8 Reasons To Break Up With Someone You Love

In this article, I will share with you reasons why you should break up with someone you love.

 

Love only in a relationship is never enough. A relationship needs more than love for it to prosper.

 

What you feel about someone contributes about 60% of your relationship and the 40% is based on different factors.

 

So, when you have love only it means you are missing about 40% of the things that make your relationship complete.

 

If you want to know this factor of 40% then keep on reading, these are the reasons why you should break up with someone you love for the better.

 

Without further ado let me share with you these reasons.

 

Reasons why you should break up with someone you love;

1. When you don’t see the future you want with them.

No matter how you love each other if you are dating then you should always put this in your big picture.

 

Unless you are dating for fun. But if you are in a serious relationship with someone and you are hoping for it to be somewhere in a few years to come then this should be your major concern.

 

There is no need to date, someone, for years yet he or she can’t give you the kind of future you want.

 

You will be wasting your time, trust me, time is very precious.

 

So, after you have met someone and you are in love the second thing you should observe is if this person can give you the kind of future you want.

 

You will know if someone can be your future by observing a few things.

 

Even if you stay with someone for two days you will know this very easily.

 

If the person you are dating is not ambitious, he or she is very lazy, she or he doesn’t have any plans about where he or she wants his or her life to be and he doesn’t care about it either then this kind of a person will never give you the future you want.

 

The moment you realize that the person you are dating can’t give you the kind of future you want then the best thing for you to do is to break up with him or her.

 

There is no need for you to be with someone for years yet he or she won’t give you the kind of future you want.

 

2. When they are too dependent on you.

This is another reason why you should break up with someone you love.

 

If he or she is too dependent on you then break up with him or her.

 

Anyway, don’t do that before you know what I have to say about this.

 

You should understand that every one of us was raised in different environments.

 

We have those who were raised in families of business owners and we also have those who were raised in families of farmers.

 

I mean we all have different ways of what we can do to get what we want.

 

If you are in a relationship with someone who is too dependent on you and you have tried so hard to change him or her and he or she doesn’t want to change then you will be in a hard spot.

 

Don’t break up with him or her without trying to teach him or her how to be independent in a relationship.

 

But after you have tried to teach him or her and he doesn’t want to change completely then there is no need to be in a relationship with him or her.

 

This person is a parasite and he will always drag you behind. You will never prosper in your life.

 

The relationship goals that you implemented will be of no use, lastly, the relationship is likely to be one-sided.

 

At the end of it, you will have to end it.

 

3. When the relationship is too toxic.

This is another reason why you should break up with someone you love.

 

If you are in a relationship with him or her and he or she treats you badly then there is no need to keep staying in that relationship.

 

The moment you realize that your relationship is unhealthy then you should not struggle in fixing it.

 

 

The best thing you can do is to walk away from that relationship.

 

If you hold on to the positive side that your partner will change in the future then you are likely to get stuck in that relationship.

 

And this is one of the reasons why people get stuck in toxic relationships.

 

No matter how you love him or her if he or she is a toxic person then he or she doesn’t deserve you.

 

End the relationship and walk away from him or her.

 

After all, being in a toxic relationship will never give you the happiness you want.

 

You will be under constant pressure and you will always be worried every time wondering when he or she is going to collapse on you.

 

I know you don’t want to walk with bruises all over your body.

 

Choose something good for yourself, but being in a toxic relationship with someone simply because you love him or her is not one of them.

 

4. When the relationship doesn’t feel right.

This is another reason why you should break up with someone you love.

 

When you are in a relationship with someone you love and you end up feeling that it’s not right for you to be in that relationship then you will have to break it up.

 

Do you know why I’m saying so?

 

This is because you will never be happy being in a relationship that doesn’t feel right even if you love that person.

 

For you to enjoy your relationship, it has to feel right for you and make you comfortable.

 

If your relationship doesn’t make you comfortable then there is no need to be in it no matter how much you love that person.

 

You will have to break up with him or her. Trust your instincts. There is a reason why your relationship doesn’t feel right.

 

Deep down within your heart, you know why the relationship doesn’t feel right.

 

It can be that you only wanted someone to clarify it to you so that you believe it.

 

5. When they don’t respect you.

If you are in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect you yet you love each other so much then you will have to break up with him or her.

 

What is the point of having love in your relationship and missing respect in it?

 

There is no way that a relationship is going to survive if your partner doesn’t respect you no matter how much you love each other.

 

Respect is what makes it possible for couples to live happily with each other.

 

It’s the same thing that makes everything in a relationship go smoothly.

 

If your partner doesn’t respect you then he or she can go behind your back, he or she can cheat on you, he or she can abuse you, he or she can invade your privacy and he or she will never respect any decisions you make in that relationship.

 

So, it’s better to be with someone that you don’t love too much but he or she respects you so much.

 

Don’t worry about love, it will grow over time.

 

If your partner doesn’t respect you then you have to break up with him or her even if you love each other.

 

6. When they can’t give you the happiness you want.

Love is not enough for a relationship to be marvelous.

 

If the person you are dating can’t give you the happiness you want then there is no need for you to be in a relationship with him or her.

 

The main thing that everyone wants in a relationship is happiness.

 

All the things that you need from your relationship will all contribute to your happiness.

 

You can be in a relationship with someone yet you are not happy.

 

So, the moment when you realize the person you are dating can’t contribute to the happiness you want though you love him or her then you have no alternative but to let him or her go.

 

7. When you feel the relationship is a burden to you.

If you are in a relationship and it feels like a burden to you no matter how much you try to change that then the best thing for you to do is to end it.

 

There is no way you will be happy in that relationship if everything in that relationship will feel exhaustive.

 

When you feel the relationship is a burden to you then there are several things you have to know.

 

It can be that you are under so much pressure from several things.

 

The pressure may be from your partner or within yourself.

 

If your partner expects so much from you and you always try hard to give him or her what she or he wants but you can’t seem to achieve it then you will end up feeling that the relationship is a burden.

 

Also, when you feel you have to change yourself for your partner because he or she is not happy with the way you are then you will have no choice but to end the relationship.

 

This will make you feel that you are under so much pressure and the relationship will end up feeling like a burden.

 

So, if you are in this kind of a relationship then the best thing for you to do is to end it.

 

8. When your priorities don’t align with each other.

This is another thing that I learned recently from my friend. He was in a relationship with someone but their priorities were very different.

 

They loved each other so much and you can say, “That’s what matters.”

 

You will be wrong if you say it that way.

 

Do you know why?

 

The moment you are in a relationship with someone and you are both heading in different directions it will be very hard for you to maintain that relationship.

 

For your relationship to be enough for both of you then you have to be on the same page.

 

If you are not on the same page then you will always find yourselves in constant arguments and fights and that is never good for any relationship.

 

So, if you are with someone who expects different things from you that you can’t attain then it will be best for you to break up with him or her no matter how much you love each other.

 

Lastly…

Love only is not enough. There is so much that comes into play for your relationship to be complete.

 

If you love each other and there are some of the main things that miss in your relationship (things that contribute to your happiness and happy life) then you will have to break up with that person.

 

Think about what you would like to achieve in your life. Don’t think of the love you will get from him or her only.

 

When you find out that his or her love can’t give you want then consider ending the relationship.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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