Should My Boyfriend Pay My Bills?

In this article, I will share with you if your boyfriend should pay your bills or not. No rule bounds your boyfriend to pay your bills. But some conditions will force him to pay them even if he is not willing to do it.

 

I will share with you some of these conditions that will force your boyfriend to pay bills.

 

If your boyfriend will not pay your bills under these circumstances, then you should cut him off because he doesn’t deserve you.

 

Before I go deep into this topic, there is something I would like you to know, your boyfriend is not your bank account where you will go and withdraw money from.

 

You don’t have to perceive your boyfriend as a person who is in charge of clearing any financial issues that you have.

 

He is a person who is there for you because you agreed to be with him and not because he chose to pay your bills.

 

The way you perceive your boyfriend is what will change his attitude towards you and choose to do anything for you.

 

To be honest, not all guys will choose to spend money on their girlfriends.

 

It’s not because they don’t love them but it’s the way their girlfriends perceive them.

 

Now, let me give you the answer to the question that you were searching for.

 

Should my boyfriend pay my bills? Your boyfriend should pay your bills if you are in a situation that forces him to do it, if you completely have no means to clear your bills then he should pay your bills. But if you can manage to pay your bills then there is no need for him to do that for you.

 

So, before you say anything about what I have shared with you let me elaborate on some of the points that will make you understand what I mean.

 

If you are broke and you don’t have a job and you are unable to clear your bills, your boyfriend should help you to clear those bills. if he cares he will pay your bills without asking so many questions.

 

When you are in a situation where you can’t pay your bills and your boyfriend is the only person you can turn to then he should pay your bills.

 

The moment your boyfriend will not pay your bills when you are not in a position to do it yet he can then this shows that your boyfriend doesn’t care about you and he is a selfish person.

 

He won’t support you in future if you chose to start your life with him. This is not the person you should put your focus on because he is not a father figure you would want for your kids.

 

Your boyfriend should pay your bills if you are stranded and you have no means to clear them.

 

When you have huge financial responsibilities your boyfriend will be forced to pay your bills.

 

For instance, if you are taking care of your family financially, this means that the money you will have won’t be enough to cover all your expenses. This situation will leave you with some bills uncleared.

 

Your boyfriend should be kind enough to understand that you are in a bad situation to pay your bills. He will have to help you clear those bills.

 

This is what couples do for each other, your boyfriend should support you financially when you are not in a position to clear your bills and you should do the same for him when he is stranded.

 

If your boyfriend won’t pay your bills when you need him to and he can do it, then know that he is not someone you should rely on. This is not the guy who will have your back in future.

 

You don’t want to be with a guy who can’t support you financially if you know that you are not in a good financial state.

 

One thing you should keep in your mind; your boyfriend will pay your bills when he sees the need for him to do it.

 

Some things will prevent your boyfriend from paying your bills and you won’t have to blame him for that.

 

Your boyfriend will not pay your bills if you are an irresponsible person, you don’t want to work, you are over-dependent and you exploit your boyfriend financially.

 

The moment your boyfriend realizes that you are an irresponsible person he will not pay your bills.

 

If you use money recklessly to the extent you fail to clear your bills, your boyfriend will not pay them. This will show him that you are not careful enough about how you spend your money and you should learn how to be responsible enough with how you choose to spend your money.

 

Would you pay your boyfriend’s bills if he uses money recklessly since he knows you are there to support him whenever he messes things up?

 

I’m sure you wouldn’t want to help him in any way no matter how much you love him.

 

So, if you are irresponsible when it comes to how you spend your money then don’t expect your boyfriend to clear your bills. He will let you take care of your mess.

 

He will do this to teach you a lesson.

 

If you don’t want to work yet nothing is preventing you from doing that, your boyfriend will not take the lead to pay your bills. He will let you find the means of paying your bills.

 

No guy wants to be associated with a lazy woman, all men want women who can stand up and do the right thing to make money that will help them to cater for their needs.

 

The moment your boyfriend realizes that you are lazy, you don’t want to do anything to help yourself clear your bills, he will not pay your bills since he knows doing that will keep making you lazy.

 

He will not pay your bills so that you stand up and find a means to clear them by yourself.

 

Your boyfriend will pay your bills for you but when he notices that you are over-dependent on him then he will stop doing it.

 

He will stop paying your bills since he knows if he keeps paying them you will continue to be over-dependent on him and this is something that he wants to avoid.

 

Your boyfriend wants you to depend on yourself and find a means to take care of your financial problems.

 

So, when he doesn’t pay for your bills simply because you are over-dependent on him then know that he wants you to change that.

 

If your boyfriend notices that you are doing everything you can to clear your bills he will also be motivated to help you clear them.

 

But if you don’t show the effort your boyfriend will not bother helping you out with that. You will clear those bills by yourself.

 

Your boyfriend will not pay your bills when he realizes that you are exploiting him financially. He will stop paying your bills and supporting you financially when you aim to use him.

 

No guy wants to be used for money no matter how rich they are. The moment your boyfriend notices your main aim is to manipulate him, he will stop paying your bills to cut you off.

 

When you notice that he is no longer paying your bills then you will not need to be around him if the only thing that you went for from him was financial support.

 

Lastly…

 

Your boyfriend should pay your bills when you are not able to do that.

 

If you are stranded he should not ask so many questions but help you clear your bills. He should support you financially when you are broke.

 

Couples should support each other by any means, if your boyfriend is not someone who can do that then know that he is not the right guy for you.

 

He is not someone you should think of starting a future with.

 

But if your boyfriend can’t pay your bills simply because he is struggling financially, you should understand that and not pressure him to pay your bills yet you know he doesn’t have the means to do it.

 

Additionally, you have to keep in mind that your boyfriend is not entitled to pay your bills. You should not force your boyfriend to pay your bills when he doesn’t want to.

 

He never dated you so that he can pay your bills. So, don’t take advantage of what he feels for you to exploit him financially.

 

As a woman, you should always try your best to take care of your needs. Don’t rely so much on your boyfriend since it will reach a point he will be exhausted from supporting you financially.

 

Thank you so much for choosing Love Profile, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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