If She Told You Not To Wait For Her: Know This

If she told you not to wait for her she is trying to tell you that she is not willing to accept you in her life no matter how long you might wait for her to change her mind.

 

The moment a girl tells you not to wait for her then this is an obvious sign that she is not into you.

 

It also conveys that she is not willing to date you.

 

Which is very different from when a girl tells you to wait for her.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why she told you not to wait for her.

 

Before I begin this is another important point you should know.

 

What does it mean when she says Don’t wait for me?

When she says “Don’t wait for me” she means that she doesn’t want a relationship with you and no matter how long it takes she will never change her mind. Though, there is more to it. Continue reading…

 

If she wanted anything to do with you then she would have told you to wait for her.

 

But since she has other issues in her mind, and she knows that there is no way you will bump into each other again that is why she told you never to wait for her.

 

This is why she told you not to wait for her;

1. She told you not to wait for her because she won’t be there for you.

If she knows that she won’t be there for you when the time will come for the two of you to be together then that is why she told you not to wait for her.

 

It can be very hurtful when you have been waiting for someone for months and later you find out that she is with someone else.

 

So, if she knows that whenever she will be and the space she will take from you it will make her go to someone else then she will tell you not to wait for her.

 

The moment she tells you not to wait for just know that her mind is on someone else.

 

She doesn’t have a focus on you simply because she knows whenever she will be she will find someone else.

 

When she finds someone else, we all know that she won’t be there for you.

 

It won’t matter how long you have been waiting for her, and this will hurt you gravely that is why she told you not to wait for her.

 

2. She told you not to wait for her because she doesn’t want you to refrain from having fun.

She knows you better, that is why she told you not to wait for her.

 

If you are the kind of guy who likes having fun, she feels that she won’t be fair to you.

 

She feels that when she tells you to wait for her you will stop having fun and this might make you lonelier.

 

So, since she doesn’t want you to refrain from having fun (flirting with other people, having someone else by your side) that is why she told you not to wait for her.

 

She doesn’t want to make your life harder for you which is why she is not willing to put you in that position.

 

Waiting for someone isn’t that easy. It takes so much and it needs so much.

 

If she sees you as the kind of a person who can’t refrain then she will not tell you to wait for her.

 

3. She told you not to wait for her because she has someone else waiting for her.

This is another fact. The heavy and painful fact.

 

The truth is that if she still was in love with you then no matter what would have happened she would have told you to wait for her.

 

She would have told you to wait for her because she still has feelings for you and you are the only guy who will make her life paradise on earth.

 

But if she told you not to wait for her then that clearly conveys that she has no intention of getting back to you.

 

She has someone else who she thinks is worthy to wait for her.

 

So, she doesn’t want to make the situation complicated later on. She knows you will eventually move on after a few months.

 

The only guy who will be waiting for her is the one that she intends.

 

4. She told you not to wait for her since she knows she will never give you the chance.

If you had a thing for her and maybe she promised you that she will give you a chance after she comes back from wherever she is, and when she thinks through it clearly she doesn’t find it possible then she will tell you not to wait for her.

 

The moment you have a crush on a girl and you pursue her and she tells you to let her think about it, in this case, you have already won her.

 

But if you express yourself to her and you ask her whether you wait for her to make up her mind and she ends up telling you not to wait for her then this means she will never give you the chance.

 

No matter how long you will wait for her to be ready, she will never change her mind about what she is feeling right now.

 

So, these girls know better, if they will give you a chance or not before you even pursue them.

 

We all have our types, don’t we?

 

If she knows that she will never give you a chance then she will not tell you to wait for her.

 

She clearly knows that she won’t give you a chance.

 

5. She told you not to wait for her because she isn’t sure if she will manage to stick her interest in you.

Keeping feelings, conserving love and staying loyal to one person all these things are not for all of us.

 

If she knows that she won’t manage to keep her interest in you, simply because she will be interested in someone else and you will no longer matter then she will never allow you to wait for her.

 

She doesn’t want to hurt you that is why she is honest with you.

 

She doesn’t want you to wait for her and when you later meet she tells you that she is no longer interested in you.

 

Anyway, you should understand that distance changes people. The more distant you are from someone the more your feelings for that person will change.

 

 It can be distance, time from each other or waiting for her to make up her mind.

 

So, if she thinks that she won’t manage to keep what she feels for you until she gets back to you then she will not want you to wait for her.

 

Not all of us can maintain what we feel for the people we care about when we are far away from them.

 

6. She told you not to wait for her because she is ending the relationship for good.

If she is your girlfriend and she told you “Don’t wait for me” then this is clearly that she is thinking of ending the relationship with you.

 

For instance, if she tells you that she wants a break from you and she tells you not to wait for her, then this is clear that she is ending the relationship.

 

This is another way girls use to end their relationship.

 

They tell you that they want a break and after that, they tell you that there is no end to that break time.

 

So, if she thinks of ending the relationship for good then she will not tell you to wait for her. She knows that when she is away from you she will drop everything about the two of you for good.

 

Lastly…

 

I have to be clear in this summary when she tells you not to wait for her this is mainly because she has no intentions of getting back to you. It can be that her feelings for you are gone or she found someone else.

 

If she really had feelings for you then she would have told you to wait for her and encourage you to do that.

 

Since she has no intention of getting back to you, she is telling you to move on with anyone that you will find suits you.

 

When she tells you don’t wait for me, this is another way of telling you that you are done for good.

 

On the other hand, if she is someone you have a crush on and you were pursuing her and she told you not to wait for her to make up her mind then this is clear that she doesn’t want you.

 

If you have a question leave your comment. Thanks for reading, see you in my next article.

 

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