5 Reasons Why He Keeps Rescheduling Dates (+Cancelling)

If he keeps on rescheduling dates then there is always a reason behind that. No man can just keep on rescheduling dates without a solid reason.

 

So, in this article, I’ll share with you the reasons why he may keep rescheduling your dates.

 

He cancelled our date but wants to reschedule.

 

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When a guy cancels a date but he wants to reschedule then you should be happy about it.

 

This is because he actually still has the intention of meeting you.

 

If he cancelled a date but wants to reschedule this means that he still has the motive of meeting you. He wants to reschedule because he was never able to make up for the date which is why he cancelled it. So, give him the time and day you will like to meet him again.

 

He cancelled the date but he didn’t reschedule.

If he cancelled the date but he never bothered to reschedule it then it means that he has no intentions of meeting you at all. It can also be that he isn’t interested in meeting you anymore. If he had an interest in meeting you then he would have rescheduled the date.

He Keeps Cancelling Plans

If he keeps cancelling plans it can be that he is not interested in meeting you, he is not yet ready to meet you due to several reasons or it can be that he is too busy and that is why he never gets a chance to make it up to you.

 

What does it mean when a guy keeps Cancelling dates?

When a guy keeps on cancelling dates despite all the reasons he might give you, the truth is that he has no interest in you. It also does mean that he isn’t ready to offer his time to you. A man who has an interest in you will never cancel on you.

This is way worse than rescheduling. A person who keeps on rescheduling dates at least gives you hope that one day you will end up meeting.

 

On the other side, for the person who keeps on cancelling them, there is almost zero probability of you meeting him. When you are in a relationship with such a person you have to start to evaluate your relationship early enough before it’s too late.

 

If a man isn’t ready to sacrifice his time for you what do you think he will be able to sacrifice?

A Guy Cancelled A Date But Rescheduled.

 

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If a guy cancels a date and reschedules it this shows that he still has the motive of meeting you. It can be that the day he planned the date something came up and that is why he rescheduled it to a later date.

 

He Keeps Making Plan Then Cancelling

He keeps making plans and then cancelling them because he feels he is not yet ready to meet you. The fact that he makes the plan shows that he is interested in meeting you but something holds him back and he cancels the plan.

 

It can be that he is so afraid to meet you in person. And that is why he cancels the plans since he feels nervous and thinks so much about how that date will go.

 

He Keeps cancelling and rescheduling dates.

If he keeps cancelling and rescheduling dates there might be a reason why he does that.

 

He keeps cancelling and rescheduling the dates because he is not yet ready to meet you at all. And the action of him cancelling and rescheduling repeatedly is an act of stalling. Also, he may be too busy to make up for the dates which is why he keeps cancelling and rescheduling.

 

He Likes Me But Keeps Cancelling.

If he likes you but keeps cancelling it’s because he is not yet ready to meet you, he may be afraid to meet you and it can be that he doesn’t want to meet you so soon since he doesn’t want you to move too first.

 

Why Does He Keep Cancelling On Me?

 

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He keeps cancelling on you because he is not interested in meeting you, he doesn’t like you and that is why he doesn’t want to spend his time with you. If he was into you then he couldn’t have been cancelling on you.

 

How do you respond when a guy reschedules a date?

When a guy reschedules a date there is nothing you can do about that. You can respond by telling him “Oh! I’ll be waiting for the next date, hopeful it will work out.” If you won’t show up for the rescheduled date then tell him, “I won’t be available for that date.”

If you will keep silent whenever he keeps on rescheduling the dates then he will assume that you are okay with that. The moment he notices that you don’t complain about him rescheduling the dates then it will become something obvious for him to do.

 

Trust me if it continues that way you will lose touch with each other and your relationship will be on the verge of failing.

 

You have to talk to him and try to put things back in order. If you will not respond appropriately to him whenever he keeps rescheduling then you will be letting go of that relationship a bit by bit.

 

If there is any problem in a relationship it should be addressed earlier and appropriately. It’s one of the challenges that might happen in a relationship and you have to find a way to solve it.

What to say to someone who keeps cancelling on you?

This is what to say to someone who keeps cancelling on you; “I’m done waiting to meet you, I can’t do this anymore count me out, you will never cancel on me again.” This shows that you are pissed and you won’t tolerate the games of wasting each other’s time again.

When you make it open to him or her that you are tired of what he or she keeps on doing you will get a chance to change him. He or she will realize that what he does is something that keeps on affecting you.

 

If he or she really loves you he will stop doing that and give you the time you deserve. You deserve happiness in your relationship.

 

Happiness in a relationship is contributed by your effort too—by correcting the wrongs that are done in that relationship.

So, say what you feel isn’t right in a relationship. Cancelling on you is never right, is it?

I’ll first start by outlining the reasons why he keeps on rescheduling dates. Without spilling so much in the first paragraph let me start right away.

 

These are the reasons why he keeps on rescheduling dates;

1. He isn’t ready to start to commit.

 

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If you are starting a new relationship with him then this might be one of the reasons. A man who isn’t ready to commit to a relationship will always have second thoughts about making out for dates.

 

This will happen with men who are still figuring out what they want from that relationship. The moment when a man has no intentions of being committed to a relationship it will be very hard for him to manage the dates he plans.

 

If he isn’t ready to commit to a relationship that you have recently started then, it will be so hard for him to make up for the dates he plans to have with you.

 

The main reason why this might happen is that that relationship moved too fast and he wasn’t ready for it. If something happened suddenly you will never have a good grip on it. So, controlling it will be an issue.

 

The moment a relationship moves too fast and you all fail to consider everything that is required for that relationship, not many of your plans will work out.

 

This is especially if one of the partners was never psychologically prepared to be committed in a relationship.

 

You have to know that a date is very important in a relationship. This is especially if it’s the first date you will have to make sure that everything goes amazingly.

 

If the first date manages to go successful so will the relationship. You also have to understand that dates will never happen magically.

 

People have to plan for them. All that planning of coming with an amazing date will never happen if he is committed to that relationship.

 

So, if he isn’t ready to commit to that relationship he will always keep on rescheduling the dates.

 

2. He doesn’t know what he wants.

The moment a man has no idea of what he wants from a girl it will be a tricky situation for him to make out for the dates.

 

Don’t get me wrong here but it’s something that an undecided man will always fail at.

 

If he doesn’t know what he wants from you he will always have a question of whether he should go ahead and make these dates happen or not.

 

He will never be sure of what to do about the date that is exactly why he will keep on rescheduling them.

 

It’s always hard to make a decision in your life if you don’t know the choice you are about to pick. This is the same thing to a man who has no idea of what from you.

 

You will always be getting lame excuses of why the coming weekend he won’t be able to meet you. These excuses will never be over.

 

Each and every time you plan to meet he will give you a pretty good reason that he knows you will understand.

 

The main reason why he may keep rescheduling these dates is to figure out what he really wants from you.

 

Rescheduling dates will give him enough time to get to pick the right choice. When he finally knows what he wants from you he will never miss any date.

 

3. He isn’t ready to face you.

 

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This may sound awkward to you but that is the fact. If he isn’t ready to face you in person he will always keep on rescheduling dates.

 

In most cases, this is for those guys you meet online. He may be so eloquent when you are chatting with him. It will make you believe that you have a guy who is confident enough.

 

The truth is that not all men have the courage to face a woman. We have men who are shy too.

 

If he doesn’t have the courage to face you he will never make his dates a success. He will always come up with something in the middle to interrupt the dates.

 

There are so many things that might make a man not be ready to face you.

 

He may not be ready to face you because he has low self-esteem, he doesn’t have confidence, he is shy, he has no idea of how he will handle you and he is afraid of the way you might see him.

 

Those are just a few reasons why he may not be ready to face you.

 

I remember I used to be on the same side. I never had confidence when it came to making out dates to work.

 

I would plan a date with her at the weekend but when it reaches that day I would be so nervous that I would call it off.

 

This is something that keeps on happening. He may be rescheduling because he has no confidence to face you in person.

 

Don’t be surprised when you text him during the day that you were supposed to meet he would ignore your texts.

 

4. He may be too busy.

If he is working you should probably expect him to be busy. When a man loves you he will always be willing to spend time with you.

 

Time is a very important aspect of a relationship. If there is no quality time in a relationship, it’s likely to fail.

 

He may be understanding this too, but if what he does is what holds his life then it will be very hard for him to make up for the dates you plan with him.

 

I know you know too that if you are focused on something very crucial it will be very hard to go out for dates.

 

A man who is too busy will always keep on rescheduling dates hoping that he will get a tiny gap of time and make it up to you.

 

This is maybe the case with him. You obviously know your man better than anyone else. If he is a busy man you may know his schedule.

 

Anyway, no matter how busy he may be if he really loves you he will come around and make it up to you on the dates that he kept on missing.

 

This is one of the sacrifices, people have to make in a relationship—Leaving something important for another important thing.

 

You also have to understand that it’s about priority. If he kept your relationship at the top of his priority he would have never been rescheduling the dates every now and then.

 

5. He may be seeing someone else.

 

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This may be another reason. If a man keeps on rescheduling the dates every time then this might be the reason.

 

If he has someone else who could capture him more than you did then he might be spending his free time with someone else.

 

There are so many reasons why he might be seeing someone else.

 

You have to make sure before you reach such a conclusion that he is seeing someone else you have fully studied his moves.

 

You might end up accusing him of something he never did and this might ruin the trust between the two of you.

 

Anyway, if you are dating him and he keeps on rescheduling dates and yet you know he has nothing important that keeps him committed other than you, this should convey that there is something fishy going on in that relationship.

 

If he is seeing someone else his interest in you could have obviously been lost. The moment a man loses his interest in someone it will be very hard for him to take her seriously.

 

You might like this: 16 Sure-Fire Signs He Is Not Interested In You 

 

If your man can’t take you seriously do you think he will be able to pull out the dates you keep planning with him?

 

Is it rude to reschedule a date?

It’s not rude to reschedule a date, but cancelling it without rescheduling it, is definitely rude. It’s not rude to reschedule the date if you are caught up in an emergency. Sometimes we can’t control how time interacts with our lives.

If you are found yourself in a situation that you can’t evade you will have no choice but to reschedule your date.

 

Your partner will understand if it’s not a usual routine for you to reschedule dates every time. So, it’s not rude to reschedule the date if you are in a bad situation.

 

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