She Told Me I’m Not Good Enough For Her: What It Means

When a girl tells you that you are not good enough for her she is trying to tell you that you are not her type in other words.

 

Though, there might be several things she may be implying. Stick with me I will share with you these meanings and how to respond and what to do about these words.

 

So, before I sway away from the main topic of the day let me tell you what it means when a woman tells you that you are not good enough for her.

 

When a girl tells you that you are not good enough for her she means that you are not the type of guy she would want to date. It can also mean that you are not in her class at all. She thinks that you can’t give her what she might want.

 

If she has been observing you or knowing the kind of person you are and she ends up telling you this then you are definitely not going to have a chance on her.

 

So, when a girl finds that you are not her type then she might tell you that you are not good enough for her.

 

This is another way of telling you that I can’t date a person of your kind. She thinks of herself in a different league than yours (she feels she is way out of your league).

 

Also, if she finds that you can’t give her what she wants and yet you need her to be in a relationship with you, she will give you this kind of response.

 

 

There might be so many reasons why a girl might end up telling you such kinds of words.

 

Reasons why she told you that you are not good enough for her;
  1. She told you that you are not good enough because she doesn’t feel like dating you at all.
  2. She may have told you that you are not good enough because she thinks you can’t give her what she wants in a relationship.
  3. She told you that you are not good enough for her because you are not the type of guy she would want to date.
  4. She told you that you are not good enough because she thinks you can’t handle her the way she would want.
  5. She told you that you are not good enough for her because she thinks highly of herself. (She is classic compared to you)
  6. She told you that you are not good enough because she wants you to give up on her, she will tell you this when she is playing hard to get.
  7. She told you that you are not good enough for her because she wants to kick you away and occupy her life with someone else.
  8. She told you that you are not good enough for her because she isn’t interested in you.

 

These are some of the reasons why a woman might tell you that you are not good enough.

 

This can be very disturbing when you have no idea where to start.

 

So, for these reasons, you might have a clue where to start if you really want to get her in your lane.

 

What to say when a girl tells you that you are not good enough.

 

If you have the intention of getting her into your life and she plays this way then you have to come up with a cool way to respond to when she says these words.

 

Some girls like challenges so if you won’t be able to solve her challenges or convince her that you can handle her she will just let you walk away.

 

So, to convince a woman who tells you that you are not good enough needs some cool pickup lines that she will hardly say no to.

 

She plays hard? Then you have to play smart.

 

This is what to say when a girl tells you that you are not good enough for her. Say, “Before you say I’m not good enough, give me a chance to show you what I got, after seeing what I can offer then you can go ahead and make a decision.”

 

You don’t have to use the exact words I have used. In short use words that will inform her that she can’t measure your capability if she has never had a chance with you.

 

This will convey to her that you are confident enough and you know what you are asking for from her.

 

It will eventually spike her curiosity and she will want to see what you have to offer. When she does that she will eventually be where you wanted her to be.

 

So, when she has given you a shot to see what you can offer, make her love you more by making things exciting with her, handle her the way she wants you to, make her crave for more by being super romantic and leaving her in suspense.

 

My partner tells me I’m not good enough.

When it’s your partner telling you that you are not good enough then this might be another issue.

 

If your partner tells you that you are not good enough and you have been dating for while this means that he/she has lost interest in you. It can also be that he/she doesn’t get what she/he expected from you. When you don’t meet your partner’s expectations then expect this phrase.

 

When your partner openly tells you that you are not good enough know that he or she has reached the edge.

 

Saying such words to your partner isn’t an easy thing. When someone finally decides to tell you this then he or she is open to any consequences.

 

This is because when your partner tells you that you are not good enough and yet you have been trying your best in that relationship will eventually discourage you.

 

You might even decide to end the relationship if you are a short-tempered person. This can put a relationship in a complicated state in seconds.

 

When your partner tells you that you are not good enough then he or she is thinking of two things. Your partner might want to break up with you or he or she wants you to style up on the way you are handling her.

 

What to do when your partner tells you that you are not good enough.

 

There are several things you can do when your partner tells you that you are not good enough.

 

This is what to do if your partner tells you that you are not good enough;

 

1. Ask your partner why he/she says you are not good enough.

You will have to know the reason why he/she says that you are not good enough before you come up with a solution.

 

You can find the reason why she/he says that by asking her or him. Ask him or her questions that will make him or her open to you.

 

This is the only way you will find out why she/he says that you are not good enough.

 

This is an example of how you can ask him/her.

 

“I thought, I was giving you exactly what you expected, I have been trying so hard to please you and make you comfortable in this relationship. Everything that I do in this relationship is for you; the effort that I put into this relationship is also to make sure we are where we want to be. So, can you kindly tell me why you think I’m not good enough for you?”

 

Or you can ask him or her this way.

“I have been doing my best to make you happy and satisfied in this relationship. Can you fill me in where I left a gap?”

 

“What makes you say that I’m not good enough for you?”

 

2. Fix the things that make your partner say you are not good enough.

So, when your partner has opened to you why she or he says that you are not good enough then it’s time to fix things in your relationship.

 

You can be good enough for your partner if you fix the areas that make him/her say that you are not good enough for him or her.

 

For instance, if your partner tells you that you are not good enough because you don’t handle her/him the way he/she wants then start working on how you treat him or her.

 

Make an effort to upgrade the way you handle her/him in every way. Do the exact things he or she wants you to do for him or her.

 

Also, if your partner tells you that you aren’t good enough because you don’t give him or her what she/he wants then try to make an effort.

 

Make an effort to give him or her what she wants so that you assure her/him that you can be the best for him/her.

 

3. Ask your partner what he/she wants.

Instead of assuming, just go ahead and ask what your partner wants.

 

This is the only way you can get him or her to tell you what he/she expects to get from you.

 

So, when he/she finally tells you what she/he wants then you will be able to be the kind of a partner he or she wants you to be.

 

You can be good enough for him or her when you can give him or her what he or she wants.

 

Doing this will make your partner satisfied with you.

 

Sometimes it’s all about the satisfaction that will make your partner get enough of you thus becoming good enough for him or her.

 

4. Take your action: Whether to stay or leave.

When your partner tells you that you are not enough and he or she wants to end it with you then you will have a decision to make.

 

If your partner tells you that you are not good enough yet you see nothing else to do in that relationship to make him or her feel that you are good enough then you will have to end the relationship.

 

You will be forcing yourself on him or her because when someone says you aren’t good enough this means that he or she doesn’t feel you.

 

The interest will be decreasing gradually until he or she will want nothing to do with you.

 

So, if you notice that the situation is impossible to be fixed, don’t force yourself on him or her.

 

There is no way you will be suddenly good enough to him or her. End the relationship before things turn to be worst for you.

 

But when he or she gives you a way of how to be good enough to him go ahead and fix things. This shows a gesture that he or she is ready to make you realize what satisfies him or her.

 

And he or she is ready to work things out.

 

Lastly…

When your girlfriend or boyfriend tells you that you are not good enough then this shows that he or she is not satisfied with what she or he gets from you.

 

It can also be that he or she doesn’t get what she or he expected from you.

 

But if it’s someone who you had a crush on and you made a move and he or she ended telling you that you aren’t good enough for him or her then this shows that she or he isn’t interested in you.

 

Some people will use this phrase just to kick you away.

 

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