She Doesn’t Even Want To Be Friends: Here’s What To Do

If she doesn’t want to be friends with you then know that she doesn’t want anything to do with you.

 

This clearly shows that she doesn’t want you around her for any reason.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do when a girl doesn’t want to be friends.

 

From these tips I will share with you here you will be able to win her heart in friendship.

 

Without further ado, this is what you should do if she doesn’t even want to be friends with you.

 

What do you do when a girl doesn’t want to be friends?

1. Find out why she doesn’t want to be friends with you.

When a girl doesn’t want to be friends with you the first thing you have to do is to find out why she doesn’t want to be friends with you.

 

This is something you should know if you want to make her be your friend.

 

There is no way you will solve this issue if you won’t find out this.

 

So, how can you find out why she doesn’t want to be your friend.

 

Ask yourself several questions if you want an answer to this.

 

Was she your friend before? If she was, what happened between the two of you? Did you hurt her in any way? Are there any differences between the two of you that prevents you from being friends?

 

Try to answer these questions and you will find the answer to why she doesn’t want to be friends.

 

If you did something wrong to hurt her then you should know that is the main reason why she doesn’t want to be friends with you.

 

She is still mad at you and there is no way she will be friends with you without you making up to her.

 

If you have never been friends and she just doesn’t want you to be friends then you should approach this from another angle.

 

I will share with you what you can do about that in the next section.

 

When you have found out why she doesn’t want to be friends with you then it’s time for you to fix these issues between the two of you.

 

2. Fix any issues between the two of you.

Once you have found out why she doesn’t want to be friends with you then it’s time for you to fix those issues between the two of you.

 

There is always a reason why a girl may not want to befriend you.

 

Even if you don’t see it know that it’s there.

 

If it doesn’t have anything to do with your past then it’s based on how you approach her.

 

Let me start with the issue of the two of you have a past.

 

If you were friends before but now she doesn’t even want to be friends then know that there is something you did to hurt her.

 

The only thing you should do if you hurt her in the past is trying to make it up to her.

 

Apologize to her and show her that you are so sorry for the things you did to her.

 

Let her know that you regret everything wrong you did to her, and be real with your apology and she will let you be her friend once again.

 

Swallow your ego and drop down for her, she will realize that you mean it and she will let you in.

 

But if you won’t bother doing this then there is no way she will want you to be her friend, considering your pasts.

 

If you were dating before and she now doesn’t want to be friends then I recommend you to read the article below.

 

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But if you have never had any past with her she is someone you just knew recently and she doesn’t want to be friends with you then you have a chance of winning her.

 

3. Let her know why you want to be friends with her.

If you don’t have a past with her then this is something you should do.

 

That is if she is someone you met recently and you are trying to make her be your friend.

 

Most guys don’t do this when they want to be friends with a girl.

 

All they will do is to try to strike a conversation with her for several minutes and later on they will ask for her number.

 

After that, they will try to be in touch with her so that she gets used to them.

 

And eventually, this will turn into friendship.

 

If you have tried that approach and it never worked then you should try this.

 

Be frank with her.

 

Some girls love it when a guy is straight to the point.

 

There is no need to linger around if you know what you want from her.

 

As a man, you should always observe the kind of girl you are trying to win.

 

If you have observed that this is the type of girl who wants a guy to be straight forward then don’t move her around the circle.

 

Don’t play games with her.

 

After all, there is nothing else you will lose if you be straight with her.

 

Let her know why you want to be friends with her. This will be something unique about you.

 

And when you let her know why you want her to befriend her she will understand your intentions and it will be up to her to decide that.

 

But if you don’t make your intentions clear to her there is no way she will let you be her friend.

 

If she doesn’t know what you want from her why should she let you be her friend?

 

4. Get close to her.

After letting her know that you want to befriend her for several reasons, you are not done yet.

 

You have so much to do if you want her to be your friend.

 

The next thing you have to do is to get closer to her. If you want her friendship then you have to earn it.

 

Get closer to her if you want her to be your friend.

 

Be available whenever she is around. Greet her and help in any areas she needs your help.

 

Also, let her know more about you as you are closer to her.

 

Don’t make her find you so desperate for friendship.

 

And you will manage to do this by alternatively being closer to her.

 

Sometimes be closer to her and sometimes distance yourself from her.

 

Don’t stalk her or make her feel weird around you.

 

Try your best to make her comfortable around you.

 

The closer you get to her the more she will realize what your intentions are and she might let you in.

 

Make her curious to know more about you, and you will achieve this by being unique.

 

Find something that will make you stand from the rest of the guys she has been friends with.

 

5. Be kind to her even if she is mean to you.

When a girl doesn’t want to be friends with you at first she can be so mean to you.

 

She can treat you so bad in a way you will hate yourself when you are around her trying to win her to be your friend.

 

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If you are short-tempered then you have to take control of your anger.

 

There is no way you will win her if she treats you bad and react to it directly.

 

The moment she pushes you away by saying words that hurt you try to play it cool.

 

Don’t start being mean to her simply because she is doing it. She has nothing to lose, but you do.

 

The way you will treat her when she is so mean to you is what will either make her feel guilty about how she is treating you or not.

 

So, treat her in a way she will feel guilty when she lay down and think of what she said or did to you.

 

Be nice and friendly to her if you want to win her friendship. This is the only way you will get her to be your friend.

 

6. Put effort into winning her friendship.

If you want her to be your friend then you should be willing to put in the effort.

 

There is no way she will be your friend if you won’t show her that you deserve that friendship.

 

This means you have to go the extra mile if you want her to be your friend.

 

Think of something you can say or do that will make her open her heart for you.

 

Put the effort into showing her that you deserve her friendship.

 

If you know that there is something you can do that will let her accept you to be her friend then go ahead and do it.

 

Don’t walk away from her simply because she told you she can never be friends with you.

 

Stick around and show her that you deserve to be friends. Put in the effort into showing her this and she will let you in.

 

Don’t just tell her that you want to be her friend and leave it at that point.

 

You will have to earn the friendship.

 

And the only way you will be able to do that is if you show her that you really deserve it.

 

7. Be patient.

If you have tried everything I have shared with you then the last thing you will have to do is to be patient.

 

Give her time to process what you just told her.

 

Don’t expect her to be your friend within a day. That is something that can’t happen.

 

You have to do good things to her and be patient for her to notice them.

 

It can be that she just wants you to try harder and that is why she doesn’t want to be your friend.

 

She wants you to show the effort you can put into winning her friendship.

 

So, be patient if you want her to be your friend.

 

Lastly…

 

If you have tried everything I have shared with you in this article and she still doesn’t want to be your friend then don’t beg for her friendship.

 

Don’t act so lonely and desperate for her friendship.

 

The best thing you can do is to walk away from her and never look back.

 

This might be the only way you will get her attention. She will realize that you meant it when you wanted to be friends and she will search for you.

 

And guess who will have the upper hand when she does? It’s you.

 

Don’t ever beg for someone to love you or befriend you.

 

You have to understand that not all people will feel the same for you.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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