion.

 

You will make him fall in love with the game of flirting if you let him know its benefit.

 

Show him how it makes you feel and keep doing it with and you will make him know how to flirt with you.

 

Lastly…

 

If your boyfriend doesn’t know how to flirt with you then you should make a point of flirting with him.

 

When you flirt with him frequently he will feel good and he will want to do the same for you.

 

Even if he doesn’t know anything he will want to learn how to do it perfectly.

 

You can take this opportunity of teaching him how you want it to be.

 

Take it easy on him as he learns how to do it and understand that it will take time for him to know how to do it the way you want him to.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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