If she blocked you because you hurt her then you are on the positive side of your issues.
Do you know that is so? This is because you actually have a clue on where to start fixing your issues.
We have those guys who are blocked by their girlfriends for no reason and they have to start from scratch finding out why they were blocked.
So, when you are trying to find out why your girlfriend blocked you then you will be doing a lot of things wrong.
You will be guessing which will be the right solution for your issues between the two of you.
This is because when she blocks you then you will have no chance of being in contact with her and you will have to be smart to find your way to get her to communicate with you.
If she blocked you because you hurt her then this is a pretty easy thing to handle.
I shared in the last article that I wrote about how to impress a girl who blocked you.
Check it out because it’s linked with your current situation.
So, if she blocked you because you hurt then try to find a way to impress her so that you can win her back.
Anyway, let me share with you an elaborate solution on what you can do about this.
What to do if she blocked you because you hurt her;
1. Admit that you were on the wrong side.
If she blocked you because you hurt her then this is the first thing you have to do.
The best thing to do when you are on the wrong side is always to accept the mistakes you did.
Instead of being defensive about the things you did to hurt her let her know that you acknowledge the mistakes you made.
And by admitting, I mean you have to confront her and tell her in person that you know you did the wrong things.
Let her know that you realize what you did to mess up the relationship.
This is the first step to making things better between the two of you.
As in it won’t be that good but she will be ready to listen to you since you took the responsibilities of your action and you are ready for the punishment.
Take the blame bro, she will let a small part of you in.
2. Start figuring out a way you can make it up to her.
After you have admitted that she blocked you because you did something wrong and you confronted her to tell her the bitter truth then you will have to figure out a way to make it up to her.
If you want to make it easier for yourself and not put yourself under high pressure then this is something you need to do.
Take time to think and plan how you are going to make it up to her.
Think of possible things that she will consider a great gesture for her to take her first step toward you.
Do you know why I’m saying this? When you do things that are a great romantic gesture then she will realize what you are trying to do even before explaining yourself so much to her.
These great romantic gestures will show her that you are ready to start to make things right between the two of you.
Taking time and thinking of what is the best thing to do will give you a greater chance to get her to unblock you shortly and you will not waste your time.
3. Start apologizing for the things you did to hurt her.
Now, that you have an idea of what to do since you thought about what you can do to make it up to her it’s time to take a step further.
There is no way she will unblock you and forgive you without you doing nothing since you hurt her.
She blocked you because she was hurt and she couldn’t stand being in touch with you.
The pain she feels currently is because of you. So, now it’s time to apologize to her so that she forgives you and unblocks you too.
If you approach her and tell her that you are sorry for the things you did and leave it at that point there is no way she will know that you are serious about it.
She will think that you are just playing around with her. The word I’m sorry means nothing when you have done so much to hurt her.
Get creative and figure out a way that you can impress her and win her back.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t use your words to apologize to her. Use them but incorporate them with you the great romantic gestures you thought about.
Do things that will show her that you want to be forgiven and that you really regret doing the things you did.
Show her that you were on the wrong side, you hurt her but now you want to make it all go away.
If she really loves you then she will understand you and she will be considerate.
She will unblock you and forgive you and let you back in.
4. Show her that you are ready to change.
If she blocked you because you hurt her then you will have to show her that you are ready to change.
This should be after you have apologized to her.
Showing her that you are ready to be a good guy, a different person from whom hurt her then she will be considerate about you.
She will start to care about you again because you are showing her that you want to make the relationship better.
Focus on showing her the positive sides of you. Even if you don’t have them start creating them for you have her heart back.
Show her that you are ready to do anything to take back what you did and you will stand by her side no matter what happens.
Focus on making yourself a better person for her. Avoid doing things that will make her doubt you if you are ready to change.
Don’t do anything that will remind her of what you did simply because it will make it hard for her to get over the fact that you broke her heart.
And when you manage to do this then she will easily forgive you and unblock you too.
5. Find a way to show her that your relationship means a lot to you.
If she blocked you because you hurt her then she knew that your relationship with her meant nothing to you.
Let me say If your relationship meant a lot to you then you wouldn’t have reached the extent of hurting her.
Anyway, I’m trying to say that I don’t mess up with my relationship sometimes.
We are all human and at some point, we will make mistakes.
So, if you want her to forgive you and unblock you then you have to be damn serious about it.
You have to show her that your relationship matters and that you will do anything to fix the things you broke.
If you want to show her that your relationship means a lot to you then you have to show her that you are not ready to let her go no matter what happens.
Do things that will show her that no matter what you did but your heart is still hers.
But if she blocked you and you become distant and do nothing about it then she will think that you don’t care about the relationship.
And do you know what will happen when you do this? She will also be distant and there is no way she will forgive you.
If she won’t forgive you then she will never unblock you and you will eventually lose her.
6. Get closer to her.
If she blocked you because you hurt her then this is something you should take into consideration.
Don’t get closer to her before doing the things I have shared with you in the above paragraphs.
This should be done after you have apologized to her and you have shown her that you are ready to change for her.
Being closer to someone who is pushing you away I found it to be a pretty amazing way to make someone let you in easily especially if they loved you so much.
You have to know that feelings don’t disappear within a short period.
Even if she is mad at you her feelings for you will never change. She is only hurt and that is why she blocked you.
But it doesn’t mean that her feelings for you have vanished.
So, when you get closer to her you will be able to convince her easily to forgive you and unblock you.
This will be easier when you are closer to her since she will find it hard to resist you when you are around her.
Don’t just use calls to get in touch with her and apologize via the phone.
This will make it harder for her to forgive you since your charm will not be with her.
But If you get closer to her, you give her your time, you choose to help her with the things she cares about then she will be able to forgive you and unblock you in a short period.
7. Give her time to heal she will unblock you soon.
But if she doesn’t unblock you then you don’t have to worry about it. It might take some time for the things you are doing to sink in.
If you hurt her and that is why she blocked you then she must be pretty upset about it.
And when she is mad at you it means she doesn’t let anything you do for her affect how she feels for you.
It will take time for her to realize that you are truly sorry, especially if you have been hurting her so much lately.
All the things that I have shared to make her unblock you and forgive you will not work instantly for all guys.
This is because it deeply depends on the level of conflict that the two of you were in.
So, be patient and keep on trying and she will eventually forgive you.
If your relationship means a lot to you then don’t walk away from her if she doesn’t seem to respond positively to everything you do for her.
Don’t talk bad about her in any way simply because she blocked you. She had the right to do it and you should only focus to make things better between the two of you.
If she blocked you because you hurt her then try your best to fix your issues. The fact that you know what you did to hurt her then focus on doing things that will show her that you are so damn sorry for the things you did.
Use your words with your actions to make her realize that you are so sorry for the things you did to hurt her.
This will make it easier for her to let go of the hatred she has for you within her.
She will be ready to let everything go and fix the relationship with you.
But if she doesn’t bother to listen to you, pay attention to you and be considerate about all the things you do to her then it can be that she was pretty hurt and this made her feelings for you vanish.
And it can be that she thought of ending the relationship and that is why she doesn’t have a F*ck about you.
She just decide to break up with you simply because you hurt her and she knew the best way to do that is to cut off the communication between the two of you.
If you realize that she doesn’t give a F*ck about you then you will have to let her go. She no longer feels the same for you and wanting someone you can’t have can be a disaster in your life.
Thanks for choosing her beauty. You will always be welcome here. Feel free to leave a comment if you have a question. See you in my next article.
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