Why He Says It’s Over But Still Texts Me (+What To Do)

If he says it’s over and he is still texting you then here is something you need to know about him. The moment a guy decides to leave for a wherever reason he will never bother reaching out to you.

 

If your boyfriend says it’s over but still texts you then there is something he is trying to do.

 

In this article, I’m going to share with you several reasons why he still texts you yet he says it’s over and what to do about it.

 

Without further ado, let me dive into it.

 

Why he says it’s over but still text you;

1. He is afraid to let you go.

If he says it’s over but still texts you then know that he is afraid to let you go.

 

He has decided to call it a quit but this is something that is troubling him.

 

The truth is that if he wanted to end the relationship with you for any reason then he wouldn’t have bothered to text you at all.

 

But the fact that he is still texting you shows that he is still afraid of living up to his decision.

 

He decided to end the relationship but now when he thinks about it, he is afraid of what is going to happen when you completely leave his life.

 

Your boyfriend is afraid of letting you because he doesn’t want to be lonely.

 

There are moments when you want to let go of a relationship because things are messy in it, but when you think of what will happen after letting go of that relationship this is something that will make you hold yourself back.

 

When you are in a relationship you are used to each other, you are glued to each other and all your schedules are aligned with each other.

 

So, when you think of ending the relationship with someone there is much that is going to change.

 

Loneliness is what will attack you and almost everything you used to do daily will change.

 

This is one of the reasons why your boyfriend still texts you even after telling you it’s over.

 

It can be that he was confident when he said it was over but deep he is so afraid to let go of that relationship.

 

2. He is still in love with you.

If he said it’s over but still texts you this is another reason behind that.

 

Your boyfriend may have told you it’s over but he is still insanely in love with you.

 

When a guy wants to end a relationship with you simply because he doesn’t feel the same for you he will never look back.

 

He will ignore your call and your texts, even when you meet him in person he will never want to speak to you again.

 

But if your boyfriend still texts you even after ending the relationship with you this shows how much he feels for you.

 

Your boyfriend is still in love with you and that is why he still texts you even after he said it’s over.

 

If you are still in love with him and you want to fight for the relationship then you should make an effort of doing it.

 

You might like this: When To Fight For A Relationship & When To Let Go

 

Use this to your advantage and make everything go back to normal.

 

The fact that he is texting you even after he said it’s over shows that he still feels something for you.

 

But if after he has told you it’s over your feelings for him just faded then you should not bother yourself replying to his texts.

 

So, just know that your boyfriend is still in love with you though he ended the relationship.

 

He said it’s over but deep down is still holding onto you because of how he feels about you.

 

3. He wants to change his mind about letting you go.

If your boyfriend said it’s over but still texts you then this is one of the reasons.

 

It can be that your boyfriend thought about what he told you and he is haunted by what he said to you.

 

He told you it’s over but now he thinks that he made a bad decision and he is trying to figure out a way how he can bring you back in the lane.

 

He wants to change his mind about letting you go and do the same to you.

 

If he says it’s over but still texts you romantic texts, he checks out on you and he even tries to tell you to come over then know that he wants to change his mind about letting you go.

 

Your boyfriend wants to change his mind because he knows what he told you wasn’t a good idea.

 

So, if you find him being so caring and yet he said it’s over then know that he wants to change his mind about you breaking up with you.

 

He is trying to keep in touch with you so that the relationship bond between the two of you doesn’t break completely.

 

He knows that if he doesn’t talk to you then things will turn pretty fast and that is what he is afraid of.

 

4. He is lonely and desperate.

If he says it’s over but still texts you then know that he is so lonely and desperate.

 

This is one of the things that make people reach back to their exes.

 

Your boyfriend wants the relationship to be over but the only thing that he is facing right now is loneliness.

 

He doesn’t have anyone else to talk to the way he was talking to you, he doesn’t have anything to do because his schedule was aligned with yours and he is just lonely.

 

This is what makes him to texts you yet he says it’s over.

 

When a guy says it’s over but still texts you, give him a month, he will forget about you.

 

Do you know why he will forget about you after a month?

 

He will forget you because he will meet someone else and that will just change his focus.

 

Right now he is only texting you because he is desperate and lonely.

 

If he made up his mind about ending the relationship with you why do you think he is still texting you?

 

He is only using you to get over the loneliness he feels. He doesn’t have anyone to talk to the way he used to talk to you.

 

But the moment he will meet someone new he will ghost you and he will never get back to you.

 

5. He wants to end things on good terms.

If he says it’s over but still texts you then this is one of the reasons.

 

He wants to end the relationship with you peaceful. He doesn’t want you to be enemies.

 

So, if he is texting you explaining to you why he says it’s over in the first place, or he is trying to bring peace between the two of you then this is the main reason why he does that.

 

He wants you to part ways peaceful so that when you meet in the streets you can say hi to each other without having that hatred.

 

Your boyfriend still wants to be friends with you even after the break-up and that is why he is still texting you.

 

If he is texting you telling you how sorry he is for ending the relationship with you then this should tell you that he wants to end the relationship peacefully.

 

He doesn’t want you to hate him and he wants you to be good friends even though you broke up.

 

What to do when he texts you after saying it’s over.

If he still texts you after saying it’s over the best thing is to ignore him or block him. But if you still want to fix the relationship simply because you still want him back then you should give it a shot. This may be the only chance you have to save your relationship from ending.

 

Lastly…

 

When he says it’s over but still texts you and you know for sure there is no going back after what he said then the best to do is to ignore his texts or block him.

 

If he ended the relationship with you the only thing he wants to do is to use you and toy with your feelings.

 

You should not waste your energy replying to his texts.

 

He is afraid of letting you go and that is why he is still texting you.

 

It can be that he made the decision and now he is wondering how he can go back on his words.

 

If you don’t want to talk to him after he said it’s over then don’t bother wasting your time replying to his texts.

 

The best thing to do is just to get rid of him.

 

But if you still want to fight for your relationship then you should make a point of talking to him.

 

You may still have a chance to save your relationship.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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