You should not give up on a girl who friend-zoned you before you do what I’m about to share with you.
When a girl friend-zones you, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have a chance of getting out of the friend zone.
The moment a girl tells you “let us be friends,” don’t just give up on her or turn her down.
There are some things I will share with you in this article that will enlighten you on when you should give up on a girl who friend-zoned you.
With that much said, let me share with you what you need to know about this issue.
When a girl, friend-zones you, the first thing you should do is to find the reasons why she did so. Don’t give up on her yet if you haven’t done this.
Take your time to find out why she has friend-zoned you.
Did she friend zone you because she is with someone else?
Did she friend zone you because she doesn’t feel you?
Is there anything that makes her put you in the friend zone?
These are some of the questions you should answer if you want to know if you should give up on her or fight for her.
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Not all girls will friend zone you because they don’t have feelings for you.
Some girls will just friend zone you because they need you to give them a reason to date you, they need you to try harder before they say yes to you and they need you to do something that will change their minds.
So, the moment a girl says she wants to be friends with you and you haven’t tried that much then you should not give up on her just yet.
Find out why she friend-zoned you in the first place before you think of fighting for her or moving on.
You can confront her and ask her why she has friend-zoned you.
Sit down with her and have a deep mature conversation with her. You should be straight to the point.
If you used to be a joker, you used to make her laugh every time you are around her then this should stop.
This is the part that will determine if you should give up on her or keep putting in the effort.
If you will not be serious while asking her this question she will not give you the answer that you want.
She might even skip what you are asking her and talk about something else.
This is the nature of women and you should not blame them for it.
You just have to know a way to handle them in a way you will keep them in control.
Let her tell you why she is kept you in a friend zone.
Ask her if she doesn’t feel anything for you.
Note down the reasons she is giving you because you will need them. The reasons she will give you are what you will use to know if you should give up on her or keep fighting for her.
If she tells you that she wants to be friends with you because she doesn’t feel anything for you then you should know that this is a reason for you to give up on her.
Also, if she says she has someone else that she loves and when you confirm that it’s true, then you should give up on her. This means this girl is not going to give you a chance no matter how hard you try.
But if she tells you that she friend-zoned you because of something that is not related to her feelings or her being in a relationship with another guy then you should not give up on her yet.
This shows that she has feelings for you but she has put you in the friend zone because she is not yet sure if she should let you in or not.
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Also, it can be that she doesn’t know how she feels for you yet and that is why she has put you in the friend zone.
If this is the case, then don’t give up on her yet.
There is a great chance of you changing her mind and getting out of that friend zone.
You have to be smart about this and go for what you want from her. If you are that “nice” guy then you should drop that act.
Don’t be a nice guy to her and she might change her mind about you.
So, if the reasons that made her friend zone you have nothing to do with how she feels about you and have nothing to do with her being with another guy then you should not give up on her.
The only thing you have to change is the way you approach and handle her.
You still have a chance of getting out of the friend zone.
If you used to be so close to her then start to delete the distance, don’t allow her to call you bro, ask her out and hang out with her alone, show her the other side of you and if she lets you touch her then don’t be afraid to hold her waist.
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I mean you should kick away the bestie thing here.
You should show her what you want from her and handle her like she is your girlfriend.
If you used to chat too much with her then you should reduce the rate of you chatting with her.
You should only text her when you have something very important to say to her.
And when you chat with her try your best to drive her nuts with your texts if she is comfortable with you.
You have to be smart and try to show her that friendship with you is underrated.
The moment you do all these things to her if it’s not her feelings that made her friend zone you then you will be instantly out of the friend zone.
If you have tried everything but nothing seems to be working then know that she doesn’t feel you, she made up her mind and it can be that she doesn’t find you to be her type and that is why she has friend-zoned you.
The moment you try everything and things don’t seem to click that is the point when you should give up on her.
Before that, you should try your best to change the way you handle her so that you to give her a different picture.
Let her see the other side of you, after all, you have nothing to lose.
Kick away all your fears and make the romantic move and see how she will respond to that and you will thank me later.
If she tells you that she has friend-zoned you because she doesn’t have feelings for you or she has someone else then don’t bother giving the attention you used to.
You should stop putting effort into her and walk away.
The last thing you want to do is beg her to love you. Don’t ever do something like that no matter how much you love someone.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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