7 Reasons Why She Is Ignoring You After You Kissed

If she is ignoring you after you kissed then there are several things you should know about that.

 

In this article, I will elaborate on why she is ignoring you after you kissed and things you can do about it.

 

When you kissed with a girl it’s obvious that both of you are attracted to each other.

 

If that was not the case then you wouldn’t have kissed at all.

 

The moment you have a connection with someone then you will find yourselves getting close to each other.

 

The same connection can make your relationship more complicated or easier depending on how you handle each other and express what you feel for each other.

 

Before wasting much time let me dive into these reasons so that you can understand what I’m trying to explain.

 

This is why she is ignoring you after you kissed;

1. She is thinking about what you did.

If you kissed since you all had a moment and you aren’t dating, you are only friends then she would ignore you to think about what happened.

 

You may take that kissing lightly but to her, it’s something huge that happened and she needs time to process what happened.

 

This is especially if it happened in a way that she thought it would never.

 

The moment you kiss then it’s clear that something is happening between the two of you.

 

If you are just friends and you never intended to go past friendship then this is something that she will have to think about it.

 

She will want to think of several things if you kissed;

  • She will want to think of the relationship the two of you are having.
  • She will want to think if she should change the relationship.
  • She will want to think of what to tell you after the kiss.
  • She will want to think if it was okay for the two of you to kiss.

The kiss that happened will make her question herself so much especially if she made a big deal out of it.

 

2. She doesn’t want to talk about what happened.

If you kissed and she doesn’t want to talk about then she will ignore you.

 

When you try to approach her after the kiss she will do anything to avoid you.

 

She will pretend to be busy and occupied with other issues yet she clearly knows there is something that you have to talk about.

 

All in all, she will do anything to avoid talking with you.

 

She knows that talking about what happened will make issues more complicated and that is what she is trying to avoid.

 

She will not want to talk about what happened if she thinks you will start talking about issues that she isn’t comfortable hearing.

 

For instance, if you kissed and she knows that when you get a chance of talking to her you will start expressing what you feel to her then she will start to ignore you.

 

3. She thinks you are moving too fast.

Moving too fast into a relationship is very dangerous.

 

If she was in several relationships and she is aware of the dangers of moving too fast into a relationship then she will avoid you after you have kissed.

 

The moment you kiss when you meet next you will want to take this further.

 

This is especially if you all have feelings for each other. You will definitely want to kiss again and see how it will turn it to be.

 

So, if she thinks that this will happen again and you will find yourselves deep into each other yet she thinks it’s too early for that to happen then she will ignore you.

 

She is aware that if she tries to ignore you for several days or weeks you will lose the tempo of how that relationship was going and when you finally get together you will be at the same point where you were.

 

This will prevent the relationship from moving fast.

 

4. She doesn’t want you to think she is ready for a relationship.

The moment you kiss and she acts so interested in what happened then this will make you think that she liked it and she is ready for a relationship.

 

If you kissed because you all had a moment and it was not something that she wanted it to happen then she will ignore you.

 

She is aware that when she acts normal and so excited and ready to talk about what happened between the two of you then you will end up thinking that she is ready for a relationship.

 

When you kissed and she doesn’t want you to think she was comfortable doing it then she will ignore you. She will distance herself from you to let you know that she is not ready for that kind of a relationship.

 

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5. She is shy.

We have shy girls.

 

A girl might be shy but at the same time, she has a crush on you.

 

Anyway, if you have no idea of how shy girls behave when they are in love then you should read the article below.

 

You might like this11 Signs A Shy Girl Likes You.

 

In the above article, I have clearly explained how you can know a shy girl and the signs that she will portray when she likes you.

 

When a girl is shy and it happened that you kissed since you had a lapse of a moment then she will not want to talk about what happened.

 

If she doesn’t want to talk about what happened then the best thing she will do is to ignore you.

 

She will keep on ignoring you, she will hardly talk to you or look at you in any circumstance because she doesn’t dare to do that.

 

Such a situation will be very hard for a shy girl. She will not even have an idea of where to start.

 

So, if she is ignoring you after you kissed then this might be one of the reasons. If you noticed earlier that she is shy then know that is why she is ignoring you.

 

The only thing you can do is to give her time and allow her to process what happened. It might have been something usual and normal to you but to her, it might have been a very big deal.

 

6. She wants you to forget about what happened.

You can kiss a girl that you aren’t dating and afterward things will go on as if nothing happened.

 

You will remain in the friend zone and you will act as if nothing happened.

 

I remember I kissed a girl I had a crush on but nothing ever changed.

 

We handled each other like friends and we never made a big deal out of the kiss that happened.

 

After we kissed we all kept quiet about it and pretended it never happened.

 

If she wants you to forget about the kiss that happened then she will start ignoring you. She will avoid you, she will not reply to your text or pick up your call and she will distance herself.

 

She knows that the moment she ignores you for a while and stops talking about the moment you had then you will forget about it.

 

You will no longer talk about it.

 

This is especially if she is not ready to change what you have already.

 

7. She is thinking of what to decide after that kiss.

When you kiss there will always be a moment both of you will have to think about the relationship you have.

 

If you are friends you will start thinking of what to change in your friendship.

 

When you can kiss someone it’s clear that you have feelings for each other.

 

It’s very hard for two people to kiss if they aren’t into each other.

 

There is a romantic connection and before you think of changing your relationship status you will both have to think about the kiss that happened.

 

She is ignoring you after you kissed simply because she is thinking of what to decide for your relationship. Ignoring you will give her sufficient time to think and decide what to call your relationship.

 

Lastly…

 

If you kissed and she is ignoring you the first thing you have to do is give her time to process what happened and then reach out to her and ask her what she thinks about what happened.

 

Get to know how she feels about the kiss. If she opens up and tells you that she is happy with what happened then try to take your relationship to the next level if you have feelings for her.

 

But if she keeps ignoring you no matter how hard you try to be in touch with her then know she thinks of the kiss that you had as a mistake. She never wanted it to happen and that is why she is ignoring you, which will eventually make you grow apart.

 

If you kissed her and now she is distant then give her some time and let her process what happened. After several days reach out to her and try to figure out how she feels about the kiss.

 

It’s normal for a girl to be distant for a while after you kissed since it’s something that needs to be analyzed, especially if you don’t have a close connection other than friendship.

 

Thanks for stopping by, if you have a question leave your comment, and see you in my next article.

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