I Always Make The First Move After An Argument: Know This

If you always make the first move after an argument then this is something you should know. What I will share with you in this article will enlighten you about your partner and your relationship at large.

 

Without wasting so much time on the introduction, let me get right into it.

 

After an argument, you will have to make a move to fix your issues between the two of you.

 

Your boyfriend or girlfriend should make the move fix things so that your relationship can go back to normal.

 

When there is an argument you will have to make the move of reaching out to your partner to work things out.

 

But you don’t have to always be the one making the first move to fix issues after an argument.

 

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If you always making the first move after an argument to fix your issues even when you are not the cause of the argument then you should know something about your partner.

 

Your partner is probably tired of you, losing interest, wants to call it off, doesn’t put any effort into the relationship and doesn’t want to fix things between the two of you.

 

I will explain some of these things I have shared with you so that you can know something about your partner and the relationship at large.

 

If you always make the first move after an argument then know that your partner is tired of being with you.

The moment you find yourself that you are always the one making an effort to fix any conflicts between you and your partner then know that your partner is tired of you.

 

Your partner is tired of you and that is why he or she doesn’t bother making the first move to fix issues between the two of you.

 

If your partner wasn’t tired of being with you then you wouldn’t have always been the one making the first move after every argument.

 

Your partner would also have been making moves to resolve your conflicts even if you are on the wrong side.

 

But if your partner expects you to reach out to him or her to fix any conflicts between the two of you then know that he is tired of being with you.

 

And if you will at one point stop fixing the issues between the two of you then know that your partner will do nothing.

 

The moment he or she does nothing to fix the argument between you then there is no way your relationship will go back to normal.

 

You will be distanced from each other since you won’t be on good terms, the relationship bond will end up weakening and you will find yourselves breaking up even without knowing it.

 

So, if you always make the first move after an argument even when your partner is on the wrong side then know that he or she is tired of being with you.

 

That relationship is still running because of you and once you stop making any effort of making the first move it will end up failing.

 

Let us say, your relationship is one-sided.

 

If you always make the first move after an argument then know that your partner is losing interest in you.

The way your partner feels about you is what will either enable him or her to make an effort in fixing issues between the two of you or not.

 

So, if you always find yourself making the first move to work things out in your relationship even when your partner is the one who is supposed to make the move then know that your partner is losing interest in you.

 

Your partner doesn’t feel the same way he or she used to feel for you.

 

He or she is just in that relationship because you are making the effort of driving it.

 

There are some things you need to know about this issue.

 

If you have noticed that your partner doesn’t treat you the same way he or she used to treat you then this is sure that your partner has lost his or her interest in you.

 

When your partner doesn’t care about how you feel even after he or she has done something wrong to you then know that he or she doesn’t care about you.

 

Also, when you find out that your partner is pushing you away trying to create a distance between the two of you then know that your partner has lost interest in you.

 

These are some of the things you should observe to know if your partner has truly lost interest in you.

 

If you notice any change in how he or she treats you then know that your partner is losing interest in you and that is why he doesn’t bother making the first move to fix issues between the two of you.

 

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The interest is what will drive someone to work things out in their relationship.

 

This is because it makes them feel like staying in that relationship.

 

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If you always make the first move after an argument then know that your partner wants to end the relationship.

The fact that your partner doesn’t care about apologizing even after hurting your feelings shows that he or she is ready to end the relationship.

 

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When someone is not willing to apologize even after doing something wrong to you then know that that person wishes to walk away from you.

 

A person who wants to save a relationship will always make the effort of apologizing even when he or she is not on the wrong side.

 

Look at you! You want to save your relationship and that is why you always make the first move after every argument even when your partner is wrong.

 

Even when your partner is supposed to be the one making the first move to fix your issues.

 

You care so much about your relationship, you love your partner so much and you don’t want the relationship to fall apart and that is why you always make the first move after an argument.

 

This is not the same thing with your partner. Your partner is not making the first move after an argument because he or she wants to end the relationship.

 

As I said earlier, the moment you will stop making the first move after every argument, there will be no relationship to count on.

 

Your partner wants to end the relationship but he or she doesn’t know how he or she is going to tell you about that.

 

And that is why he or she is not active in working things out between the two of you.

 

You love your partner, you want to keep the relationship going and that is why you find yourself making every effort to see the relationship moving smoothly.

 

The question is, will you keep doing this forever?

 

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If you always make the first move after an argument then know that your partner is not putting any effort into that relationship.

This clearly shows that your partner is not putting any effort into that relationship.

 

If you are the only one making the effort to work things out between the two of you then this means you do almost everything in that relationship.

 

You are the one planning most of the dates, you are the one paying for almost everything, you do everything in the house while your partner is just lazing around and you do everything to make him or her happy but he or she doesn’t do the same.

 

I know you feel everything is exhausting in that relationship because of all the things you do.

 

You are always on your toes trying to work things out in your relationship and this is what is exhausting you.

 

Your partner doesn’t do anything but rely on you to do everything in that relationship.

 

If this is what you come across in your relationship then know that your relationship is one-sided.

 

There is no way you will feel at ease in this kind of relationship unless you talk to your partner about it.

 

The only thing you can do if your partner won’t change you will have to end the relationship.

 

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Do you know why I recommend you end the relationship?

 

A one-sided relationship will drain you emotionally and physically, you will never be happy in that relationship and you will be working so hard to make someone else happy while no one is doing the same for you.

 

This is not a relationship you want to be in.

 

What to do when you always make the first move after an argument.

If you always make the first move after an argument even when your partner is the one who is supposed to then you should confront him/her about it. Tell him/her how you feel about this issue and ask him/her to change. If your partner won’t change you will have no alternative but to walk away.

 

You will have to talk to your partner about this issue if you want things to change.

 

Be frank about how you feel in that relationship.

 

Ask him/her to change because this is something that is draining you.

 

If your partner cares about you, he/she wants to keep the relationship going and he/she still loves you then he/she will do everything to make sure you are happy.

 

This will force him/her to change.

 

But if your partner won’t change and you still find yourself doing the same thing over and over again, then know that your partner is taking you for granted and you should walk away from him/her.

 

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Lastly…

 

The moment you find yourself doing everything to keep the relationship running then know that your partner doesn’t feel the same for you.

 

Your partner doesn’t care about you, he/she doesn’t love you and he/she wants to end that relationship.

 

When you will stop making the first move after an argument the relationship will fall into pieces.

 

If you won’t do anything to change this situation there is no way you will manage to be happy in that relationship.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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