Here is what to do if she doesn’t know how to love. Also, there are signs that will enable you to know if she doesn’t know how to love. Get to know all the details.
It’s not something strange if she doesn’t know how to love. We have some girls who don’t know completely to love a boy.
Should you dump away every girl who doesn’t know how to love you? The answer is no. You don’t have to kick every girl out of your life if she doesn’t know how to express her feelings.
You need to give her a chance to learn everything about relationships. I know you may be thinking that she must just be kidding. The truth is that there are some people out there who still have no idea how to love someone.
The way you have been in several relationships is the same way there is a girl out there who never indulged herself in any relationship. How can you expect someone to know how to love if she has never been in a relationship?
That is exactly the same way when a student is first admitted to preschool. You can’t expect that kid to start reading massive sentences within the first week. The kid has to learn everything step by step.
You should always give these girls who don’t know how to love a chance to learn. You have to remember they also have feelings. If you keep on going for the girls who are completely knowledgeable about these issues of relationships, who do you expect to love these girls who have no idea of where to start?
What can I do if she doesn’t know how to love?
If she doesn’t know how to love you can teach her how to love you and be patient for her to catch up. If she doesn’t know how to love this is probably because she has never been in many relationships or she never had an interest in any relationship before.
Teach her how to love you and have high hopes that she will eventually, be at the stage where you want her to be.
Everything takes time. You can’t teach her the first day and expect her to be perfect on the first day. In my opinion, I can tell you this can be the perfect girlfriend to have.
The main reason why I’m saying this is that you can mould her into the kind of girl you want her to be. Make her of your interest.
When you make a girl be the way you want it will be an added advantage to yourself. This is because you will be able to control her and you will be more comfortable since everything that she will be doing will be actually based on you.
The part about controlling her; I’m not proposing that you control a girl because she doesn’t know how to love. You have to control her in a positive way. Not in a way of manipulating or exploiting her.
People have a habit of exploiting girls who have no knowledge of what they are doing. This is especially when the girl completes trust with everything.
You have to know that they are those who go to an extent of abusing these girls. Dude! I’m against that.
So, when she doesn’t know how to love you, teach her the way you want to be loved. Show her all the things you would like her to do for you. Give her a positive image of what is love. The last thing is to be patient with her. Everyone has their shot-comings.
Signs she doesn’t know how to love.
How can you that she doesn’t know how to love? Many people usually don’t like to be seen as illiterates when it comes to relationship issues.
This is because they see too many people who are involved in them and they don’t want to be left out of the masses. They will pretend to know everything and yet they know nothing.
So these are the signs that will enable you to know that she doesn’t know how to love.
These are the signs that show she doesn’t know how to love;
1. She will not know how to express her feelings.
This is the first sign that will show you that she doesn’t know how to love. A woman who doesn’t know how to love will never know how to express her feelings to a man.
For a lady to be able to express her feelings to a man she first has to have an idea of what she is doing. How will she convey them if she has no idea of what she is doing?
That is where the problem comes in. The moment when you come across a girl who doesn’t know how to express her feelings, this is what you may see from them.
In most cases, these girls will never stand before you and make their point about what they feel about you. It is not that they are and lack the courage to do so.
You might have been dating her and she has been around with you for several months. You can’t expect her to be shy with you, that is obvious.
The reason I’m saying this is that you have been dating her and she knows you so there is no point in her not having been used to you. If you were a stranger to her then I would expect that to be the case.
A girl who doesn’t know how to express her feelings will always beat around the bush. She will never find appropriate words to explain to you how she feels about you.
Furthermore, she will even fail to know the kind of actions she should use to express her feelings. The only thing a man does is to be clever enough to figure out what this girl wants.
2. She will never be able to make any romantic move.
You can’t expect her to make a romantic move on you if she doesn’t know how to express her feelings. This is another sign that you will see in a girl that doesn’t know how to love.
Do you the romantic moves? These are the things that a person can do to his or her partner so that she or he can know that she/he is on another end.
There is a moment when a man makes a move on her partner when he is on heat. The things that men do are grab their ladies, kiss them, prefer to shower together, share nasty and dirty texts or make a clear point of them wanting to be intimate with them.
A boy who knows what he wants from his girl then these are some of the things he will do to make his romantic move.
This is because he knows what he is doing. He knows how to love—to express everything he feels about her. I can say this is the first point of knowing how to love and the rest will follow.
So, a girl who doesn’t know how to love will never be able to make a romantic move. This is because she doesn’t know how to make such moves.
This is probably because she has no idea of what she is supposed to be doing so to convey that she is on heat—wants to be intimate with her partner. In most cases, such kinds of girls will only prefer a man making a move on them.
So, if the man doesn’t know anything then this is where they will just stare at each other like idols. This is the moment when a relationship will feel exactly like a friendship because the people in it don’t know completely how to love each other.
You might like this: 7 ways to fix a relationship that feels like a friendship.
A relationship will eventually feel like a friendship because there is no romantic move made into it. This is a clear indication that she doesn’t know how to love.
3. She will never know how to show her attention to you.
One thing that every relationship should have is attention. Did you know that attention in a relationship is connected to commitment?
If you are able to show commitment to a person you love then you would have also covered a part of your attention in that relationship.
So, when a girl doesn’t know how to show commitment then will probably never know how to show attention to a man that she loves.
When a person fails to show attention to the person he or she loves then this might portray a message to him or her that he/she doesn’t love him/her.
When you show your attention to someone you are dating or you would like to have in your life for the coming months then there is a high chance for that person to notice that you are into him or her.
So, how can a girl show her attention to the person she loves?
A girl can show attention by spending time with the person she loves, being there for him whenever he needs her to be, being there for him when he is not well, and always being there whenever there is a problem in a relationship that needs to be solved.
Furthermore, she has to make sure that she keeps in touch with him. These are some of the ways that a girl can show her attention to a boy that she loves.
A girl who doesn’t know how to love will never be able to know all these. This will be a clear indication that she doesn’t know how to love. You should figure out a way of teaching her how to love you.
4. She will always think of sex as the only way thing to prove her love.
I know you may be surprised by this term (Sex). I know you may be asking yourself why should she know the sex if she doesn’t know how to love.
Sex is something that everyone knows about. There are so many TV shows programs that everyone in the entire world is watching.
Most of these programs never miss sex scenes in them. The good examples of these tv shows are Spartacus, the game of thrones and so many others I can’t mention here—let me talk of the signs a girl can express when she doesn’t know how to love not TV shows.
If I start talking about TV shows I’m pretty sure I will fill this article with series. I’m so addicted to them besides this blog.
So, those girls who don’t know how to love will always think of sex as the only way to prove their love.
A relationship is more than just sex those who have been in them probably know this by now. When a woman offers sex only to prove her love to you then she doesn’t know how to love.
Love is perceived by the way the two of you interact with each other, take care of each other, trust in each other, commitment, attention, sacrifice, care and so many factors that make up the whole love.
Sex will never fill most of the gaps in a relationship though it’s something very crucial. I’m not saying that sex doesn’t prove love in a relationship. Though, you have to know sex is just a quarter of love. There is more to be done for a relationship to be complete.
5. She will take most of the significant things in a relationship to be petty ones.
A person who never knows how to love will never know the value of the things that makes the love stronger.
She will always ignore and keep aside things that matter in a relationship. These are the things that actually make the relationship to be more fun and exciting.
Good examples; having fun together for her will seem childish. She will find it as an element of wasting time. Which is very far from that and that it helps so much in strengthening the bond of couples in relationships.
Having fun with your partner is so amazing and it can do wonders. If you have always been evading this then you have to make a move on that.
She will always ditch every silly conversation that you may tend to be having with her. You aren’t supposed to make a relationship so serious. I mean you will completely make it boring. You have to do things that make both of you happy always.
Sometimes all that couples needs are silly talk and hitting each other with pillows to make a relationship super amazing. These are things that a girl who doesn’t know how to love will never consider doing.
To end it up, If you are dating a girl who doesn’t know how to love, don’t dump her and look for someone else. Teach her how you want to be loved. You have to know that not everyone has the idea of how a relationship is perceived.
There are those girls who know to love in a very different way. They first might have started dating people who really wanted to be loved in a way that was out of our normal relationship maps. Some may have been treated badly by the people they chose to love the way you want them to love you.
So, be patient with her and show her everything how you need it to be in your relationship. With time I’m sure you will be impressed.
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