In this article, I will share with you some tips on how to approach a girl for the first time and win her attention.
The tips that I will share with you in this article will boost your confidence and you will never be afraid to approach any girl you find attractive.
Approaching a girl for the first time is not hard at all if you will have the tips that I’m about to share with you.
Without wasting time, let me share with you how to approach a girl for the first time and win her attention.
This is how to approach a girl for the first time
1. Find an angle through which you will approach her.
If you want to approach a girl for the first time, this is the first thing you should do.
You should find an angle that you will use when you approach her.
Before you approach her you should know what you are going for.
Are you all about making friends or do you want a girl who will later emerge to be your girlfriend?
If you want to approach her to make her your friend then you don’t have to think too much about that.
There is nothing complicated about that and you should just go without thinking so much about it.
We all want to make friends, but if she will tell you that she doesn’t want to be friends then you will walk away.
But if you want to approach her in a way that you will end up making her your girlfriend then you should do it in a way that will give you an added advantage.
You should do it in a way that you will keep this girl thinking about you even after you are done with the conversation.
This is something that will make her chase you, she will be doing all the things you were supposed to do and you will have her very easy.
Find the angle that you will use to make sure that you get her to pay attention to you and listen to what you have to say.
If you will not find the right angle to approach her then she might end up ignoring you even if she finds you attractive.
She might dismiss you because you failed to use the right angle to approach her.
Finding the right angle is all about knowing the timings that will get you to get her attention and make her listen to what you have to say.
You should approach her at the moment that you know she will look at you and listen to what you have to say.
For instance, if she is busy working out, when you approach her at this moment it will be very hard for her to pay attention to you.
She will be too busy lifting weights, her energy and attention will be on something else.
This will prevent her from listening to you and giving you the attention that you need.
For the conversation to flow smoothly she has to be listening and giving you the right amount of attention.
The best thing you should do is to wait until she is done with her sets then approach her.
This is the time she will listen to you and give you the attention you want.
So, before you think of approaching her, you should ensure that she is not too involved in other issues that will prevent her from listening to what you have to say.
You can’t expect her to listen to you when she is arguing with her friends about something.
She will even conclude that you are too crazy to approach her at such a moment.
This is the angle that I’m talking about.
Find the right space that will ensure that she gives you her attention and listen to what you have to say.
This is what will give you the chance to say what you want to say, ask her for her number, and even set up the first date.
2. Don’t think too much about what will happen when you approach her.
When it comes to approaching girls for the first time, most guys usually think so hard about it.
If you think too much about what will happen when you approach her then you will never manage to approach her.
Your mind will always be thinking of the negative part.
“She is going to push me away, she is going to embarrass me, I know she is going to say she has a boyfriend, she will not even listen to me, she will walk away from me”
All these are some of the things that will be going on in your mind and you will even fail to make your first move.
When you think too much about what will happen when you approach her then you will never be able to do it.
You will lose confidence and you will get cold feet. Thinking of how you should go about your first approach will be a very hard thing to do.
So, if you want to approach her you should not think too much about the aftermath.
The only thing you should care about is doing the approach and the other things will flow in order.
Anyway, what is the worst thing that could happen when you approach a girl?
Will you die if you approach a girl and she says no to whatever you want from her?
Will you lose your dignity when you approach a girl and she walks away from you?
Does it hurt when you approach a girl and she ignores you?
There is nothing bad that could happen when you approach a girl as long as you are doing it the right way.
I’m not telling you that you should just approach her in any style simply because you don’t care about what will happen.
You should be cautious not to turn her away because of how you will approach her but don’t think of what she will say to you. Don’t conclude your fate before talking to her.
Gather your courage and confidence, and approach her without thinking too much.
You should keep two things in your mind before approaching a girl. She can either welcome you with open arms or she can dismiss you.
These are the two things that might happen.
Knowing that these are the only options she has will build your courage to approach her.
You will be ready for anything simply because you know her options are limited.
If you approach her and it happens that she doesn’t want to talk to you then she would have given you a chance to approach someone else better than her.
Trust me, there will be always a better girl than her bro.
So, don’t think so hard about it.
And if she will welcome you with open arms and be ready to listen to everything you want to tell her then that is super awesome.
You will have her to yourself. So, don’t think too much about what will happen when you want to approach a girl for the first time and this is what will give you confidence.
When you know what is going to happen before when you approach a girl then you have control of whole the situation.
And now, you know that she can either listen and give you her attention or dismiss you.
You have control of everything bro, don’t let anything stop you at all.
Stop thinking too much about what will happen and go for her.
3. Make yourself ready to approach her.
Now that you know what will happen when you approach her, you should get ready to approach her.
Getting yourself ready to approach her doesn’t mean that you cram everything that you are going to say to her.
It doesn’t include you rehearsing the words you should use when talking to her.
We all know that before you approach her you have to know why are doing it.
That is the only thing you should keep in your mind.
What do you want to get from her by approaching her? This is what will give you clarity and you will never get out of topic when you talk to her.
Trust me, you can get nervous when you are around her especially if she is not the average type of girl you are used to talking to.
But when you know what you want from her then it will make everything easier for you.
You will know what you should do when you approach her.
Make yourself ready to approach her, this means you should do everything you can to look dashing and smell good.
Ensure that you look presentable when you approach her so that you get her attention.
This is what I meant by preparing yourself to approach her.
Groom yourself the right way, comb your hair if you have to, brush your teeth – you don’t want to make her look away from you when talking and spray little perfume on your clothes.
I guess these are the usual things that you keep doing every day in the morning before you go out.
This means you are ready to approach her.
If you don’t do these things then you are failing yourself, bro. You have to take care of yourself first if you want anyone else to do that for you.
When you approach her and you are all set up and ready to make her listen to you and give you the attention you want, all the other things will proceed easily.
This is what will give you the confidence to approach her in a style that you know she won’t resist.
Also, it will show her that you are a high-value man and she will give you the attention you deserve.
Trust me, girls look keenly at the guys who approach them before they decide to turn them down or give them a shot.
So, ensure that you prepare yourself and be the guy that will have a shot at this girl you want to approach for the first time.
4. Approach her, never wait for the right moment because you might never get it.
If you want to approach her for the first time then you should do it because there will never be the right moment.
The moment that you may be searching for may never come and you will fail to approach her.
Waiting for the right moment will only make you get cold feet and you will lose the courage to do it.
There is no day all you will get the right moment because each day comes with new things.
If you want to approach her when she is looking at you and smiling then that day may never come.
There is no day she will look at you and smile since she doesn’t know you that well.
This moment you are waiting for will never become real.
So, you should approach her because the sun and moon will never align for you.
If she is always talking to other people and you are waiting for her to be alone for you to approach then this may never happen.
And this means you will miss your shot with her.
If she always walks out of her classroom with a bunch of girlfriends, and you are waiting for the day that she will walk out of that class alone then that moment may never come.
There is no day you will get the right moment, if you manage to get the right moment, she will have already been snatched by another guy who doesn’t wait for the right moment.
So, kick all your fears away and approach her there will never be the right moment for you.
If she is always with a group of friends, approach her and say hi to all of her friends and pull her side.
She will listen to you if she is interested in you, but if she isn’t then she will push you away and this will have saved you a lot of time.
You might like this: 7 Signs Someone Is Pushing You Away (+ What To Do)
There is no right moment, if you find her attractive and you want to approach her then you should do it.
Approach her and say what you want to say.
Approaching a girl for the first time is not an issue and you should not let it turn you down or prevent you from making a move on a girl you are attracted to.
There is no way you will manage to win the girl you want in your life if you will not make an effort to make the first approach.
Before you approach a girl you should know that there is nothing worse that can happen rather than her accepting to talk to you or dismissing you.
If you know that she can either talk to you or ignore you then this will boost your confidence and you will never be afraid to approach any girl you are interested in.
You should not conclude that she doesn’t want want to talk to you because she is too good to be yours.
Don’t just conclude that she has a boyfriend and when you approach her you will never stand a chance.
Clear your head and just approach her, handle it as a normal thing and you will never fail to approach any type of girl you want.
So, don’t let your fears of rejection prevent you from winning a beautiful girl.
If you will approach her and she decides to ignore you it’s her loss, walk away and find someone else who will be willing to talk to you.
If she ignores you on the first approach then this clearly shows that she is not interested in you and you should not waste your time chasing her.
Walk away and find someone else who will be willing to talk to you.
This is all about approaching a girl for the first time, you don’t need any superpowers.
Do this and you will thank me later.
Thank you so much for reading, if you have any questions you should leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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