I Moved Too Fast And Scared Her Off: Do This & Get Her

If you moved too fast and scared her off, I’m going to share with you what you can do to draw her back close. When you move too fast you will end up scaring a girl who wasn’t expecting that.

 

The moment you get to know a girl and you aim to win her you have to be slow with how you move things.

 

Your first impression matters but also the things you do when you are around her determine if you will win her or not.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do to get her back close to you if you moved too fast and scared her off.

 

What to do if you moved too fast and scared her off;

1. Let her know that what you did was not okay.

If you moved too fast and scared her off then this is the first thing you should do.

 

You have to admit that what you did was wrong if you want her to get close to you again.

 

What you did gave her the wrong impression of how you perceive her and that is why you scared her off.

 

When you want to win a girl don’t make a move on her like you know everything she wants.

 

You have to act like you don’t know what she wants even if you do.

 

The moment you move very fast you will end up scaring her off because she thinks you have the wrong impression of her.

 

She will conclude that you think she is too cheap or she is just desperate.

 

So, whatever you did to scare her off, you should face her and let her know that it was wrong.

 

Let her know that it was never okay for you to do what you did and you regret why you did it.

 

If you truly sacred her off because of what you did then she will get back closer to you.

 

But if she just distanced herself from you because she wasn’t romantically attracted to you then she will never get back closer to you again.

 

So, apologize to her and let her know that what you did was not right but don’t tell her that you will never repeat it unless you want to be friend-zoned for good.

 

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2. Approach her from a friendship angle.

This is the next thing you should do after you have told her what you did was wrong.

 

If you want to pull her closer then you have to approach her from a friendship angle.

 

This is what will make her get back close to you.

 

You have to play it cool and act like you are not aiming for something that scared her off.

 

Handle her with the friendship vibe but don’t be too close to her because you don’t want to be friend-zoned.

 

If you want her to be your girlfriend then you don’t want her to get the impression that you only want to be her friend.

 

Your main aim when you handle her on the friendship side is to make her get comfortable around you.

 

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This is the time you should be asking her to hang out, going for hikes with her, sharing with her the things you care about and trying to make her feel so relaxed when is by your side.

 

Try to make her open to you so that you get to know what she wants and expects in her life.

 

Be a good friend to her but don’t be a “bro” to her.

 

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3. Take her at the pace that she is taking you.

You moved too fast and scared her off, this means your pace was not similar to hers.

 

This is something you have to change. You will have to observe the pace she is moving on and adapt to that.

 

This is not something hard, you just have to go with the pace that she is taking you until you notice that she is comfortable enough around you.

 

If she wants to hang out with you once a week then you should also ask to hang out with her once a week.

 

This balance will make her feel that you are on the same page and it will be easier for you to win her back.

 

The next thing you have to check on is your conversations.

 

If you are texting make sure you keep your texts standard.

 

Don’t start sexting with her because this is something that will scare her off again.

 

And don’t text her too much if you have nothing important to talk to her about.

 

Only text her when you want to ask her out or when you want to get her on your lane.

 

Make sure that every text you send to her has a purpose. In this way, you will get her to like you.

 

She will find you not being clingy and she will want to be curious why you aren’t that too close to her than you were before.

 

So, take her at a pace that she will be okay with and don’t do anything that will scare her off again.

 

4. Don’t initiate romantic moves if she doesn’t.

You have to remember that you are trying to pull her closer to you after you scared her off.

 

This is something you should consider if you want to keep her close.

 

Don’t initiate a romantic move unless she does it. This is the only way you will be sure that she is on the same page as you.

 

You moved too fast and scared her off because you made a fast bold move.

 

So, don’t make the mistake you did last time if you want to win her.

 

If you are not supposed to initiate a romantic move, what should you do instead?

 

The only thing you should do is try to make her more interested in you.

 

The moment you will get her to be interested in you then she will start chasing you.

 

This will give you an upper hand because you will do less.

 

Try to distance yourself from her and don’t be in a state that will tempt you to make a romantic move on her.

 

Focus on making her like you and the rest will flow smoothly.

 

When you don’t initiate the romantic move she will start thinking that you aren’t interested in her.

 

And if she has a thing for you she will want to do things to make you make a move on her.

 

The moment she starts doing things to pull you closer is when you should start slowly to initiate the romantic moves.

 

5. You now have to take things slow.

I know you want this girl but you have to take things slow. What you feel for her may be pushing you to make quick moves on her.

 

Try your best to control what you feel for her. Control your feelings and don’t let them control you.

 

The only way you will be able to take things slow while you have intense feelings for her is by trying to be a little bit distanced from her.

 

You want her, but you have to behave like you don’t want her. This will help you stay on track and at the same time, you will manage to make her more into you.

 

When you don’t show a woman that you like her this will drive her insane.

 

She will start doing things to make you more interested in her and show you that she is valuable to you.

 

Don’t be even in a hurry to express what you feel for her.

 

The only thing you should do is to show her actions that will keep making her chase you.

 

If you keep her waiting for a while she will start to question herself.

 

She will wonder if she did anything wrong to make you lose interest in her.

 

And this curiosity is what will drive her to make a move on you.

 

You will end up having it easy.

 

6. Strike when things are right.

You have to take it slow but remember you don’t want to be in a friend zone.

 

You should also look out for signs if she is ready for you to make a move on her.

 

If you won’t do that then you might end up losing her to someone else because she will think that you are not interested in her.

 

The moment you notice that she is initiating romantic moves on you, she is too close to you, she opens up to you about her personal life and she even invites you to her place then this is the right moment you should strike.

 

Make your move on her when you know that she is on the same page as you.

 

If she initiates romantic moves then know that she is in for you.

 

This is the time you should express what you feel for her because she won’t turn you down.

 

But if you notice she is too shy to initiate a romantic move then try to find out if she has feelings for you.

 

The only way you can do this is by trying to be closer to her, start by holding her hands.

 

If she responds positively to that then next time try to touch her hair.

 

How she will respond to your touch is what will let you know if it’s the right time for you to make your move on her.

 

The moment she pushes you away when you try to touch her then this should let you know that she doesn’t feel you.

 

And you shouldn’t force issues.

 

But if she let you touch her body then know that the time is right for you to make your move.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have done everything I have shared with you in this article and she still pulls herself away from you then know that she doesn’t have feelings for you.

 

It can be that she doesn’t like you and she only perceives you as a friend.

 

Also, when she responds negatively to any romantic move you make after you have done everything I have shared with you then you should just back off from her.

 

Stop pushing hard on her because she doesn’t like you at all.

 

It can be that she distanced herself from you the first time you made your move because she wasn’t into you but after you told her you were wrong she thought you want to be friends with her.

 

This is not what you want, right? If a girl wants to put you in a friend zone you should walk away from her.

 

You might like this: How To Respond When Someone Says They Want To Be Friends

 

If she doesn’t feel a thing for you not all girls out there will push you away.

 

You will find someone who will take you in with open arms.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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