In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why you shouldn’t go to his house on the first date.
If he asked you to go to his house and it when you have met then that is something you shouldn’t consider doing.
The way you handle yourself on the first date with a guy is how he will perceive you.
If this guy is someone you are getting to know and he has some interest in you then let him make an effort.
The moment he asks you to go to his house on the first date and you do it then he will change the way he perceives you.
Without wasting time, let me share with you some of these reasons why you shouldn’t go to his house on the first date.
Why you should not go to his house on the first date;
1. You will be moving too fast.
What I can tell you about going to his house on the first date is this, you will be moving too fast.
Don’t go to his house on the first date if you want to make your relationship last.
The moment you go to his house on the first date then you will never have control of what will happen.
Unless you are with him for a casual thing, but if you want a serious relationship with him then going to his house on the first date will not put things in place.
What I can tell you is that most guys will want to smash when you go to their house.
That is the truth, no matter how a guy may tell you about how he will handle you.
And when your relationship is new there are so many things you have to figure out.
You have to know this guy better before you decide to take this relationship to the next level.
It’s clear If you are going on your first date with this guy you don’t know him that well.
Take your time into knowing him first before you decide to take things super fast.
Know his full intentions first. Get to know what he expects from you and the relationship at large.
You can’t know these things within a day or so. You will need time to figure this out.
A guy can tell you what he wants and expects from you but his actions will say different things.
For now, you have no idea if this guy is serious about you or he just wants you to be a thing.
So, going to his house on the first date will not give you the chance to know the kind of a man he is.
You will be moving things fast and this may make the relationship unstable.
Don’t do things that you will regret later on.
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2. He will think you are cheap and desperate.
Guys usually think of every move a woman makes. They may say something just to see your reaction and see the kind of person you are.
So, when a guy asks you to go to his house on a first date, you haven’t known each other that well and you agree to come over.
How do you think this guy will perceive you?
Do you think this guy thinks he is the only guy hitting on you? Do you think this guy will think you want a serious relationship?
The way you handle yourself before a guy is what he will use to judge the kind of person you are.
Your actions say much more about you than your words.
So, if he asks you to go to his house on the first date and you seem completely okay with it then he will know that you have been doing the same thing with all guys you have met.
He will just conclude you have been going to their houses on the first date without knowing them better enough.
Even if he was after a serious relationship with you, this kind of thought will change how he feels about you.
He will just conclude you are cheap and this will make him handle you like a cheap girl.
This will make him want to take advantage of you because deep down he knows you are not a woman who is there to stick.
When a guy perceives you as cheap he will not want to have a serious relationship with you.
This guy will want to smash you and walk away. He will ghost you after the first date and you will be surprised what happened with him.
He may also choose to ghost you after the first date even if he hasn’t smashed you.
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Also, when he asks you to go to his house on the first date and you seem down with it he will think you are so desperate for a relationship.
If he is not a good guy he will start to take advantage of you. When you will agree to go to his house on the first date he will just conclude you are so much into him.
This will make him handle you the way he feels and not the way you feel like.
3. You will have made it easier for him.
When a guy finds out that you are too easy for him in most cases he will believe you are not serious.
Even some guys will end up losing interest in you if you seem to be too easy.
If you are too accessible guys will know that you are accessible to any guy and this will make you look so cheap.
Guys love it when they are given a challenge. They like it when they try harder to pursue a girl.
When they pursue harder and they finally get you they will know that they have done something.
And the way they will handle you will surprise you. They will handle you with respect because deep down they know you are a hard woman to come by.
But if you make it easier for a guy you might end up stripping off his interest away from you or he may not handle you the way you want.
When a guy asks you to go to his house on the first date, don’t agree to go.
Ask him to meet you somewhere else.
Find a nice coffee shop, a park or to go the beach with him.
Make sure that when you decide to go to his house he has earned it.
When you agree to go to his house on the first date this will make things easier for him.
You wouldn’t have given him the challenge of fighting so hard for you.
When you don’t agree to go to his house on the first date you will make him try harder.
He will do so many things to impress you, to make you fall for him and to show you the kind of man he is for you to agree to go to his house on the second or third date.
So, don’t make it easy for him by going to his house on the first date.
4. You won’t be comfortable in his house.
You have to enjoy your first date. Going to his house on the first date won’t make your experience with him amazing.
The first date is all about knowing each other better, seeing the other side of each other in person.
It’s all about knowing the kind of person you have been chatting with all along.
This has to be an experience that you will have to remember.
You will have to interact with him for you to know the kind of a man he is.
This will only be possible if you are comfortable with the place he has taken you on the first date.
You have to be comfortable around him for you to participate actively on that date.
The first date with him will only be amazing if you are settled around him.
You can’t tell me that you will be at ease when you will be at his house on the first date.
There will be so many thoughts in your head, you will be asking yourself so many questions of what will happen next and you will be concentrating on what you see around you and not him.
This will make the first date awful. This will be a date that you wouldn’t want to remember at all.
You won’t be in the present and this means you won’t be interactive as much as you would want to be.
So, going to his house on the first date will not make you comfortable and this will ruin the date.
Let him take you on a date to a place where you will be at ease and you will feel calm and the only thing you will be concentrating on are the things you be talking about.
5. It’s not a good idea to go to his house on the first date.
Does it sound like a good idea for you to go to his house on the first date?
Take your time to ask your friends about their first date with their guys.
Did they spend their first date indoors?
Most of them will talk about the places they were taken to be amazing.
Some will tell you they went to the beach, others to the park and some will tell you they went outside of the country.
A large percentage of them will tell you they were taken out and not indoors.
Why do you think most of these people were taken out and were not taken indoors?
Perfect first date should be out and not indoors. You have to spend time with each other outdoors to know each other better.
When you are outdoors you won’t feel the need to rush things with each other and the experience will be amazing.
It’s not a good idea to go to his house on the first date because it’s something that most people don’t do it.
Don’t go to his house on the first date if you don’t want to move the relationship fast.
If it’s your first date, the only thing you should be focused on is to know each other.
Don’t do anything that will distract you from doing what matters.
You have to know this guy’s intentions, you have to know what he wants and expects from you and going to his house on the first date is not something you should do.
Also, if you want a guy to handle you with respect you should show him that you deserve to be respected.
There is no way he will respect you if he pulls you into the house on the first date and you are all okay with it.
He will think you are cheap and desperate and this will never make him handle you the way you want.
And this might even make him lose interest in you if he is a choosy guy.
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