If Your Crush Likes You But Dating Someone Else (Know This)

Is your crush dating someone else? Trust me this is something that I came across and it did tear me up into pieces.

 


This is the situation that I’m going to be talking about in this article.



Is it possible for my crush to like me while dating someone else?


Your crush may like you that much but he or she might end up dating someone else.



This happens and it is usually because of certain reasons that I will be talking about in this article.


So, if you are asking yourself if it’s possible for your crush to like you while dating someone else, then this is what you need to know.


It is possible for your crush to like you while dating someone else. It’s something that happens, especially if you didn’t make a move earlier enough or there was a situation between the two of you that prevented you from dating.


I will be talking about some of these issues that made your crush end up dating someone else.


The other thing you should know is also your crush will like you while dating someone else if he or she noticed that it was a mistake dating the current person he or she has.


There are usually so many things that might make your crush end up showing interest in you while she or he is dating someone else.



All in all, know that it’s possible for someone to like while dating someone else.


Why is my crush flirting with me while is dating someone else?


If you see that your crush is still flirting with you yet he or she is dating someone else then this is what you should know.



Your crush is flirting with you while is dating someone else because he or she still has feelings for you. The fact is if someone has feelings for you no matter who he or she might end up dating he or she will always show his or her interest in you.


Why do you think will make your crush continues to flirt with you yet he or she is dating someone else.


A person will only flirt with you when he has feelings for you.


If his or her interest in you never faded then he or she will keep on coming to you no matter the situation.


The spark of love never fades easily, it only goes dim sometimes but if something else rekindles it then it will glow brighter.



So, if there was even a little spark of love for you in his or her heart then he/she will flirt with you.

Why did my crush end up dating someone else while we like each other?


Several reasons can make your crush end up dating someone else yet he or she has an interest in you.

 


These are the reasons why your crush is dating someone else while he or she likes you;



1. You might have been late on making a move.


Let make it plain for you. If you have an interest in someone you better go ahead and show it to him or her.



Don’t start playing games on him or her thinking he or she understands what you are trying to mean.


Sometimes you might be doing all things to prove to her or him that you like her or him but he won’t be able to your intentions.


It doesn’t matter whether that person shows interest in you but if you will keep on delaying on making your move he or she might end up dating someone.


That person will end up going with someone who is straightforward and he expresses himself or herself using words and actions.


So, when you keep on delaying on making your move on him or her and someone else who is bold enough comes in between the two of you then your crush might end up being hooked.


The more you waited on making a move on him or her the more you gave someone else a chance to entice him or her.


Being too late to make your move might make someone think that you have no intentions of making him or her your partner.


This might make a person shift his or her interest to someone else.



2. Your crush might have felt that it will never work because of how close you were to each other.

 

Sometimes being too close to someone can make it hard for him or her to end up changing that.



We are all afraid of change. We will always have questions on how the change might influence our lifestyles.


So, when your crush felt that he or she wasn’t ready to change the closeness between the two of you then he or she couldn’t have bear breaking what you already had.


Sometimes we end up feeling comfortable with our current situations. Changing them might require so much energy and sacrifice.


Only the people who have that courage can make these changes take place.

So, it’s always advisable that no matter how much you like someone you should always make sure that you don’t become too close to each other in a way that he or she might find it hard to change that.


The other thing is the way you treat someone you know you both have a crush on each other.

Don’t be too friendly to your crush, don’t be too close or being too far from your crush, learn to balance.


So, if you were too friendly to your crush and you never treated your crush like there was something between the two of you then he or she would have concluded that it’s best if you let it be the way it is.


I talked about this more in another article that I explained deeply how closeness can affect a change of situation between two people.
 


3. You might have shown your crush that you can’t be a keeper.

If you have a crush on someone and you like them for who they are then you will eventually be interested to know more about them.



So, if your crush has been observing you for a while and trying to understand the kind of person you are which it’s totally okay.


If he or she finds out that you can’t be a keeper, you can’t maintain him or her the way he will want to then he or she will end up dating someone else.


He or she might not tell you that. You will realise later that your crush is already moving forward with someone else.


Knowing someone is very wise before you end up being in a relationship with him or her.


Relationships that move too fast tend to fail. If you want to know why then don’t forget to read this article.


Anyway, if he or she found out that you can’t give her what she wants or deserve then he or she will end up going on with someone who can give him or her what she or he wants.



4. There might be a situation between the two of you that was unavoidable.

I had a crush on someone. We really got along so well.



She was always so sweet and gentle to me.


We have known each other for about three months. The thing is that I never discussed with her anything about relationships.


In most of the conversations that we had, we only talked about her school stuff, hobbies and share our life experiences.


We could talk so much and share almost everything that we felt like.


Family issues were never left aside. As in it was very easy for her to open up to me as it was to me.


Since I have been writing blogs about life situations in Life Blogger I used to help her with some issues that she had about her life.


We became very close. I was having so many questions as to why she wouldn’t talk to me about her relationship status.


The way we handled each other it was clear that we both had a thing for each other.


When I started asking about her relationship status, she honestly told me that she was in a long-distance relationship.


Though, she told that they have been having issues with her partner.


I took it as an advantage for me. I knew she would give in one day. I made my move without wasting time.


She said that she really liked me so much but she couldn’t date me because she wasn’t comfortable doing it.


She found it hard to let go of her failing long-distance relationship.


To a point, we even managed to kiss but she was never able to let me date her.


The other thing, she said is that I was young for her, that was true because she was older than me by a year I think.


To me, I never found it a big deal at all. But she told me, that was an issue for her.
 


So, the situation that couldn’t be avoided was the issue with her long-distance relationship, she never felt it right to date me and the other thing was the age differences.


She told me that she wanted to date someone older than her.


I thought so hard about it and I eventually found out why she wanted an older man than her.



5. Your crush might also have had a crush on the person is dating right now.


You might have a crush on two people at the same time.



When it comes to this point you will have to choose the person that you have the best connection with.


So, your crush might have been in the same situation.


He or she might have been having a crush on someone else too before she or he showed you that he or she had a crush on you too.


This is a kinda hard situation for someone, but eventually, he or she had to make a decision.


If he or she found out that the connection he or she had with the first person he or she had a crush on was stronger than yours.


As we all know, if your bond with someone is so strong then you will let go of the weak one.


This is another reason why your crush might have ended dating someone else yet he or she still likes you.



Is it okay to date someone who is already dating someone else?

Some people might think this is the solution because they have no alternative.



The truth is that this isn’t a good choice even if he or she has feelings for you.


If someone decided to end up dating someone else yet he or she had a thing for you then this means that he or she felt you aren’t good enough for him or her.

It is not okay to date someone who is already dating someone else because it’s not right at all. If he or she chose to date someone else in the first place then this means he or she never thought you are good enough for him or her.


# Lastly…

If your crush is dating someone else yet he or she shows interest in you just don’t give in to his or her temptations.


The truth is that he or she found you are not good enough for her/him that is why he or she decided to date someone else.


Be bold and tell him or her to move on with his or her relationship. Though it might hurt you it will be the best decision for you.


If he or she is being persistent in flirting with you then ask him or her to end his or her relationship with the person he or she dating right now and come for you.


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