Is Making Your Girlfriend Jealous A Good Idea?

Making your girlfriend jealous can either be a good idea or a bad one depending on several factors.

 

In this article, I will share with you the circumstances that which it will be a good idea to make your girlfriend jealous and those circumstances that it will not be a good idea to do it.

 

Before you think of making your girlfriend jealous you have to check the situation that your relationship is in.

 

These situations are what I will be talking about deeply in this article.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

If you want to make your girlfriend jealous the first thing you have to ask yourself is why you want to do it in the first place.

 

Do you want to make your girlfriend jealous so that she can give you the attention you want?

 

Do you want to make your girlfriend jealous so that she can get closer to you?

 

Are you planning to push her away by making her jealous?

 

These are some of the questions you should find the answers to before you make your girlfriend jealous.

 

It will be a good idea to make your girlfriend jealous when she pushes you away without any solid reason, if she doesn’t give you the attention you want simply because she is committed to other issues that aren’t relevant and when you want to make her get closer to you.

 

If your girlfriend is pushing you away without any reasonable explanation then it will be a good idea to make your girlfriend jealous.

 

When you make her jealous by hanging out with other girls or talking to them it will click in her mind that she has to give you her attention before someone else snatches you.

 

There is always a small bit of insecurity that will make her pay attention to you and pull you close.

 

If you are trying to make your girlfriend jealous so that she pulls you closer to her then it’s a good idea.

 

The moment your girlfriend doesn’t give you the attention you want and when you confirm, she is not that busy with anything important then it will be a good idea for you to make her jealous.

 

When you make her jealous she will immediately give you her attention because she will fear that you will give your attention to someone else and she might end up losing you.

 

If your girlfriend loves you, the moment you make her jealous she will hold tight to you.

 

So, if you make your girlfriend jealous simply because you want her to pay attention to you then this will be a good idea.

 

No girl wants her man to give attention to other ladies.

 

Try to stare at other girls in the street when you are with her and see her reaction.

 

When she notices that you are getting attention from other girls she will be jealous and she will start giving you maximum attention for her to pull you closer.

 

There are moments your girlfriend will not feel like being so close to you yet there is nothing wrong between the two of you.

 

The relationship is in a good state, there is no argument between the two of you but she just seems to be distanced from you.

 

If your girlfriend is in this shape and you make her jealous then she will get closer to you.

 

This is something I tried.

 

That day she was so distanced, I never did anything wrong to annoy her and everything was fine.

 

I went for a kiss and she pushed me away, I was like, “Why is she pushing me away?”

 

She wanted us to go out to buy chips. I told her if she doesn’t want to kiss me, I will get another girl to hug me.

 

Do you know what she said?

 

“You can go ahead and do it, I won’t hold you back” that is what she said to be me.

 

When we went outside, I got her roommate to hug me.

 

She was mad at me at first because she never thought I would do it.

 

But when we went back to my room she got so closer to me. So, I knew making her jealous would get her closer to me.

 

When you make your girlfriend jealous you are showing her that if she won’t give you the attention you want then someone else out there can give it to you.

 

If this clicks in her mind then she will get closer to you.

 

So, if you are trying to make her jealous to make her pull you closer then it’s a good idea.

 

There are some circumstances in which it will be a very bad idea to make your girlfriend jealous.

 

It will be a bad idea to make your girlfriend jealous when she has no feelings for you, your relationship is on bad terms, you are in a conflict, she is not happy with you and when she is losing interest in you.

 

When your girlfriend has no feelings for you and you are struggling to rekindle them back then DON’T EVER try to make her jealous in this situation.

 

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This is the moment you should make sure that you do all you can to make her feel you again.

 

If she has no feelings for you and you end up making her jealous the only thing you will be doing is pushing her further away from you.

 

This will make it hard for you to rekindle her feelings again in that relationship.

 

So, if you know your girlfriend has no feelings for you and you are working on rekindling them then you should know that it’s not a good idea to make her jealous.

 

When your relationship is on bad terms the main thing you should focus on is resolving the issues between the two of you.

 

If your relationship is in this stage it will not be a good idea for you to make your girlfriend jealous because it will end up making the matter between the two of you worse.

 

It will be very hard for you to fix the issues between the two of you simply because your girlfriend will think you don’t care about her and you don’t care about the relationship at all.

 

Instead of her making the effort to fix things with you she will even pull away from you.

 

So, don’t think of making your girlfriend jealous when you know your relationship is in a messy situation.

 

The same thing applies when there is a conflict with your girlfriend.

 

If there is a conflict the main focus should be on resolving the issues between the two of you. When you make her jealous she will end up thinking you don’t care about her and that you have lost interest in her.

 

Which, this might result in her pulling herself away from you and it will be very hard for you to solve the conflict between the two of you.

 

When you have noticed that your girlfriend is losing interest in you the first thing you have to do is to try your best to make her more interested in you.

 

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It will not be a good idea for you to make her jealous because she might end up losing all the interest she has in you.

 

You have to know that there is a question about what she feels for you, so, don’t give her a reason to see that it was right for her to lose interest in you.

 

When she makes the point of losing interest in you legit because of what you are doing then she will end up walking away from you.

 

Nothing is tying her to you, so she doesn’t have a reason to stick to you if you keep paying your attention to other girls and not her.

 

So, if you know your girlfriend is losing interest in you then know that it’s not a good idea for you to make her jealous.

 

Lastly…

 

Making your girlfriend jealous may be a good idea or not depending on the situation that you two are in.

 

If your relationship with her is in a good state and you are trying to pull her closer then it will be a good idea for you to make her jealous.

 

But if you know that your relationship with her has an issue, the only thing you should focus on is fixing the issues between the two of you.

 

Don’t try to make her jealous because you will make it harder for yourself to fix the issues between the two of you.

 

In these circumstances, it will not be great for you to make your girlfriend jealous.

 

When you make your girlfriend jealous the moment your relationship is in a bad state she will conclude you don’t care about her or the relationship, she will pull herself away from you and she might even lose all the feelings she has for you.

 

I hope this article has helped you to get the information that you wanted to know.

 

If you have any questions leave your comment. Thanks for reading, see you in my next article.

 

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