If your girlfriend never calls you and you are the only one calling her then you should know this is a red flag. Communication is a very important aspect of any relationship.
This is part of the commitment and everyone in a relationship should play a part in maintaining it.
If you are the only one maintaining communication with her then this shows that there is something wrong between the two of you.
This shows that you are putting more effort into the relationship while your girlfriend rides along.
There are so many things you can conclude from someone who doesn’t put effort into the relationship.
Check the article below to know more about this.
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In this article, I will share with you several reasons why your girlfriend never calls you but you always call her.
This is why she never calls you and you always call her;
1. She is too dependent on you to move the relationship.
If your girlfriend never calls you but always responds to your calls and she acts like everything is fine then this is what you should know.
She is too dependent on you to move the relationship from one level to another while she rides along.
This shows that she is lazy and unmotivated.
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She expects you to do everything in that relationship.
And that is why she never bothers calling you first but she always responds to your calls.
If you are in this kind of relationship then you should expect it to be one-sided.
You will be putting effort into that relationship while she will be doing nothing.
If she can’t call you, this means she doesn’t want to put the effort into maintaining the communication between the two of you.
And this can mean so many things.
If it goes this way that you are always the one calling her but she never bothers calling you then this relationship will eventually fail.
I know you will be eventually drained out and exhausted in doing everything to maintain the communication in your relationship while she does nothing.
2. She doesn’t love you the way you think.
If your girlfriend never calls you but you always do, do you think she loves you the way she claims?
Are you sure that she feels the same way you do for her?
Communication pattern says so much about how someone feels about you.
If she loves you then she wouldn’t have been waiting for you to call her.
She would have made effort in calling you too.
But if nothing about your relationship pushes her to call you then you should know that she doesn’t love you as you think.
She is not yet fully in that relationship and that is why she never calls you.
Trust me, if she loves you the way you think then she could have maintained the communication with you.
You could have been seeing some missed calls from her when you leave your phone untouched.
The love a woman has for you is what will drive her to want to communicate with you and be next to you.
But if she never calls you then know that what she tells you about how she feels for you is all a lie.
3. She doesn’t care about you.
She never calls you but you always make the effort of calling her because she doesn’t care about you.
You are the only one who cares about her.
And that is why you keep calling her even if she doesn’t call you.
When your girlfriend never bothers to call you and check on you then you should know that she doesn’t care about you.
She isn’t into you either.
You should be worried about this situation because eventually, she will walk away from you.
A girl who cares about you will always make an effort of calling you.
No matter how busy she may be she will make time to call you and check out on you.
If she never calls you then don’t let her give you any excuses, the truth is that she doesn’t care about you.
4. You don’t have her attention.
If your girlfriend has her attention focused somewhere else then it will be hard for her to give you her attention.
It will be hard for her to focus on you and at the same time focus on someone else.
When your girlfriend is doing something fishy behind your back then you will notice a change in her.
She will give you divided attention.
And this will make you realize that something is going on.
So, if your girlfriend is focused on someone else that she finds more important than you then she will never think of calling you.
She won’t call you because you don’t have her attention.
Her attention is hooked by someone else, she is probably calling the one who has her attention.
When you capture your girlfriend’s attention then you will always find her reaching out to you because nothing else will matter to her than you do.
This means she will prioritize you on everything. Before she does anything she will be reaching out to you.
Anyway, it’s not too late to ask for your girlfriend’s attention.
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5. She finds no reason to call you.
This is another reason why she never calls you.
For a girl to call you she has to have a reason.
If she feels she has no reason to call you because nothing is amazing going on in your relationship do you think she will call you?
There is no way she will call you if she feels that way.
So, you have to give her a reason to call you.
How can I give her the reason to call me?
You can give her the reason to call you by the way you handle her.
Can you try to light the spark that was between the two of you when you first met?
Make her excited to be next to you, do things that will drive her crazy and make her think about you the whole day.
What I can tell you is that you have to do what makes her feel you in a way she has never before.
You can do this by treating her like a queen, spending more time with her so that you create a strong relationship bond, being there for her whenever she needs you, being her man and not her friend, prioritizing her and showing that you can’t do anything without her.
When you treat her that way she will be happy to be around you and whenever you are far from her, she will always have a reason to call you.
She will call you because she will be missing the way you treat her. She will always find an excuse to call you because of how amazing you make her feel.
6. She doesn’t feel like talking to you.
This is something else you should know if your girlfriend never calls you.
She never calls you because she doesn’t feel like talking to you.
If there is something wrong between the two of you she will never call you.
You will always be the one making effort in calling her but she will never bother to do that.
If she doesn’t feel like talking to you for wherever reason she will never get in touch with you.
For instance, let me say you did something to annoy her, you don’t treat her nicely, you always blame her for everything that happens in that relationship and you don’t respect her, do you think she will feel happy talking to you?
There is no way she will be happy talking to you because you don’t treat her right.
She will never be motivated to maintain communication.
So, if she doesn’t feel like talking to you for wherever reason then she will never bother calling you.
What to do if she never calls you but you always call her.
If she never calls you then you should find out why. Use the reasons you get from her to fix any misunderstandings. After doing that focus on making your relationship better and treating her nicely. Give her a reason to call. Bring her interest back in you and she will eventually be calling you.
The moment you realize that she is not calling you because you did something wrong then you should be ready to make it up to her.
Apologize for the mistakes you did and promise her that you will change.
Talk to her and let her know how important it’s that you maintain communication in that relationship.
If she still cares about you and the relationship then she will be ready to work things out.
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If she never calls you but she always responds when you call her then you should ask her why she is not calling you. Let her tell you what is wrong with her.
When you find out that is something that can be fixed then help her out to fix any problem.
But if she doesn’t tell you anything about why she is not calling you then you should that she doesn’t feel the same for you.
Try to rekindle the spark in your relationship and create a strong relationship bond.
If she doesn’t change no matter what you do in that relationship then know that she doesn’t feel the same for you.
She doesn’t love you and you should not waste your time calling her.
Thanks for reading, leave any questions if you have them, see you in my next article.
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