Should you let your boyfriend have female friends? There is so much I can say about this but in this article, I will share with you why you should let him have them.
Being jealous is something normal. I know you may be so worried about this issue of letting your boyfriend have female friends.
What I will share with you will help you to get yourself in control and that jealousy will kinda vanish.
This information will enlighten you on why you should let your boyfriend have female friends.
Without further ado, let’s get started by sharing with you the answer to this question.
Should I let my boyfriend have female friends? You should let your boyfriend have female friends because he has the right to interact with other people. There is no need to restrict him from having female friends since it will be like controlling him. Letting him have female friends will improve your relationship. Continue reading to know how.
If you decide that you will restrict your boyfriend from having female friends that will be controlling him.
And when you start controlling your boyfriend (making him do what you want without considering how he feels) it will start messing up the relationship.
The truth is that you will never be on good terms with each other and this will affect your relationship negatively.
If you restrict him from having female friends because you are insecure and jealous then this habit will not stop at that point.
You will find yourself controlling him on another thing and this will end up turning the relationship toxic.
Your boyfriend will end up hating you for how you treat him no matter how much he loves you.
So, there is no need for you to restrict your boyfriend from having female friends simply because you are jealous and insecure.
Your boyfriend having female friends will build your relationship.
Let me share with you some of the reasons why you should let your boyfriend have female friends.
Why you should let your boyfriend have female friends;
1. Your boyfriend will be emotional independent.
This is the first reason why you should let your boyfriend have female friends.
The first thing is that your boyfriend will be emotional independent.
What this means is that your boyfriend won’t depend on you for his happiness and mood elevation.
You may think this is a bad thing, but it’s the best thing for your relationship.
Hear me out!
The moment you let your boyfriend have female friends he will not be that too clingy to you.
Your boyfriend being too clingy to you can result in you hating him and finding him a nuisance.
And this will not be good for the relationship.
You will easily get tired of him if he is too clingy to you.
Also, when your boyfriend depends on you for his happiness he will always want to be around you.
And this means you will have to give him your full attention.
Trust me, you won’t be able to give him your full attention because there will be times when you will be so busy with other issues.
So, imagine you can’t give your boyfriend the attention he wants yet he has no one else to talk to or hang out with, do you think he will find it amazing?
He will start hating you because you don’t give him what he wants. And this is all because you restricted him from having female friends.
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But if he has female friends he will not always depend on you to make him happy.
And this means he will not be too clingy to you and he will not always want your attention.
This will bring a balance in your relationship and you will find everything moving too smoothly in that relationship.
Trust me, everything should be in balance for the relationship to work perfectly.
If anything positive is too much in a relationship it will end up ruining the relationship.
So, you should let your boyfriend have female friends because of this issue.
2. He will know better how to handle you.
When you let your boyfriend have female friends he will start to handle you better.
Do you know why he will handle you better?
Girls know how they need to be handled. If he has female friends who are in relationships they will at one point talk about their relationships with him.
Since these girls trust your boyfriend they will tell him how their relationships are.
From what he will hear from these girls about their relationships it will give him a hint on how women should be handled.
He will gain knowledge on how he can make your relationship better and this will change how he handles you.
Also, his friends will tell him how a girl needs to be handled.
This will make him more romantic since he will use all the knowledge he gets from his friends on you.
Your boyfriend will treat you better because he has an idea of what a woman needs from her man.
This will make your boyfriend understand you better and give you the kind of attention you deserve because he has an idea of what women expect from their men.
The way he will treat you will be amazing simply because he has female friends.
So, don’t always think of the negative things about your boyfriend having female friends.
It’s so amazing for your relationship.
3. This will prevent him from having an eye on other women.
If you let your boyfriend have female friends this will make him be focused on you.
When he has female friends he will always be interacting with them from time to time.
This will make him be used to being around pretty girls.
The moment he will be used to seeing different girls and just perceiving them as friends then this will change how he looks at other girls.
He will keep it in his mind that you are the only girl he should love and other girls to him will just be friends.
So, this means even when you go out with him he won’t focus so much on other women because to him they all are friends.
And he is used to interacting with them and he knows exactly the kind of people they are.
They don’t mean much to him as you mean to him.
Also, since he is used to seeing different women and interacting with them in a friendly manner this will make him focus on you.
Deep down he will know he has seen and talked to different types of girls and this will make him be focused on you.
He will not be out with you and be focused on other women because he is used to talking and seeing them.
This will be completely different if you have restricted him from having female friends.
4. This will build his confidence.
Your boyfriend may not be as confident as you think. He is comfortable talking to you and hanging out with you because you are his girlfriend.
If you let your boyfriend only be around you it will reach a moment he will find it hard to stand in front of another girl and address her.
And this will not be something good for you and him.
Let us say he gets a job at a certain company where he is supposed to address different women in a conference.
Your boyfriend will end up losing this job if he is not that confident enough to stand in front of these women and address them.
Letting your boyfriend have female friends will build his confidence and you will be so happy with the way he talks to you and how he addresses other women he comes across.
If your boyfriend is confident enough all the good things will come back to you.
You will get positive feedback from your friends and family. This will make you even more proud to have him in your life thus strengthening your relationship.
The opposite of that is that you will be embarrassed by him and you will not even feel like introducing him to your friends or family.
And this will end up affecting your relationship negatively.
So, let your boyfriend have female friends, hang out with them and talk to them.
This will build his confidence and he will handle you in a way you will keep on falling in love with him every single day.
5. This will gain his trust in you.
What do you think your boyfriend will think of you when you restrict him from having female friends?
The only thing your boyfriend will think of you is that you are extremely jealous and insecure.
Also, your boyfriend will conclude that you don’t trust him and that is why you don’t want him to have female friends.
The moment you show your boyfriend you are jealous and insecure he can use that knowledge to his advantage.
He can use that knowledge to control you and hurt your feelings if he wants to push you away.
Even if you are insecure and jealous you should not take extreme measures to show your boyfriend that you are.
This is a secret I’m sharing with you.
When you let your boyfriend have female friends he will know that you completely trust him and you are 100% sure that he will never do anything to hurt your feelings.
This will make him believe the same with you. Since you trust him so much he will also trust you without questioning your loyalty.
But if your boyfriend knows you don’t trust him, there is no way he will trust you.
This is two-way traffic.
You should let your boyfriend have female friends because it will build your relationship positively.
Trust your boyfriend and reassure yourself that he will never do anything to hurt your feelings.
If you won’t let him have female friends then you will be controlling him and this is never something good for any relationship.
Your boyfriend will hate you for that and things between the two of you will never be good.
If you love your boyfriend and he loves you back then you should not worry about anything as long as he handles you the way you want.
You don’t have to control his social life.
Your boyfriend will never do something to hurt you if he loves you, he will never do anything to mess up your relationship if he cares about you.
There is nothing to worry about.
Play your part in that relationship and let him play his.
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