There are two options you have, the first one is either you fight for her or move on. In this article, I will share some insights that will help you make the right decisions.
Sometimes it can be very hard to make decisions because of how you feel about someone.
Before you decide to fight for something the first thing you should ask yourself is, is it worth fighting for.
You don’t need to waste your energy fighting for someone who will end up making your life miserable.
You should fight for her if;
1. She is worth the fight.
If you want to fight for her then make sure that she is worth the fight.
Don’t fight for someone who isn’t worth your fight.
How do you know if someone is worth fighting for? Is it a girl who left you for another guy? Is it a girl who walked away from you because you had no money?
Ask yourself different questions about why you want to fight for her.
If she is someone you love and you are trying to win her heart because you feel she is the only person you can be with then go ahead and do it.
Fight for her to your last breath.
If she is a girl who left you for another guy, she never treated you good, she made your life harder, she never cared about you and she used to hurt you intentionally then this is not the girl to fight for.
You should move on because there is nothing left in her to fight for her.
If you force yourself to fight for her you will not be doing anything good to yourself than hurting yourself.
This clearly shows that she was never in love with you at all. There is no need to force yourself on someone who will keep hurting you for the rest of your life.
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You should move on if she is someone who used to hurt you intentionally, she never cared about you, she was controlling you, she was using you and she left you for someone.
But if she was loyal to you, she did everything she could to make you happy and she never hurt you in any way, the only thing you did is to break her heart then you should fight for her.
That girl is worth fighting for.
2. You love truly love her.
If you truly love her then you should fight for her.
You should fight for her if you know you will never love someone else. Fight for her if she is someone you can’t stay a day without seeing.
Don’t listen to what people will tell you about her.
You should listen to your heart and follow it. If you feel that you will never be the same without her because of how much she means to you then don’t let anything stop you from fighting for her.
If you will listen to what people will tell you about fighting for her then the only person who will get hurt is you.
The moment you know that she is someone you love so much and you don’t want to let go of her and she is someone worth fighting for then you should fight for her.
Do everything you can to win her back.
If she is someone you are pursuing and you are truly in love with her then don’t hesitate to fight for her because the moment you might give up on her and move on it might be a few steps from her letting you in.
But if you are not sure if you love her and not having her doesn’t affect you that much then you should not bother yourself fighting for her. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on.
True love is always something you will be sure about. You will never at one point think if you love someone or not.
So, if you find yourself thinking if you love her or not then know that you don’t love her and you should probably move on.
3. You can’t do without her.
If she is someone you can’t do without then you should fight for her.
The moment you realize that if you can’t have her in your life things will never be the same, you will never be able to do anything productive with your life and you will be destroyed then you should fight for her.
You should fight for her because she means so much to you. The fact that you feel your life doesn’t make sense without her being there for you shows that you can’t do without her.
This means that you will never make any progress in your life without her.
So, if this is what you feel without her being in your life then don’t waste any time.
You should fight for her because she means a lot to you.
But if you find yourself doing just fine even after she walked away from you, you are not that much stressed about her leaving you, you handle everything in your life the way you used to then the best thing you can do is to move on.
This clearly shows that she was not that deep in your heart and there is no need to waste time-fighting for her if you can move on with your life without her.
4. She is someone who values you.
Finding someone who values you and sees the best in you is very rare.
If she is someone who knows your worth, someone who sees the best in you, someone who knows everything about you and she knows the kind of person you are then you should fight for her.
You will hardly find anyone like her.
The moment you let her go, it will take time to find someone like her.
You might even never find someone who will value you as she did.
If she is someone who knew your value and she respected you the way you wanted to be respected then you should fight for her.
Don’t let her go if she is someone who knows how to handle you in a way no one else could.
But if she is someone who never cared about you, she never respected you, she always found faults in you then you should move on.
Let her go because she is not good for you.
There is no need to fight for her if she will make your life harder when she comes back.
Look for someone else and start your life afresh.
You have so much to do with your life than just fighting for someone who will come and ruin it.
5. She is someone you have struggled with for so long.
You should understand that at one point in our lives we all make mistakes.
We are not perfect human beings and that is why we all always find ourselves on the wrong side.
If she is someone you have struggled with for so long, she has been with you through your happiest and saddest days, she has always been there for you when you had nothing, you should fight for her.
Fight for her because she is someone who understands your life better than any girl will.
She is someone who knows you best.
When you have been through a lot with someone and she ends up hurting you and she, later on, shows that she feels remorse for what she did then don’t let her go and move on.
Give her a chance because we are not perfect.
If she is someone who has been with you through your worst and she has never turned her back on you then this is someone worth fighting for.
But if she is someone you met while your life was great and she has never been into any struggles with you and she just walked away from your life then you should move on. Don’t waste your time fighting for her because she doesn’t know what you went through to be where you are.
6. She is someone who sacrificed her life for you.
If you want to fight for her think of what she did for you.
Did she do anything for you to change your life?
If she is someone who sacrificed so much for you then you should never let her go. You should fight for her to the last breath of your life. This clearly shows that she is someone who loves you.
You will hardly find someone like her. Nowadays, finding someone who will sacrifice everything is rare.
What people do in relationships nowadays is keep one leg in and another one out of the relationship.
This means they will be ready to leave you anytime they feel like it. Also, this shows that they will never sacrifice anything for you because they are not fully into that relationship.
So, if she is someone who sacrificed almost everything for you then you should fight for her. Don’t let her go because finding the likes of her is something that is not likely to happen.
But if she was a selfish person, she never cared about you, she never sacrificed anything for you and all she did was to depend on you for everything then you should move on.
She isn’t someone worth fighting for.
7. She loved you for who you are.
If she loved you for who are and she never compared you to anyone then you should fight for her.
Don’t let her go if you know that she never cared how you look, what you do but she just loved you for your personality.
Someone who loves you for who you are will never change how she feels about you.
Her feelings for you will always remain because she was in love with who you are, not your looks or money.
This means that if you make the effort of fighting for her you will be able to win her.
But if she is someone who loved you for what you had, she loved you for your money and looks then you should move on from her because she doesn’t have feelings for you.
Fighting for her will be wasting your time.
If she is someone worth fighting for then you should not let her slip away.
You should fight for her because finding someone else who will know your value will be a hard thing to do.
If she truly loved you and she left you because you hurt her then you should fight for her.
The chances of her coming back are wide.
But if she walked away from you for someone else know that she never loved you and there is no need for you to fight for her.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on.
Also, if she never treated you right, she was controlling you, she was using you, she never respected you and she never cared about you then you should let her go.
Don’t fight for someone who never cared about you.
If you do so, you will only be bringing trouble to your life.
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