I Rejected Her And She Cut Me Off: Here’s Why

If you rejected a girl and she cut you off then there is a reason behind that. In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why she cut you off after you rejected her.

 

You have to understand that not every girl will take rejection lightly, especially if she was so deep into you.

 

The first thing you can conclude about her is that she doesn’t want to be around you because you don’t feel the same for her, that is true, but there is more to it.

 

Without wasting much time, let me share with you some of the reasons why she cut you off after you rejected her.

 

She cut you off after you rejected her simply because she wants to get over you, the only thing she wanted from you was a relationship and not a friendship of any kind, she knew being around you will hurt her, she wants you to feel guilty for rejecting her and she is mad at you for rejecting her.

 

There is more to it, I will explain every point I have shared with you in the above paragraph so that you get to understand why she cut you off after you rejected her.

 

Why she cut you off after you rejected her;

1. She wants to get over you.

If you rejected her and she cut you off then this is one of the reasons why she did that.

 

She cut you off because she knows that is the only way to forget about you.

 

Think about it, for instance, if a girl you wanted to have so bad rejects you, will you enjoy being around her?

 

The only thing you will want to do is to get over her and find someone else who will take you in her life.

 

So, if she cut you off; she no longer texts or calls you, she is not the friendly girl you knew before and she doesn’t even say “hi” when she comes across you then know that she wants to forget about you.

 

This is the only way she will be able to let go of you.

 

She knows that there is no way you will change your mind about her, she is sure that you don’t love her and cutting you off is the only thing she thought of doing.

 

If she wouldn’t have cut you off; she still talks to you the way she used to and everything between the two of you seems normal then it could have been so hard for her to get over the fact that you rejected her.

 

And that is why she cut you off in the first place. She is certain you don’t feel anything for her and that is why she cut you off after you rejected her.

 

She wants to move on from you and forget you have ever existed in her life.

 

2. The only thing she wanted from you was a romantic relationship.

She expressed her feelings for you and you rejected her and she decided to cut you off.

 

From what she did there is only one main thing you can conclude about what she wanted from you.

 

The only thing she wanted from you was a romantic relationship, and that is the main reason why she cut you off after you rejected her.

 

She knows that she can’t get what she came for from you and that is why she cut you off.

 

For instance, if you want a certain service in an institution and you eventually realize that it’s not provided, will you have any reason to stay in that facility?

 

You will leave the facility and look for another institution that will provide you with the services you need.

 

After you rejected her, she realized that there is no way she could get what she wanted from you.

 

It can be that she befriended you only for her to let you know that she wants you to be in a relationship with her.

 

Since you feel nothing for her, she saw no need of being around you.

 

If someone can’t give you what you want, the only option you will have is to walk away.

 

She came for a romantic relationship, she never found it and that is why she distanced herself away from you.

 

3. Being around you will keep hurting her feelings.

This is another reason why she cut you off after you rejected her.

 

She has feelings for you and that is the main reason why she expressed her feelings for you.

 

You rejected her and it hurt her feelings severely. Being around you pretending to be okay with the decision you made will only continue to hurt her feelings.

 

She decided to cut you off because being around you will keep hurting her feelings.

 

Imagine seeing someone you yearn to have in your life, so close to you but you can’t even hold him or her.

 

How will you feel about that?

 

This is the situation she was in after you rejected her.

This is something that will keep depriving her of her happiness and that is why she distanced herself from you.

 

This girl was so much into you, it can be that the moment you befriended her, the way you handled her and talked to her made her think that you will end up dating.

 

Now that things are not the exact way she expected she thought the best way to prevent herself from being hurt is by getting rid of you from her life.

 

She never wanted to be close to you because she could have kept on fantasizing about you and what she wanted from you is something that seemed impossible to happen.

 

After you rejected her, she just knew you don’t have a spark of interest in her.

 

Being around you could have hurt her more and that is why she cut you off.

 

4. She wants you to feel guilty for rejecting her.

This is something she is trying to do, especially if she knows that you care about her so much.

 

She is trying to make you feel guilt for rejecting her.

 

If she was your closest friend and you used to spend hours with her every single day, the moment that will change you will end up blaming yourself for it.

 

You will feel that you did something wrong and this might make you rethink your decision.

 

But if you were not close to her before you rejected her then don’t conclude that she wants you to feel guilty.

 

Anyway, if she was your close friend and you rejected her and she decided to cut you off, you will feel guilty for rejecting her. That is if you truly cared about her.

 

You will feel that you are the cause of the end of your friendship, and you will feel like a bad person for saying no to her and this might make you change your mind about her.

 

This will happen if you cared so much about her. She knows the card she is playing.

 

It’s a trick to make you change her mind about her.

 

You will pity her and your sympathy is what will make you give her a chance.

 

And trust me, if you let her in simply because you feel guilty for rejecting her yet you have no feelings for her then you will regret for doing such a thing later on.

 

So, don’t fall for the guilt card she is playing on you.

 

Be assertive, tell yourself that you did the right thing and this guilt will not haunt you.

 

After you rejected her, she cut you off because she wants you to feel bad about the decision you made.

 

5. She wants you to know that you were not that important to her.

After you rejected her she decided to cut you off simply because she doesn’t want to beg you to love her.

 

When a woman begs you to love her you will conclude that you are an important guy and that is why she is fighting for you.

 

The same case with men, we usually don’t want to beg for women to love us because that will convey us as weak and desperate.

 

It will show the women that they have control over us and that they are very valuable.

 

If you are a guy and you keep on begging women to give you a chance then know that you are showing them that they are very important people.

 

So, she never wanted to keep talking to you and beg you to let her in because she knows she will make you feel so valuable.

 

She knew cutting you off after the rejection will make you realize that you are someone replaceable, you are not that high-value man and that you never meant anything to her life.

 

6. She is mad at you for rejecting her.

This is one of the reasons that made her cut you off after you rejected her.

 

Rejection is not a simple thing, there is so much one can think about when he or she is rejected.

 

So many negative thoughts will flow in your head when someone rejects you.

 

And that is why some people commit suicide just because of it, some remain depressed for years and some even lose themselves.

 

You rejected her and this is not something she took well, she got mad at you and that is why she cut you off.

 

She is not happy with the decision you made and that is why she cut you off.

 

I mean, will you be happy with a woman who rejected you even if she gave you a reasonable explanation?

 

The only thing you will feel is the pain, this is the case with her.

 

She is not happy at all that you rejected her and that is why she cut you off.

 

Anyway, if she cared about your friendship, then one day she will get back to you and explain why she cut you off after you said no to her.

 

But if she doesn’t care about the friendship there is no way she will get back to you.

 

She will be a stranger to you once again.

 

Lastly…

 

If you rejected her simply because you don’t feel the same for her then you shouldn’t feel guilty for that.

 

You did the right thing because you couldn’t have been happy with someone you aren’t in love with.

 

She might hate you now or even forever for rejecting her, but there is a time she will come to understand why you did what you had to.

 

The only thing you can do is to give her space and let her process the rejection.

 

If she cared about the friendship then she will come back to you, but if she never cared about that and the only thing she wanted from you was a romantic relationship then she will never come back to you.

 

You don’t have to feel bad about it, it’s life, and you will never love everyone who comes into it.

 

Some people will come and go, don’t take it so hard on yourself.

 

And that is okay.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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