She Says She Loves Me But Doesn’t Show It: Do This

If she says she loves you but doesn’t show it then you have to do something about it. There is no way you will change that situation between the two of you if you won’t act.

 

In this article, I will share with you what to do when a girl says she loves you but doesn’t show it.

 

Stick with me till the end so that you can know how to tackle this issue.

 

If you won’t change this situation then know that this relationship might turn into a friendship.

 

Trust me, you don’t want that to happen.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

What to do when a girl says she loves you but she doesn’t show it;

1. Find out if she is truly ready for a romantic relationship.

If a girl says she loves you but she doesn’t show it the first thing you should do is to find out if she is ready for a romantic relationship.

 

You have to be sure that she wants to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

It can be that you are waiting for her to make the first romantic move on you and she doesn’t know if she is ready to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

So, if you expressed your feelings for her and you never bothered checking out if she is into the relationship after she told you she loves you then you should make an effort to confirm that from her.

 

The best way to confirm this is to approach her and discuss your relationship with her.

 

A girl can tell you that she loves you but deep down she doesn’t want to commit to a relationship.

 

So, don’t be surprised about this.

 

A girl saying, “I love you” doesn’t mean that she is ready to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

Nowadays, the phrase “I love you” doesn’t mean that much.

 

Someone can tell you they love you and not act on it.

 

What will let you know if someone is ready for a romantic relationship with you is their confirmation.

 

So, sit down with her and have a conversation about how she feels about you.

 

Ask her if she wants to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

If she says then you should continue reading the next section of this article.

 

But if she tells you she is not ready to be in a romantic relationship with you then this should let you know that she doesn’t show you anything because she is not yet ready to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

It can be that she says “I love you” just as a friend but she doesn’t mean she wants to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

2. Don’t wait for her to show you that she loves you.

If you have confirmed with her and she says she is ready for a romantic relationship with you then you should not wait for her to show you.

 

As a man, you should always make the first move.

 

It can be that she is not showing you anything after she said she loves you because she expects you to make a move on her.

 

If you wait for her to make the first move after she has said she loves you then you will keep on waiting for each other for a long time.

 

In most cases, women expect men to make the first move. To be honest, women always want men to guide them.

 

You are the man! So, you should not wait for her to tell you which path you should follow.

 

Make a move on her and see how she will react to it.

 

You are in a relationship with her now, don’t be afraid to make the romantic move on her.

 

She is not showing what she feels for you because she wants you to initiate the first move.

 

What I advise you to do is to ask her out and make your first move on her.

 

Try to touch her, hold her hands and if things are well then go for a kiss.

 

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If she told you she is ready to be in a romantic relationship with you then she will never turn you down.

 

She will not push you away when you go for your first kiss.

 

But if she shows you a negative response you should take caution.

 

No need to rush things.

 

So, kick away those worries away and believe in yourself. You got this!

 

Make the first move and don’t wait for her to show you that she loves you.

 

3. Spend more time with her.

If she says she loves you but she doesn’t show it then you have to spend more time with her.

 

You have to know that the moment a woman have accept to be with you it doesn’t mean that she will be okay showing you romantic moves within the first day.

 

Anyway, this depends on different kinds of girls. We have those who will make a bold romantic move on you once she has given in.

 

But we have those who will have to wait a little bit until they get the right pace with you.

 

Some girls will never show you how they feel about you after they have said they love you because they don’t want to rush things.

 

So, if your relationship is brand new you should not think too much about her showing you how she feels about you.

 

Things will be the way you want them to be if you go with the right approach and pace.

 

If you want her to show you how she feels about you then you should make a point of spending more time with her.

 

If she says she loves you and she doesn’t show it then it’s because you don’t spend much time together and your relationship is still new.

 

For things between the two of you to connect you have to spend more time together.

 

The more time you will spend together the more she will be comfortable around you.

 

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The moment she will be comfortable around you then she will not find it hard to make a romantic move on you and she will not be afraid to show you how she feels about you.

 

If you are distanced from each other then you should make a point of sexting with her.

 

Send her romantic texts that will drive her insane. Keep the fire between the two of you burning.

 

This will not happen if you won’t happen time for her.

 

So, make time for her if you want her to show you how she feels about you.

 

4. Spice things out between the two of you.

As said earlier, don’t wait for her to show you that she feels you.

 

You have to make a move and effort.

 

If your relationship is new then as a man you should be ready to make the effort to spice things up.

 

The girl will be looking up to you for everything in that relationship until she gets to understand the pace that you want to move on.

 

She says she loves you but she doesn’t show it because she expects you to make things amazing between the two of you.

 

How you will handle her, is what will either make her show you how she feels about you or not.

 

If things are boring between the two of you, there is no spark and you are kinda distanced, do you think she will feel the need to show you how she feels about you?

 

She will not make the move because she doesn’t see the reason for her to make the move.

 

Make her more interested in you though she has already given in.

 

If she says she loves you, it doesn’t mean that your job is done. You have to keep things on fire.

 

You still have to do things to draw her close to you, you still have to say words that will turn her on and you still have to keep the vibe between you going.

 

Some guys will stop putting effort after the girl has accepted to be in a relationship with them.

 

And this is where they go wrong.

 

You can spice things up by showering with her, cooking for her, taking her out for dinner, cuddling and spooning with her, keeping the romance at its peak and keep on complimenting her.

 

These are some of the things that will drive her nuts. This will make her want you more and the moment when you will stop doing these things for her she will start doing them.

 

This is now the part where she will be showing you how she feels about you.

 

So, if she says she loves you and she doesn’t show it and you have confirmed that she is ready to be in a romantic relationship with you then you should not wait for her to show it.

 

What are you waiting for? Spice things up man!

 

5. Give her time it can be that she is not comfortable with you yet.

If your relationship is new then this is something you should understand.

 

It can be that she is not showing you how she feels after she has said she loves you simply because she is not comfortable with you yet.

 

So, if you have tried to make romantic moves on her but she doesn’t do anything yet then give her time.

 

She is not yet used to you and you should take it easy on her.

 

The moment she will be comfortable around you is when she will drive you insane.

 

She will do things that you never imagined she could.

 

The best thing you should do for now is to try to make her comfortable around you.

 

Treat her in a way she will feel safe around you and things will be the way you want them to be.

 

Check out the article below it will help you on making sure this happens.

 

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Lastly…

 

If she says she loves you and she doesn’t show it then confirm with her if she wants to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

It can be that she is not showing it because she doesn’t want to be in a romantic relationship with you.

 

So, you have to be sure that she wants to be with you before you think of making the next move.

 

After you have an idea that she wants to be in a romantic relationship with you then you should now make the point of making the first romantic move on her.

 

Don’t wait for her to show you what she feels for you. As a man, you should always initiate the first move.

 

If she doesn’t feel comfortable with you making romantic moves on her try to spend more time with her as you try to make her comfortable around you.

 

Take it easy on her as time goes by she will be able to show you how she feels about you.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comments. See you in my next article.

 

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