If she wants your attention but she has a boyfriend then this is something you should know. In this article, I will share with you what to do if a girl wants your attention but she has a boyfriend.
Stick with me till the end to know what you are going to do about this issue.
When a girl wants your attention but has a boyfriend it means she is not getting any attention from her boyfriend and she is trying to use you for attention. Also, it can be that she likes you and that is why she wants your attention.
So, if you want to know what to do about this then continue reading the article.
What to do when a girl wants your attention but she has a boyfriend;
1. Find out why she wants your attention.
When a girl wants your attention but has a boyfriend the first thing you should do is to find out why she wants your attention in the first place.
What you will find from her is what will enable you to know the next step you should take.
Don’t do anything without finding these reasons.
And since she is the one seeking your attention you can find this information from her.
Pull her aside and ask her why she wants your attention.
If she wants your attention you will have to confront her and ask her about this whether you like it or not you will have to do it.
So, face her and let her tell you why she wants your attention.
The answers she will give you are what you will use in the next part of this article.
2. Let her know how you feel about her wanting your attention.
The reasons you have gathered from her are what you will use to tackle this issue.
Don’t just give her your attention without telling her how you feel about it.
If she told you that she wants your attention because she likes you and she wants to cheat on her man with you then this is something you should think about.
Think about it and let her know how you feel about it.
On the other side, if you have a crush on her and you want to steal her from her man then you can go ahead and do it.
Though this is not something I would advise you to do.
If a girl can cheat on her boyfriend with you then she can do the same thing to you.
She can cheat on you with another guy she will find attractive.
I mean you can’t trust her. But if you want to smash and walk away then you can go ahead and do it.
But if you find out that she wants your attention because she is not getting any attention from her boyfriend then you should avoid her.
Stay away from her because she just wants to use you, when her boyfriend will start paying more attention to her she will forget about you.
So, if this is the case then let her know that you can’t give her any attention because you are with someone else.
You will have to lie to her to push her away.
But you can also choose to tell her the truth that you don’t want to give her your attention because she is dating someone else.
3. If she truly wants your attention make her do the impossible.
This is something else you should do if she keeps insisting you give her your attention while she has a boyfriend.
If she is pushing you to pay attention to her while she is in a relationship with another guy then ask her to do the impossible.
Do you know what is the “impossible”?
The “impossible” I’m talking about here is for you to tell her to break up with her guy if she wants to get your attention.
Ask her to leave her guy and come to you if she wants you to give her the attention she wants.
If she truly wants your attention because she has feelings for you then this will not be hard for her to do.
She will break up with him and come to you.
When she makes such a move then know that she is so much in love with you and that is why she is doing that.
But if she will refuse to break up with her boyfriend for her to get your attention then know that she doesn’t love you.
She only wanted to use you.
If she doesn’t want to break up with her boyfriend then you should just ignore her.
Don’t be in touch with her because she is only trying to manipulate you.
4. You can decide to ignore her if you want nothing to do with her.
I may be advising you to ignore her but deep down you may have a thing for her though she has someone else.
When a girl wants your attention but she has a boyfriend there is a chance that you can win her.
If you are smart enough you can draw her to you and make her break up with her boyfriend.
You should consider that if you have genuine feelings for her.
The next thing you can decide to do is to ignore her.
Stop talking to her and push her away from you.
Be real with her and let her know that you don’t want anything to do with her and that is why you can’t give her the attention she wants from you.
But if you keep her around yet you have told her you don’t want to give her your attention because she is dating someone else then she will conclude that you feel something for her.
If a girl wants your attention but has a boyfriend the first thing you should do is to ask her why she wants your attention in the first place.
What she will tell you is what you will use to determine if she is worth your attention or not.
When you find out that she wants your attention but she has a boyfriend simply because she is in love with you then you should do what your heart tells you.
If you have feelings for her then don’t do anything first before you ask her to end the relationship with her boyfriend.
This is what will let you know if she has true feelings for you or not.
If she won’t break up with him then know that she only wanted to use you.
She wanted your attention because her boyfriend never gave her the attention she wanted.
And this means if her boyfriend starts to give her the attention she wants then she will forget about you.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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