Why chase a woman who rejected you? If she doesn’t show any interest in you and you have tried everything you can to make her love you but she still doesn’t don’t waste your time on her. In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why you should never chase a woman who rejected you.
The fact that she rejected you means that she doesn’t want anything to do with you.
Chasing her will be a waste of time and there is so much you will lose by doing that.
The best thing to do if she has rejected you is to try your best to get over her.
This is an article that will help you to do that.
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Let me share with you some of the reasons why you should never chase a woman who rejected you.
This is why you should never chase a woman who rejected you;
1. You will lose your dignity by chasing her.
This is the first reason why you should never chase a woman who rejected you.
If you decide to chase a woman who wants nothing to do with you even after you have tried everything you can to change her mind then you will be losing yourself to her.
The moment you decide to be on her tail every single day because you hope that she will eventually say yes to you, you will be losing yourself respect.
You know that she rejected you because she either doesn’t feel the same for you or she just doesn’t find you fit enough for her.
When you are chasing her there is nothing more you will do, do you know why?
Remember that you tried everything you can to make her change her mind about you.
You expressed your feelings for her using every possible way you can but she still rejected you.
If you decide to chase her there is nothing more you will do with her.
The only thing you will do when you keep chasing her even after she has rejected you is either begging her to let you in.
This is the last thing you want to do for a woman who rejected you! Never beg a woman to love you.
Love is not something that can be attained by begging, it’s not something that will grow in someone’s heart despite their feelings for you.
So, when you start begging her to love you, the only thing you will be doing is losing yourself respect.
Even if she was thinking about changing her mind about you in the future, she will never do that.
She will perceive you as worthless; you will lose your value to her.
If she rejected you, don’t waste your time chasing her when you notice that there is nothing positive about how she feels about you.
Women hate men who beg for love! So, never chase a woman who rejected you.
2. You will be wasting your time chasing her.
Your time is something essential to you as a man, you will never recover the time you waste but you can recover the money you waste by chasing her.
So, let me talk about the time you will be wasting and how much you can do with that time instead of you chasing her.
The moment you decide to chase a woman who rejected you the only thing you will be doing is gambling with your time.
Do you truly think that she will let you in even after she has made up her mind; she doesn’t want anything to do with you?
This is something that will only be driving you behind instead of you moving forward.
Chasing a woman who rejected you is like trying to chase the chase so that the night doesn’t catch up with you.
You will be doing a lame thing, you will waste your time which you could have used to come up with something extraordinary about yourself.
The time you will waste sending her a bunch of text messages, planning dates with her that you know she will never attend, following her to every event she goes for you to find a tiny chance to impress her and the endless calls that she will never pick.
You can use that time for something better, trust me, you were never meant to chase a single woman who doesn’t show interest in you and wants nothing to do with you.
Do you think that the men who have beautiful girls out there wasting their time trying to chase them?
You are a man of high value, tell that to yourself. Use the time you have to build yourself, raise your status and make money.
Shape your life in a way that you know she will eventually regret rejecting you in the first place.
The time you will be wasting chasing her has the potential of transforming you into someone better.
Use that time to work on your weaknesses, use it to make the most out of your life and shape your progress with it.
This might be the only thing that will draw her back to your crib.
3. She might take advantage of you.
If you keep chasing a woman who rejected you she might end up taking advantage of you.
She will use you because she will find you to be so desperate. Trust me, you don’t want to find yourself in such a situation.
Let me share with you a point that will make you understand why she might end up using you.
When you chase a woman who rejected you, deep down she knows that you are crazy about her.
She told you she doesn’t want to be with you because she doesn’t feel the same for you.
But if you keep chasing her, she will try her best to avoid doing something that will hurt you.
What she will be telling you when you keep chasing her will be to keep you away from chasing her.
The moment she realizes that she can’t keep you off her, the only thing she will try to do is benefit from you.
This is the point that she will start using you without you even realizing it.
Since you are in love with her, you will be willing to do anything to have her in your life.
If she decides to exploit you, you will not take that negatively because you will convince yourself that you will be winning her.
She might start asking for your money, asking you to be there for her when her friends or boyfriend is not around and she will ask you to do some favours for her.
When she starts doing such things, she will be using you. If you have money, she will use you for your money, if you don’t have it, she will use your time.
You will never see this as exploitation simply because you are in love with her.
The only thing that you will try to convince yourself with is that she is getting closer to you.
Some few weeks or months later she will just ditch you and that is when you will start regretting what you did for her.
The time, energy and money you wasted trying to win her over yet she wanted nothing to do with you.
You will realize that she was only using you all that time.
This all happened because you were chasing her.
At this point, you now know why you should never chase a woman who rejected you.
4. You will lack the opportunity to focus on other girls who are genuinely in love with you.
If you chase a woman who rejected you, do you think you will have the time to focus on other girls?
It will be impossible for you to pursue or let other girls who are really into you.
This is because you will be blinded by a quest that you will never win.
When you decide to chase a woman who rejected you, all your feelings, energy, time and attention will be on that woman.
You wanted to be with her simply because she has something that you need from her.
There is something unique about her that made you approach her in the first place.
This thing that you saw in her is what will blind you from seeing the other girls who are into you.
You will not even notice when other girls are trying to show their romantic interest in you.
The only thing you will focus on is the woman who rejected you. You won’t let any girl in your life because you will be busy chasing a woman you will never have in your life.
This is something that you may think will not affect you at all but in the long run, it will hurt you severely.
The results of it are that; you will forever remain single, you will remain lonely and you will never find the happiness you are looking for in your love life.
This might even drive you to hate other women because of her.
Why do something like this to yourself, you were not created to chase one woman.
There are so many girls out there who are amazing, some who want someone to be there for them.
It’s not worth it for you to push the other girls away simply because the woman you wanted, rejected you.
If there’s a girl who is truly into, even if she is not the full package try to open up to her, let her know you, learn to love her and eventually you will feel the spark.
You will find the happiness you are seeking but it’s not from her.
Chasing a woman who rejected you will only take away the attention to realize other genuine girls who are in love with you.
This will be a waste of opportunity.
5. You will always be hurting your feelings.
Chasing a woman who rejected you will only result in pain and lots of sleepless nights.
When you decide to chase a woman who rejected you; you will be putting yourself in a loop full of pain.
You will place yourself in a state that will only keep hurting you. The truth is that every time you follow her expecting her to give you the answer you need, she will always give you the answer you don’t need.
This will hurt your feelings. If you follow her again with a different technique thinking that she will now change her mind about you, she will still give you the answer that you don’t want to hear.
So, the only thing you will be doing to yourself is hurting yourself; this is because every time she gives you the answer that you don’t want to hear she will be reviving your old wounds.
There is no need to torture yourself because of a single woman yet there are a billion of them in this world.
Open your eyes, travel and build yourself instead of chasing a woman who rejected you and you will eventually find what you want.
Wanting someone you can’t have is something that will keep hurting you every single day.
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She rejected you, don’t chase her. Walk away from her and find someone else.
Don’t let anyone tell you that you should die fighting for her yet she doesn’t want you in her life.
This will only bring you pain in your life and you will never be happy.
6. It will affect your productivity.
As I said earlier that chasing a woman who rejected you will only bring pain in your life.
It will waste your time, energy, focus and money too.
What you will waste trying to chase a woman who rejected you will affect your productivity.
Let me say, if you are a student, you will not have time to study and your grades will be poor.
You will fail in your studies because all your attention and time will be invested in chasing a woman you will never have.
The only thing that you will think about is her, trying to come up with different things to do to win her heart and this will distract you from what you are supposed to be doing with your career.
As we all know that studying needs our concentration and time for it to work.
All of this will be invested in a woman you are trying to win. This means there is nothing else you will think of doing than trying to her.
This will affect your productivity and it will eventually result in failure.
On the other hand, if you are working you might get fired. Do you know why you might get fired?
You will never produce the output that you used to, you will never be focused on your work and this will result in poor products or services rendered to the customers.
Do you think your boss will be happy about this? She or He will fire you because you are doing what you are supposed to be doing.
This will affect your productivity greatly. So, don’t waste your time chasing a woman who rejected you.
You will be putting more at stake than you know.
If you are the boss of the company, you might lose control of that company.
The way you think about your business will change and this means you will not provide the best value for what you do.
With all these effects, do you think it’s still worth it to chase a woman who rejected you?
7. You will never think out of the box.
If you keep chasing the woman who rejected you there is no way you will think of trying something different.
As I said earlier that all your time and attention will be invested in that woman.
This will constantly make you think about her and nothing else will matter to you.
The way you used to think will change because you will aim to win that one woman who said no.
You will never think of any other women who might be interested in you and you will also lose your creativity.
If you are a writer, YouTuber or musician the only thing that will be running in your mind is the rejection you got from her.
The content you will think of creating will always be about rejection and the same woman who said no to you.
This will change the realm of your content creation and you might eventually lose your audience because you are not the creative person they used to know.
I have used the instance of a content creator as an example of how it will affect your thinking when you keep chasing a woman who rejected you.
You have much more to lose when you keep chasing a woman who rejected you.
Walk away from, get over her, let someone else in your life and you will eventually find the happiness you are looking for.
There will always be someone else, don’t lie to yourself that you will never meet anyone else.
If a woman rejected you and you have tried everything to change her mind but she doesn’t even show any spark of interest in you the best thing you should do is to let her go.
I have shared with you some of the things that will happen to you when you chase a woman who wants nothing to do with you.
Think about every single detail I have shared with you in this article and ask yourself if it’s worth it for you to chase a woman who rejected you.
Get it in your mind that there are so many women out there who are young, smart and beautiful.
It’s not too late for you, there will always be someone else out there looking for you.
The only thing you have to do is to let go of the woman who rejected you and open your eyes to the other women out there.
You were not meant to chase a single woman who wants nothing to do with you.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment, and see you in my next article.
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