Why He Says He’s Too Stressed For A Relationship

If he says he is too stressed for a relationship then you need to know this. It can be that he is just kicking you away or it can be that he is truly stressed.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why he says he is too stressed for a relationship.

 

When a guy says he is too stressed for a relationship there are several things he is trying to mean.

 

And you will know them all in this article.

 

Why he says he is too stressed for a relationship;

1. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

When a guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you he will come up with so many excuses.

 

He will do everything he can to disconnect himself from you.

 

The truth is that if he wanted to be in a relationship with you then he couldn’t have told you that he is too stressed for a relationship.

 

As a man, he would have done everything to figure out how he could have managed the relationship.

 

But if he is telling you that he is too stressed for a relationship that is just an excuse.

 

He is using stress to reject you in a way that you won’t think that he doesn’t want to be with you.

 

When a guy wants something he will do everything to get it.

 

If he wanted to be with you then nothing would have stopped him from making his way to you.

 

Not stress, money or his friends, he would have done something to make sure he manages all the things that hinder him from being with you.

 

But since you are the one trying to convince him to be with you he is giving you this excuse because he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

 

2. He doesn’t want to date anyone.

If he says he is too stressed for a relationship then this could be another reason.

 

It can be that he says he is too stressed for a relationship because he doesn’t feel like being in any relationship.

 

There are so many reasons why guys don’t want to be in relationships nowadays.

 

If you ask many of them they will tell you so many different things.

 

Some will tell you that they don’t want to commit to anyone, some will tell you they are afraid of being hurt and some will even tell you they can’t afford to be in a relationship.

 

When a guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship he will never give you a clue that he wants to be with you.

 

He will only handle you like a friend even when you show him that you are interested in him.

 

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So, if you have noticed he has been pushing you away, he doesn’t want to pay attention to you, his conversations with you are always short and straight to the point and he doesn’t bother complimenting you then know that he just doesn’t want to be in a relationship with anyone.

 

He doesn’t want to give you the impression that he wants to date.

 

Also, if he never talks about relationship issues with you and when you ask him about them he tells you that he is too stressed to be in a relationship then know that he doesn’t want to date.

 

3. He doesn’t like you.

If he says he is too stressed for a relationship when you ask him to date you then this is another reason.

 

The moment you express your feelings to a guy and he tells you he is too stressed for a relationship then this is the reason behind that phrase.

 

The truth is that he doesn’t like you and that is why he told you he is too stressed for a relationship.

 

If he was attracted to you and he liked you then nothing else would have mattered.

 

He would have let you in even without you trying so hard.

 

But the fact that he doesn’t feel a thing for you he thinks if he tells you the truth he will hurt your feelings.

 

If you have come across these signs then know that he doesn’t like you.

 

Signs he is not romantically interested in you;

  • He only talks to you when he wants something from you.
  • He keeps a distance from you.
  • He doesn’t talk about his personal life with you.
  • He doesn’t give you any attention.
  • He handles you the way he handles his guy friends.
  • He doesn’t get jealous when you hang out with other guys.
  • He doesn’t want to hang out with you alone.
  • He is strictly professional when he handles you.

 

These are some of the signs you will come across when a guy is not romantically interested in you.

 

So, if you have come across any of these signs from him then know that he doesn’t like you.

 

And that is why when you expressed your feelings for him he told you that he is too stressed for a relationship.

 

4. He is pushing you away.

When a guy doesn’t want to get closer to you because he knows if you do then he might fall for you then he will always try to distance himself from you.

 

He will avoid getting too closer to you.

 

We have guys who are afraid of what might happen when they fall in love.

 

Some are afraid even to express their feelings to women because they are afraid of what might come from them doing that.

 

These guys tend to have the habit of pushing women away when they get closer to them.

 

If you expressed your feeling for him and he told you he is too stressed for a relationship then know that he was pushing you away.

 

He is not yet ready to fall in love with you.

 

This guy knows that if he tells you that he is too stressed for a relationship you will stop pursuing him.

 

You will distance yourself from him because you will assume he doesn’t prefer to be in a relationship.

 

And this is what he is doing for you.

 

5. He may be committed to something else important to him.

When a guy says that he is too stressed for a relationship this is what he is trying to mean.

 

He is committed to something else in his life that takes most of his time and that is why he doesn’t have the energy to commit to a relationship.

 

It can be that he is committed to his career or he is busy making sure that his life is in shape.

 

He knows that if he enters a relationship this will disrupt his concentration and it will be hard for him to achieve the things he wants.

 

So, if you know this guy is so strict and has so many principles then this could be one of the reasons why he says he is too stressed for a relationship.

 

Try to give him time and try to approach him again and hear what he will say to you.

 

Lastly… 

 

When a guy says he is too stressed for a relationship after you have expressed your feelings for him then know that it’s just an excuse he is giving you.

 

It can be that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you or he doesn’t like you.

 

The moment a guy tells you that he is too stressed for a relationship and he has never shown any interest in you then know that he doesn’t like you.

 

He doesn’t feel the same for you and that is why he is giving you these excuses.

 

Anyway, when he says he is too stressed for a relationship, don’t stop there.

 

Try to come up with ways how you can impress him and maybe he will change his mind about being with you.

 

It can be that he wants you to try harder.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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