When a guy sends you a song you obviously have to respond to him. If you just stay silent you will make things awkward.
In this article, I will share with you how to respond when a guy sends you a song and other related things you should know.
This is how to respond when a guy sends you a song;
1. You have to listen to the song first.
When a guy sends you a song the first thing you have to do before responding is to listen to the song.
You will not give an appropriate response when he sends you the song if you don’t know what the song is all about.
If you won’t listen to the song then he will know by the response that you will send to him.
So, you must listen to the songs intensively so that you deeply understand the message he is trying to send to you using that song.
Guys usually use songs sometimes to convey a message.
You never know if there is a message in that song that he wants you to decode.
The only way you will understand the message is by you listening to the song.
2. Ask him why he sent you that song.
After you have listened to that song and you have understood the message in it then the next thing you can do is to ask him why he sent you that song before responding.
The main reason is for you to see if the message that you got from the song aligns with what you have understood from it.
He will tell you why he sent you that song and you will compare your findings and what he will tell you about sending you that song.
When he finally tells you why he sent you that song and you find out that your findings are similar to his reasons for him sending you the song then you can start responding.
3. Show him whether you are interested or not in the song he sent you.
It’s time to show him that you are interested in the song he sent you.
A guy will not just buy it when you tell him that you liked the song and stop there.
If you have a crush on this guy it’s obvious you have to respond in a way to show that you are truly interested in the song he sent you.
To show him that you liked the song, start by asking him about the artist.
Ask him why he chose that song instead of the billion songs that are in this world.
This will show him that you are truly interested in that song and that is why you want to know about the artist and the song in detail.
The other thing you can talk about the song before responding is its musicality.
Talk about the beat and bring your comparisons with other songs you have listened to in the same genre.
This is enough to let him know that you really liked the song he sent you.
If you don’t like the song then you should be honest with him.
You can tell him that the song he sent is cool but you would like him to send you another song.
In this way, you will not make him feel bad about sending you that song.
And this time he might pick a song of your flavour. Don’t just tell him you didn’t like the song and stop at that point.
You should learn to communicate in a way that makes someone feels good talking to you even if you have different opinions.
4. Tell him about you feel about the song.
Now that you have told him to know if you like the song or not it’s time to tell him how you feel about the message that is in the song.
There is a possibility that you never liked the song but you liked the message that is in it.
If you find the message intriguing then tell him how you feel about the song.
When the song conveys a romantic message that you find amazing then tell him the truth.
If he is your boyfriend who sent you the song then tell him that you are flattered by it.
Also, you can add on your own feelings and express them to him about how you feel about the message in that song.
If he is just a friend and he has sent you a romantic song then be honest about how you feel about it.
You don’t have to pretend you like the message of the song if you hate it.
If it’s dirty and you never expected it then tell him to stop sending you such kinds of songs.
5. Ask him to send you such kinds of songs.
This is only for the part that you have liked the song and the message in it suits your relationship with this guy.
To show him that you are extra interested in these kinds of songs is by asking him to send you similar songs.
When you have told him about how you feel about the song then inform him that you would like to listen to such kinds of songs.
This will be a perfect reply and he will be happy to send more songs.
I have to say that songs are amazing to create a perfect memory of someone you like or love.
When you listen to the songs that the person you care about sends you, you will end up thinking about him and this may create a memory of that person.
What Does It Mean When Someone Dedicates A Song To You?
When someone dedicates a song to you first of all it means you are special to that person. That person likes you and also it can be that he is trying to tell you something from the song that he or she has just dedicated to you.
When someone dedicates a song to you it shows that he or she thinks of you and that is why the first thing that came into his or her mind is dedicating a song to you.
Something else is that you make that person happy and that is why he chooses to dedicate a song to you.
What Does It Mean When Someone Tells You To Listen To A Song?
When someone tells you to listen to a song it means there is a message he or she is trying to convey to you through that song. He or she wants you to listen to that song so that you get the message. It’s often used as a romantic gesture.
This is something to note when someone tells you to listen to a song.
He or she knows that there is a message that is in that song and it will capture your mind.
Also, sometimes someone might tell you to listen to a song simply because it reminds you of the times you were together.
Songs usually carry so many memories.
When a guy sends, dedicates and tells you to listen to a song then it means he finds you someone special. He likes you and he wants you to get the message he wants to send through the song.
The way you will respond when a guy sends you a song matters a lot about the kind of morale you will give the guy and the effort he will put into your relationship.
It’s always nice to reply to someone in a way that he will feel it was worthy to search for that song and send it to you.
This will continue building your communication and it will bring a positive attitude to your relationship.
If a guy sent you a song that has an inappropriate message then be honest with him and tell him how you feel about the song he just sent you.
So that it doesn’t happen again next time.
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