He Rejected Me And Now He Wants Me: Do This

If he rejected you and now he wants you, here is something you need to do.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do when the guy who rejected you wants you.

 

I know it can be confusing to understand if the guy truly loves you or if he is just playing with your mind.

 

I will make it clear to you if he wants to use you or if he is truly into you.

 

Also, you have to know that guys can change their minds about the girl they rejected due to several things that I will share with you in this article.

 

What to do when a guy who rejected you wants you;

1. Find out why he wants you after rejecting you.

If he rejected you and now he wants you then this is the first thing you should do.

 

Don’t just give in simply because you want to be with him. When a guy rejects you there is always a reason behind that.

 

And when he turns against what he stands for, there is also a reason behind that.

 

So, I don’t advise you to give him a chance without finding out why he wants you after rejecting you.

 

There are thousands of reasons why a guy may change his mind after rejecting you.

 

Some of the reasons are understandable while others are just lame excuses for him to use you.

 

If he wants you now after rejecting you then know there is something he wants from you.

 

It can be that he wants you now simply because he is desperate or he is just trying to waste your time and later dump you.

 

So, the first thing you should do is to find out why he wants you after he turned you down.

 

It’s easy to find out why he wants you. Don’t push him away because you are mad at him for rejecting you.

 

Try to understand why he thought to change his mind about you.

 

Sit down with him and have a solid conversation with him, get to know how he feels about you and why he wants you now yet he rejected you the first time you expressed your feelings to him.

 

Ask him how he feels about you, ask him to tell you what changed about you and now he wants you and let him tell you why he thinks it’s a better idea to get close to you after rejecting you the first time.

 

The answers to these questions will give you a clear idea of how he feels about you and why he wants you after rejecting you.

 

2. Get close to him and find out his intentions.

The answers he might give you as to why he wants you now after rejecting you may make sense, guys are good at lying.

 

You can only know the truth about how he feels about you by seeing how he handles himself before you.

 

If he wants you now after rejecting you and you aren’t sure if you should give him a chance or not then don’t rush anything with him.

 

Rushing things with him simply because you are in love with him will only land you in a place you never expected.

 

I know it may be hard to slow things down with him especially if you are so much in love with him.

 

Hold your feelings, slow things down and get close to him but don’t give him the answer he wants to hear.

 

If he says that he wants you the only thing you should do is to ask him to give you time to process what he has told you.

 

This will give you a chance to be close to him, and since you have told him that you need time to think about what he told you, he will be in touch with you.

 

He will keep on texting you and checking out on you since he knows you have something that he needs.

 

Don’t ignore him. You can even ask him out and hang out with him. This will give you enough time with him and you will know his intentions.

 

If he only wants to use you then you will know that by the way he will be talking and handling you.

 

Check out the things he prioritizes and you will know his true intentions.

 

Be observant and check how he handles you when you are around him.

 

Check him on every angle before you say yes to him.

 

If the only thing he talks about when he is with you is sex then know that that is what he wants from you.

 

On the other hand, if he only asks you to do him some favours and he wants your money then know that he wants you to use you, for money.

 

You should not give him a chance if this is what you notice.

 

But if he is real with you, he cares about you and he talks about your future with him then know that he is real with you.

 

He is in love with you and you should give him a chance, it can be that he rejected you just because he wasn’t ready for a relationship.

 

3. Consider what you feel for him.

If he wants you after he rejected you this is something you should consider.

 

Ask yourself what you feel for him before you say yes to him.

 

It can be that after he rejected you, the way you feel about him changed.

 

Take your time to verify your feelings for him.

 

If you are still in love with him and he wants you then you should think of giving him the chance.

 

But if you are unsure about how you feel for him then you should not give him the chance, keep him waiting as you process your feelings for him.

 

Don’t just give him a chance simply because you were once in love with him and he rejected you.

 

Love changes over time, so, don’t just conclude that you still feel the same for him.

 

When someone rejects you there is a part of your feelings about them that changes.

 

The love you had for them changes into hatred.

 

So, if he wants you now after he rejected you, consider how you feel about him before you decide anything.

 

If you don’t feel the same for him then you should not force a connection with him no matter how much you wanted him.

 

But if you feel that you are still in love with him then you should open your heart to him and start a relationship with him.

 

4. Give him a chance if you know he is genuine.

Someone who is truly in love with you will be real with you, he will do anything to prove to you that you are the only person that matters.

 

He rejected you and now he wants you! It can be that he just wants to toy with your feelings.

 

The only way you will know if he is genuine is to observe how he handles you.

 

You can give him a chance if he is someone you are still in love with, but don’t move the relationship fast.

 

In the first month, you should just observe how he handles you.

 

Try different things to test his loyalty and do things that will make him angry at you and observe how he will handle them.

 

All these things will show you if he is truly in love with you or if he just wants to use you.

 

If you have given him a chance and he is not serious about you simply because you told him that you don’t want to rush the relationship then know that he is not real with you.

 

He only wants to use you and that is why he is not taking you seriously.

 

You should just dump him if this is the situation you come across.

 

There is no need to be with someone who will take you for granted for the rest of the days in that relationship.

 

When you find out that he is genuine then you should give him the chance.

 

Be happy that he changed his mind about you and build something amazing with him.

 

Don’t ask yourself so many questions, it can be that he dumped someone else for you.

 

That is not bad, it shows that you are the only person he wants to be with and rejecting you was his worst mistake.

 

Lastly…

 

if he wants you now after he rejected you don’t be afraid to ask him, why the change of heart.

 

Ask him why he changed his mind about you and observe how he handles himself before you.

 

Some guys will only come to you when they are desperate and they want someone to ride along with.

 

Don’t be too easy to give in, it can be that he only wants to use you since he knows you have a thing for him.

 

When you find that he is genuine, you should not rush things, take things slow with him and see how he will treat you.

 

This is to ensure that you don’t get yourself in a bad situation with him.

 

On the other hand, if he wants you and you don’t feel anything for him after he rejected you then you should not bother giving him a chance.

 

Let him know that you don’t feel the same for him and he should find someone else.

 

Don’t force yourself into a relationship with him simply because he was your dream guy and things between the two of you change.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment, and see you in my next article.

 

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