If she gave you her number then you have to know what next to do. This is where the journey between the two of you starts.
The first thing you should ask yourself is why did you ask for her number? Did you want her number just because you wanted to fill your contact list?
Did you want her number so that she can be your friend? Did you want her number just because you are interested in her?
You have to know the reason why you wanted her number.
If she gave you her number and you really wanted it because you got interested in her then you have to start with a friendship first. Just wait for 24 hours before you text or call her. Don’t keep her waiting for so long if she gave you her number.
There is an article that I wrote that talks about deep details about when you should call her.
This article will really impress you.
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Anyway, having her number is just the first step in the long journey. You have to be smart if you what things to play in your favour.
Now that you have her number since you asked for it then you have to know the steps to approach for you not to screw things up.
If you are interested in her and you want to seduce her and get her in your lane then this is important for you to know.
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The things that I will share with you at this part are the same methods that I use to get any chick in my box.
This is what to do if she gave you her number;
1. Call her after 24 hours and notify her that you will be in touch with her.
If she gave you her number you will have to call her after 24 hours and notify her that you will be in touch with her and that you are grateful that she gave you her number.
It’s not a must you wait for 24 hours before you call her, but I think if she gave you her number just recently after you have met then calling her so soon might make the girl think otherwise.
She might think you are the type of guy who rushes at everything and this might give you a bad impression at the first stage even without going far.
Give her time before you start calling her. If it’s possible to take even 2 days. The maximum number of days you should wait before you call her it’s 3 days.
This is in the case of a stranger that you met at the park and she got into your heart and mind.
But if she is someone you have known for a while there is no need to wait for 24 hours for you to call her.
Call her as soon as you can so that you get the conversation going.
2. Get in touch with her and keep the conversation going.
After you have called her and notified her that you will be in touch with her she will obviously be eagerly waiting to hear from you again.
If you want, after you have notified her that you will be in touch with her you can start making a rapport between the two of you.
Make her get used to you by having a very simple and casual conversation. Conversations that will not make her think so much.
Start your conversation with her by talking about the simple things that she cares about.
You can start by making a conversation on the part where you met her.
I will use the example of the park because I used it in the first place.
So, you can start talking to her about the park where you met her.
Don’t start hitting her with so many questions. You will suddenly bore her.
If you bore her at the start then she will lose any interest she had in you.
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You can start your conversation like,
“The day I met you at the park, it was so chilly and I’m I was surprised you still enjoyed it.”
Instead of saying,
“When I met you at the park you never had a jacket yet it was chilly, why was that? Don’t you like wearing jackets? Are you sick?”
Dude, if you start hitting her with such kinds of questions then you will be ruining it all.
You may be surprised she has suddenly blocked you.
Luck you, I have an article I wrote on what to do when she has blocked you.
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Keep the conversation simple and with open-ended questions so that can get her to open up.
3. First, get to know her without bringing anything in between.
You have to get to know her. Let us say it’s the third day since you met her at the park since she gave you her number.
You have to get to know her. The first conversation you had with her must have given you an idea of what she likes talking about.
Though, the knowledge you might have gotten from the first conversation is not enough to take you to the next step.
If you want to get to know her without hitting her with many questions then you can start by telling her who you are.
Share with her some of the things that make you be you.
She will obviously want to know more about you when you start talking about the details of your life.
It will be more interesting if your life has a sense of adventure. But I guess everyone has a sense of adventure in his/her life.
The moment you start letting her know who you are she will also be willing to open to you.
Anyway, in some cases, she might not open up at all.
Don’t give up yet it’s too early to give up.
Give her time she will eventually, let you know the kind of person she is.
Some girls find it hard to open up to a person they have met recently. She might still consider you as a stranger.
So, if that is the case just keep going with the simple conversation until she starts to let you know the kind of a person she is.
4. Get her to trust you through texts and calls.
If you want her to open up deeply to you then you will have to make her trust you.
She will not open deeply to you if you won’t give her a reason to trust you.
Trust is a very strong foundation in any relationship.
Since you have just met recently you will have to try that via your calls and texts.
She will obviously not be comfortable meeting you at all since you are still a stranger to her. Even if she would meet you, she will still not be so comfortable talking with you about some of the things.
So, start winning her trust with your calls and texts.
You can gain someone’s trust through texts and call by;
- Make sure if you promise her that you will call her later then you have to do it no matter how busy you will be.
- You can make her trust you by telling her the truth about you even if some of the things will deprive you of a chance of getting her by your side.
- You can make her trust you by sharing your secrets with her. Make her know that you have never shared what you are sharing with her with someone else.
- You can make her trust you by helping her out whenever she is stranded. If she calls or texts you with an issue that bothers her if you have the ability to help her out don’t hesitate.
- You can make her trust you by being yourself, being real. If she decided to give you her number when you met, she probably knows the kind of a guy you are. Don’t copy someone else’s identity to impress her.
- If you want to gain her trust you also have to be patient because trust can’t just be gained overnight.
These are some of the things you can do to gain her trust via texts and calls.
5. Go deeper into knowing each other if she starts opening up to you.
If by any chance you have managed to win her trust then go deeper into knowing each other.
The moment a woman starts to trust you she will start to open up to you about her personal life and things that will surprise you.
When she starts talking about her family issues, previous relationships that failed terribly, and her work staff with you then this is clear that she trusts you now.
This is the point where you can ask her anything you want to know about her.
You can start by knowing the kind of things she is into. Get to know her hobbies, favourite meal and snacks, her best sports, her best movies, and TV shows and so many other things.
The moment she starts sharing with you the things she is into then you will have a chance to know her better.
This is the point where you will identify whether she is your type or not.
For instance, I met a girl. She was my neighbour. As in we used to live in the same apartment.
I just used to see her and we even did pass across each other without saying “Hi” to each other.
I gathered my courage and one I talked to her while she was doing laundry. I was surprised she was so much open to me.
I asked her the things she was into and I realized that we never had much in common. Though, she was so hot.
She openly told me that she can’t date someone who doesn’t do the things she does.
You know what? She told me she likes to party, get drunk, and smoke weed. If you have been reading articles in my blogs you actually know that I’m not into those kinds of things.
So, I just pulled away from her because I knew even if I made a move on her I would eventually be disappointed.
So, you must get to know her deeper, if she is your type then go ahead with the next step, if she isn’t then just let her be.
6. If she tells you she has a boyfriend don’t block or ignore her!
The moment she starts opening up to you because she trusts you she will eventually tell you about her personal life even without asking much.
Don’t be surprised she might even end up telling you that she has a boyfriend.
If she tells you that she has a boyfriend don’t block or ignore her. Ask yourself, why did she give you her number if she knows her relationship is super stable and is thriving? Don’t be in a rush of getting her out of your contact list. Get to know more about her relationship.
This is what to do if she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
Be her closest friend and get to know more about her relationship. You never know you will find fault in her relationship that you will use to your advantage.
Dude! You have to be ready to step on someone else toes nowadays.
You will never stay clean because it’s rare to find a girl who is so magnificent and yet she is single.
This is the drill nowadays. So get used to it.
7. Request a friendship at the first stage.
Go for friendship first.
Don’t jump directly into wanting her to be your girlfriend even if she tells you that she is single.
Start with a friendship so that you can get to know more about her before you make your move into the romantic section.
You don’t have to move too fast in a relationship because it’s never a good idea at all.
I wrote an article about it.
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When you are her friend you will get to know much from her.
The important of most is you will get to know the kind of guy she wants to have in her life.
You will eventually get to know if she is into you or not.
This can save you a very big bang for your heart. I guess you know what I mean.
There will be two options.
It’s either she accepts you in her life or rejects you.
Be open and ready for this.
8. If things go well in your conversation with her, ask her out.
If you are her friend now and she is used to you, and the term “stranger” is out of her conscious mind then you can ask her out.
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You have to know that it’s not a must you start dating someone is when you will ask her out.
You can ask her out even if you aren’t dating her.
This is a cool thing to do because finally, you will get to know the things she is into the most.
Leave the things he told you in the texts and the calls.
You will be able to see the real her in person in a very different state.
The moment a girl is used to you, the way she will behave towards you is totally different from when she isn’t used to you.
You will realize that she starts to be herself before; she will even let you see her flaws. This is because she is comfortable being around you.
So, ask her out and see for yourself the kind of person she is.
9. Try your shot and hope for the best.
Once you have realized that everything between the two of you progresses amazingly since you had a number then it’s time to try your shot.
You know the kind of person she is, if she fits you and you find her the right person to be with then make a point of expressing yourself what you feel for her.
Be honest about what you feel for her.
Keep hoping she feels the same way you do.
If she feels the same way you feel then she will eventually let you in.
But if your boat capsizes then you will have accepted the fact that you can’t have her aboard.
If she rejects you because she doesn’t feel the same way you do, then move on with your life.
You will eventually find someone else who will love you for who you are even without striving so hard for such love.
If you can’t have her you will have to accept it.
It’s obvious in this life that you will not have everything you desire to have.
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This is the whole drill on what to do when you get her number. This is something that no one else will tell you in detail like I did. So, if you follow the details I have shared with you and add on your knowledge I’m sure you will win her.
Anyway, if she gave you her number and she blocks you after you have started expressing what you feel for her, don’t stress yourself so much. This means she isn’t into you. You will have to accept that and move on.
If she was really into you then she wouldn’t have blocked you immediately when you started expressing what you feel for her.
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