Why She Doesn’t Want To Be Friends After Break Up (+What To Do)

If she doesn’t want to be friends after a break-up and you are wondering why then I have an answer for you.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why your ex doesn’t want to be friends and what to do about it.

 

When you break up with someone and all they want from you is to walk away from them then know that the break hurt them.

 

Though this may not be the only reason, the break has a lot to do with this situation.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you these reasons.

 

This is why she doesn’t want to be friends after break up;

1. She wants to forget about you.

If she doesn’t want to be friends after the break up then this is the first thing you should know.

 

She wants to forget you and that is why she doesn’t want to be friends after you broke up.

 

This is the first thing people do after a breakup. They all want to move on from that relationship.

 

Your ex wants to move on and she knows that cutting off the connection and communication with you will help her forget about you easily.

 

She knows that if she keeps you close it will be hard for her to move on from and yet there is nothing left to fight for between the two of you.

 

Moving on from someone you loved can be a tough thing especially if you were so much into each other.

 

If the break-up broke her into pieces and she doesn’t want anything to do with you then this is the main reason why she wants to move on from you.

 

She wants to forget that you have ever existed at all.

 

Also, it can be that she doesn’t want to be friends with you after the break-up because she already has someone else.

 

It can be that before you broke up there was someone else waiting for her to end the relationship with you.

 

She knows that if you be friends you will realize that before you ended the relationship she had someone else waiting for her and this is what she is trying to hide you from.

 

She doesn’t want you to know about this and that is why she doesn’t want to be friends after the break-up.

 

Your ex wants to move on immediately from you and that is why she doesn’t want to be friends.

 

2. You broke up on bad terms.

There are two types of break ups, we have those who break up on good terms and we have those who break up on bad terms.

 

Those who broke up on good terms they parted ways peaceful without making a fight or argue about it.

 

While those who broke up on bad terms they parted ways with an intensive fight.

 

When you break up on bad terms there is no way you will even say hi to each other.

 

If this is the case between the two of you then know that she doesn’t want to be around you.

 

When a couple break up on bad term they will want to distance themselves from each other because of the situation.

 

If they come close to each other the fight may go still go on.

 

So, if you know before you broke up you fought about something and she was completely mad at you then don’t expect her to be friends with you.

 

The break up really destroy every feelings she had for you and that is why she doesn’t want to be your friend at all.

 

She is still angry at you after that break up and that is why she doesn’t want to be your friend.

 

3. She doesn’t want anything to do with you.

If after the break up she decided that that she doesn’t want anything to do with you then know that this is the main reason why she doesn’t want to be friends with you.

 

This may be her decision. You broke up, why should she be friends with you?

 

She doesn’t see a reason to be friends with you while there is no connection between the two of you.

 

The only thing that is in between the two of you are the painful memories of your break up.

 

She doesn’t want anything to do with you after that break up.

 

Your ex doesn’t find a reason to be friends with you yet there is nothing important you will add on to her.

 

She just wants to be far from you, she doesn’t even want to think that you were once with her.

 

This is the kind of person that when she cuts ties with people she wants those ties to remain cut.

 

And this is the reason why she doesn’t want to be friends after the break up.

 

4. She doesn’t want to fall in love with you again.

This is another reason why she doesn’t want to be friends after the break up.

 

She doesn’t want to fall in love with you again and that is why she wants to distance herself from you.

 

If your relationship bond with her was so strong and she never wanted the relationship to end but it ended anyway then expect her to develop feelings for you again.

 

Your ex can fall in love with you again.

 

And that is why when you are in a relationship you aren’t supposed to be friends with your ex because it might make you destroy your relationship.

 

I talked about this on another article about why guys cheat with their exes.

 

You might like this: 8 Reasons Why Guys Cheat With Their Exes? (Explained)

 

If the feelings between two of you were so intense and she thinks that being around you, being in touch with you and spending time with you would make her fall in love with you again then this is the main reason why she doesn’t want to be friends with you.

 

She wants to distance herself from you so that she doesn’t end up begging you to let her in again and she knows that it’s something that can’t happen.

 

The close distance between the two of you is what she wants to cut off. She knows being friends with you will drag you where you were before and it can be that she thinks you are not good for each other.

 

5. She hates you.

She hates you and that is why she doesn’t want to be friends with you after the break up.

 

If you broke up on bad terms then this is something you should expect.

 

When you break up with someone it will be hard for them to have a clean heart for you.

 

They will stain you in their hearts and you will be like a poison to them and all they will want to do is to keep a distance from you.

 

And this is what I call hatred. Your ex doesn’t want to be friends with you because she hates you.

 

You are stained in her heart and that is why she doesn’t want you to be close to her.

 

Love can change into hate. I know this is something you understand.

 

When you break up with someone in a way you hurt each other severely there is no way there will be love between the two of you.

 

She doesn’t want to be friends with you after the break up because her feelings for you changed to hatred.

 

And when someone hates you don’t expect them to welcome you in their lives with an open heart.

 

What do you do when your ex doesn’t want to be friends?

If your ex doesn’t want to be friends then you should wait a little bit longer before you approach him or her again. Your ex is still angry at you because of the break up currently and that is why she or he doesn’t want to have you around. Give your ex 1 month before you approach him or her with the offer of friendship.

 

This is enough time for her to get over the break up and welcome you back again in his or her life as a friend.

 

But if even after a month she or he still doesn’t want to be friends with you then I would advise you to let him or her go.

 

There is no need for force friendship with her/him. Walk away from him or her and start your life a fresh.

 

Lastly…

 

I don’t see the need for you to beg your ex for a friendship. Your ex will find you so desperate and this might even make him or her use you.

 

So, if you have asked your ex to be friends with you and he or she doesn’t want anything from you then walk away from him or her.

 

Don’t force connections where none exist.

 

Ask yourself, why do you want to be friends with your ex?

 

If it’s not something essential that you want from him or her then walk away from him.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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