Should I Convert To Islam For My Girlfriend? Know This

If you are thinking of converting to Islam for your girlfriend and you don’t know what to decide then in this article I will make some things clear for you. What I will share with you in this article will help you to come up with a decision that you will never regret in your life.

 

This is a very sensitive issue, especially since now love is involved in it.

 

Before I share with you there is something important you should know about me.

 

I’m Abduljabbar Ramadhan Ali, that’s my full name. By now you have an idea that I’m a Muslim. My dad is a Muslim and my mom is a Christian.

 

In this article, I will do my best to give you the right answer without any biases.

 

I will not push you to convert to Islam for your girlfriend or not, but I will share with you information that will help you make the right decision.

 

With that much said, let me share with you what you need to know about this issue.

 

You should convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you truly believe in Islam, it’s the only chance you have to keep her and you want to marry her.

 

But, if you want to convert to Islam for your girlfriend simply because you just want to be with her, yet you don’t believe in that religion then you will be doing something that you will regret for the rest of your life.

 

Converting to Islam for your girlfriend is not a bad thing, it’s the only way you will have to keep her by your side and even make your relationship official.

 

I will share with you why it’s not a good idea to convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you don’t believe in the religion.

 

Without wasting time, let me dive deep into this topic.

 

Things to consider before you convert to Islam for your girlfriend;

1. You should only convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you believe in the religion.

This is an important part that you should pay all your attention to. This is the part which will let you know if it’s worth it to convert to Islam for your girlfriend or not.

 

Before I go deep into this section there is something I would like you to know about Islam.

 

In Islam, we all believe that every good deed is done should only be to please Allah.

 

If you do any good deed with different intentions apart from pleasing Allah then there is no way you will be rewarded for that.

 

For instance, if a Muslim goes to pray in the Masjid (mosque) to show off – just to let people know that he is also praying then he will not be rewarded for that.

 

He will only be wasting his time.

 

So, from this short example, you know that you should focus your intention on the right reason for why you choose to do something.

 

If you believe in Allah (God) you know that there is a reward for any virtue you do.

 

This shows that if you convert to Islam for your girlfriend; only because of her, then you won’t be doing any good to yourself.

 

It’s something that will hurt you in the long run.

 

Don’t convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you know that you don’t believe in Islam.

 

If you will choose to convert to Islam simply because your girlfriend wants you, yet you don’t believe in the religion then you will be making a very big mistake.

 

You have to know that there is no guarantee that your relationship with her will last forever.

 

In case it lasts forever, then you will be on the wrong side of things.

 

This is because you will have to live your life with a lie. You will be stuck in a religion you don’t believe in, this will deprive you of your happiness.

 

If you break up with her then you will blame yourself for converting to Islam.

 

So, if you are thinking of converting to Islam for your girlfriend the first thing you should consider is your belief in that religion.

 

This is the only thing that will make you happy.

 

And if you know nothing about Islam, you should first do your research before you decide to convert to Islam for your girlfriend.

 

Knowledge is power, knowing what you are about to indulge yourself in is what will make things easier for you.

 

You will find the happiness and tranquillity that you deserve.

 

What I can tell you is that the way you feel about your girlfriend now, until you feel pushed to convert to Islam for her, that feeling won’t be forever that way.

 

At one point your feelings for her will change, and this will affect your belief in the religion if the only thing that drove you to convert to Islam was your feelings for her.

 

So, make sure you make the right decision before you choose to convert to Islam for your girlfriend.

 

2. If you are sure that she is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

This is something else you should consider before you decide to convert to Islam for your girlfriend.

 

You want to convert to Islam for your girlfriend, are you sure that she is the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with?

 

Is she the girl you want to marry?

 

If you are certain that she is the girl you want to marry then you should convert to Islam after you have believed in it.

 

The first measure that I talked about in the first section of this part should be taken into consideration.

 

So, if you want to marry her then you should convert to Islam for her and make your life amazing with her.

 

But if she is a side chick, someone you are not serious about, she is a friend with benefits or she is just someone you are hooking up with then there is no point for you to convert to Islam for her.

 

You should only convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you are serious about her, you love her and you know that she is someone you want to wake up next to every single day of your life.

 

This is the only condition that should force you to convert to Islam for her.

 

3. That converting to Islam is the only thing you have to do to keep her with you.

There is another situation that I would like to talk about. It can be that you are thinking of converting to Islam for your girlfriend because you feel that it’s the only way you will make her happy.

 

You want to convert to Islam for your girlfriend simply because you want to compensate for something that you don’t have.

 

The only thing that comes to your mind is that converting to Islam for her is the only thing that will make her love you more.

 

In this case, there is no point for you to convert to Islam for her if you are trying to compensate for something or trying to make her love you more.

 

If it’s not a condition that makes your relationship with her not work then you should not bother converting to Islam for her.

 

But if converting to Islam for her is the only thing you have to do to keep her; simply because she doesn’t want to date a person who is not a Muslim and you are crazy for her then you will have no choice.

 

To summarize, you should only convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you know that there is no other way to keep her with you.

 

For instance, if she tells you that the only way for her to be with you is if you convert to Islam then you will have to do it.

 

4. You are certain that you will never be happy to be with someone else.

After being in so many unsuccessful relationships, there is one thing I came to realize.

 

Happiness is what matters in any relationship, no matter the kind of person you are with.

 

You can be in a relationship with someone that you have no deep connection with and still feel complete with that person.

 

As men, in most cases, we always aim to find someone perfect, someone, with all the qualities that we need and end up turning down all other girls that are genuinely in love with us.

 

We always want someone with the things that we need in them and that is not what we always end up finding.

 

Now, you are in love with a Muslim girl, you are even thinking of changing your religion just because of her, in an attempt to win her and make her happy.

 

You are surely in love with her. But ask yourself, do you truly want to do this?

 

Do you feel that she is the person you need in your life and changing your religion for her is something that will make you feel fulfilled and happy?

 

Are you certain that she is the only person you will be happy with?

 

If you know, and you are sure that she is the person you will be happy with since you have never found any other type of girl that you want in your life then you will have no choice but to convert to Islam for her.

 

But, if you know that you can find someone else of your religion or another Muslim girl who will not want you to change your religion and you know that you can be happy with her then you should go ahead and find that person.

 

Especially, if you don’t believe in Islam, being honest with you, don’t convert to Islam because of her.

 

Convert to Islam for her if you know that she is the only girl you would rather be with, she is the only girl that can make you happy and she is the person you want to put a ring on.

 

Lastly…

 

That is the only thing I have to share with you, before I end this article let me summarize for you the important details about this issue.

 

You should convert to Islam for your girlfriend if you believe in the religion. Make sure that you are converting to Islam because you know that it is the right path for you to take.

 

But if you don’t know anything about Islam then I would advise you to do your research before you submit yourself to Islam.

 

Also, if the only way to be with her is if you convert to Islam then you will have no choice but to do so. This is what will make your relationship with her last.

 

We all enter relationships so that we turn them into something amazing; marriage, right? So, if this is your sole purpose for dating her and she wants you to convert to Islam for you to marry her then you will have to convert to Islam for her.

 

The moment you realize that you will never be happy with anyone else but her, and the only condition she is giving you is for you to convert to Islam, do it.

 

But if you are not serious about her, she hasn’t asked you to convert to Islam – it’s only something you are thinking of doing to compensate for something you lack then there is no point for you to do that.

 

Thanks so much for sticking with me until the end of this article. If you have any questions, leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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