If she is not the one but you love her then you don’t have to worry about anything.
You should make yourself comfortable around her and make up your mind that you are going to stick to her.
You should understand that love is the main thing that everyone is looking for.
Finding someone genuine nowadays is a very hard thing to do.
So, if she is not the exact type of a girl you wanted but you are in love with her and she loves you back, then hold on to her.
Sometimes we usually don’t get what we want. And that is alright because everything in our lives happens for a reason.
If she is not the one but you love her then hold on to her, make yourself comfortable around her, make your relationship better and get used to the new normal that you are currently in.
People fall in love for various reasons. There are so many factors that make people fall in love.
So, if you fell in love with her but she is not the one then this shows that you should make her the one.
The only thing you will have to do is to change how you perceive her.
She can be the one if you make her be. And at the same time, she can’t be the one if you don’t intend her to be.
The girl that you fell in love with and made part of your life, she is the one.
The girl dream that you wished to have and she is now dating someone else, she was never meant for you.
So, if you fell in love with her then know that she is the one. Unless you dated her for other reasons apart from love.
Maybe you dated her because you wanted something from her, or maybe you thought she will make a perfect show when you hit the club and so many other reasons.
If you dated her for other reasons apart from love then I would advise you to leave her if she is not the one.
But if you fell in love with her and she is not the one then stick with her and make her the one.
You will never find the one anywhere else, you will never get the kind of girl you desire to have, you will only get what deserves you.
If she was not the one then you wouldn’t have been in love with her.
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You wouldn’t have been dating her if she wasn’t the one.
You would have gone to the girl who you thought is the one.
What to do if she is not the one but you love her.
If you love her and she is not the one then make up your mind and change her to be the one. Change how you perceive her and be focused on building your relationship with her.
All men have their dream girls. I do have a dream girl too. The kind of girl that I want to have in my life.
But I have never managed to find her. And if I don’t find her it doesn’t mean that I will remain single forever and keep pushing away other girls that are genuine.
I will have to open my heart and welcome anyone who is real, genuine and wants to make my life better.
I will not close my heart and my feelings for someone I will never have. In most cases, you will never manage to get one.
You will find other people who are amazing but they won’t have every feature you are looking for.
The best thing for you to do is to accept the fact you are in love with her and change how you perceive her.
In this way, you will be happy around her and you will feel fulfilled in your relationship.
But if you will keep it back of your mind that she is not the one yet you are in love with her then you will never focus on that relationship, you will be moving in circles trying to find someone who will fulfil you and make you complete but it will never happen.
The main thing we are all looking for in a relationship is happiness.
All the goals we set in our relationships, will all lead to one thing, and that is happiness.
So, if you love her and she is not the one then you will have to make her the one.
You can do that by deciding that she is enough for you and you are going to focus all your energy and time on her and you will stop comparing her to any kind of girl you wanted to have in your life.
No one will tell you this.
A girl will be what you want her to be. If you want her to be the one you can do that.
You can change how you view her and make yourself happy around her even if she is not the one.
You just have to accept that she is enough for you and focus on making your relationship better every day of your life.
If you tell leave her even if you love her since you want to find the one then you will forever remain single.
This is because every girl you will come across will lack something that you truly want from her.
No one is perfect, I know you are aware of that. So, if you love her but she is not the one then change how you perceive her.
Make her the one. Invest your time and energy in her and as time goes by you will realize that you did the best thing in your life.
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