16 Sure-Fire Signs He Is Not Interested In You

Do you want to know if he is not interested in you so that you stop guessing the signals he sends to you?

 

In this article, I will share with you several signs you will come across when a guy is not interested in you.

 

If a guy is not interested in you, it means he doesn’t want to be with you romantically or this can let you know that he is going to break up with you.

 

When you are dating and you come across these signs from him then know that he is going to break up with you, cheat on you with someone else or just ghost you completely for no reason.

 

And on the other hand, if he is just a guy friend that you are interested in, you want to turn the friendship into something more.

 

If you come across these signs then know that he isn’t interested in being more than a friend with you.

 

With that much said, let me share with you signs that you will come across when a guy is no longer interested in you.

 

Signs he is not interested in you

1. He keeps ignoring you when you need him the most.

When a guy is not interested in you this is the first thing you will notice.

 

He will always ignore you when you need him the most. If you text or call him when you need him the most, he will keep on ignoring you.

 

The only thing he will keep giving you are excuses, but there is no day he will give you even a little bit of his attention.

 

Anyway, before you conclude that he is not interested in you and decide to end the relationship you have to be sure about it.

 

And this means you will have to read all the signs that I will share with you in this article to ensure that you are sure that he is not interested in you anymore.

 

This guy will keep on ignoring you when you need him the most but he will never explain to you why he does so.

 

You will text or call him and it will take days for him to get back to you.

 

And when he gets to you, he doesn’t bother telling you what was going on.

 

If you ask him to make it up to you he will just ignore you again.

 

Anyway, if your boyfriend is busy and you know it’s kinda hard for him to reply to your texts or calls, he should let you know about it.

 

He should share with you his schedule so that when he is free you can reach out to him.

 

But if there is nothing that keeps your boyfriend busy and he keeps on ignoring you when you need him the most then know that he is not interested in you.

 

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On the other hand, if he is just a friend you have a crush on, and he keeps ignoring you when you need him the most then know that he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will never ignore you when you need him the most except when there is something very crucial holding him.

 

Even after he has ignored you for a while he will get back to you and explain to you what is going on.

 

So, if a guy can ignore you for 4 to 7 without a solid reason, and this is something that has been repeating itself then know that he is not interested in you.

 

Don’t waste your time trying to get him to give you his attention.

 

You will only hurt yourself.

 

2. He doesn’t respect you at all.

When a guy doesn’t respect you at all this clearly means that he is not interested in you.

 

If you are in a relationship with a guy who doesn’t respect you after you have been dating for a while this is one of the signs that he is not interested in you.

 

Respect means so much in a relationship. Just like trust, if there is no respect for each other there is no way the relationship will survive.

 

A guy who is interested in you will always be afraid to lose you.

 

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He will never do anything to disrespect you in any way, the way he will handle you, talk to you and respond to things you will tell him will always make you feel respected.

 

When a guy says awful things to disrespect you or your family then know that he is not interested in you.

 

He knows that saying those things will make you kick him away from your life.

 

This guy is doing them anyway because he is not afraid to lose you.

 

It means he is not interested in you anymore, he disrespects you intentionally and if you choose to walk away from his life there is no harm to him.

 

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A guy who loves you, be it your boyfriend or a guy friend you have a crush on, will never do anything to disrespect you.

 

So, when you notice that a guy disrespects you without even caring what you feel about the words he says or things he does then know that he is not interested in you.

 

Don’t convince yourself that he is drunk or angry and that is why he is disrespecting you.

 

This guy is not interested in you anymore, if he is keeping you around is only to use you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will never think of disrespecting you since he will always be afraid of losing you.

 

Keep this point in your mind.

 

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3. He doesn’t put the effort into the relationship.

When a guy is not interested in you while you are in a relationship this is what you will come across.

 

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The moment a guy is interested in you he will do everything he can to show that.

 

He will put so much effort just to keep you because he knows that if he won’t put effort to keep you there is no way you will stick with him.

 

You will probably find someone else who will put much more effort to please you and make you happy and you will end up dropping him.

 

Every guy is always afraid of losing the girl he loves and cares about.

 

It’s the interest and love that keeps the relationship going.

 

If he doesn’t put the effort into the relationship no matter how hard you try to make him do it then you should know that he is not interested in you.

 

He may be putting his effort on someone else and not you.

 

So, if a guy doesn’t bother asking you out on a date, he doesn’t make the effort to fix issues between the two of you this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you.

 

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Leave aside the issues of him asking you out on dates. He will never bother even coming over to your place.

 

You will make effort to please him, do the things he likes, and buy him presents on his birthday but he will never bother to do anything like that.

 

The relationship will feel one-sided since you will always do everything to keep the relationship going.

 

But when you stop putting energy, attention and time into the relationship there is nothing happening.

 

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Your boyfriend will never make any effort to keep the relationship going at all.

 

He will let you initiate everything in that relationship and once you stop that is all.

 

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When your boyfriend is not putting effort into your relationship this clearly shows that he is not interested in you.

 

He doesn’t care if you walk away or the relationship fails.

 

This guy doesn’t care about what you will think of him and how he feels about you.

 

Such a thing can make you end the relationship but he is doing it anyway.

 

This is a sign that he is not interested in you and you should not waste your time on him.

 

On the other hand, if he is just a guy you have a crush on and he doesn’t bother initiating conversations with you, asking you questions about what you are doing or asking to hang out with you this is a sign he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will always make the effort when you do the same.

 

He will try new things with you when you also do that.

 

There will be an equal contribution to keep that relationship going or he may do more of the pursuing.

 

The moment a guy is not putting any effort into a relationship this should let you know that he is not interested in you.

 

4. He doesn’t care about you anymore.

If a guy doesn’t care about you anymore this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you.

 

The interest a guy will have in you is what will make him care about you.

 

It will make him want to help you out and support you when you are stranded.

 

If your boyfriend was caring and he suddenly stopped and he is pulling himself away from you this should let you know that he is not interested in you.

 

Don’t convince yourself that he is mad at you and that is why he doesn’t care about you.

 

When a guy is interested he will care about you even if you did something to annoy him.

 

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The moment a guy stops doing the little things that show he is concerned about you, it’s a clear sign that he is not interested anymore.

 

If he doesn’t want to be around you when you are down, he doesn’t visit you when you are sick and he doesn’t concern himself with anything that contributes to your comfort this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

When a guy doesn’t care about you it shows that he doesn’t feel the need to be part of your happiness.

 

If a guy is not willing to be that person who contributes to your happiness this is a sign he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will do everything he can to ensure that you are smiling in the middle of your tears, he will be there for you when you feel down and he will do everything he can to ensure you are happy.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t do any of that then know that he is not interested in you anymore.

 

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5. He is no longer affectionate with you.

If a guy is not showing affection to you this means he is not interested in you.

 

The romantic connection you have with your boyfriend means so much.

 

It shows the love he has for you and the feelings that make him connected to you.

 

The moment your boyfriend doesn’t initiate any romantic moves with you and even if you do so he doesn’t bother trying to keep it going, this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

The affection a guy has for you show how he feels about you.

 

Think about it, when a guy wants to end a relationship with you the first thing he will do is to cut off the affection.

 

He will not want to touch you romantically or make a sexual gesture when he is around you.

 

And this is something that will cut off the romantic connections he has with you.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t want you sexually, he doesn’t initiate or keep romantic moves going and he doesn’t flirt with you this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

He will give you so many excuses when you try to show him that you need him.

 

All this is just to avoid creating a romantic connection.

 

It can be that he is showing that affection to someone else and not you.

 

Also, it can be that he is not affectionate to you just to cut off the romantic connection he has with you.

 

6. He doesn’t give you his time anymore.

If your boyfriend doesn’t give you his time this means he doesn’t find you important.

 

He spends his time doing other things because they mean a lot more to him than you do.

 

I’m not telling you that your boyfriend should spend 24 hours with you every day for you to know that he is still interested in you.

 

As usual, there are other things in life that demand him to take care of them.

 

You need money to pay bills and be able to go on your dream vacations.

 

Your boyfriend will need to work to ensure this happens. So, you should not conclude that your boyfriend isn’t interested in you if he doesn’t spend time with you.

 

If you know that your boyfriend is always busy working to ensure that he brings something to the table you should appreciate that.

 

But this shouldn’t be a reason for him not to give you his time.

 

He should plan his schedule in a way that you will fit in it. If he doesn’t give you even a little of his time then this is something you shouldn’t tolerate.

 

Despite the work he is working on, your boyfriend should also be there for you.

 

Spend some time with you and give you the attention you deserve when he is free.

 

If claims that he is too busy to spend any time with you then know that he isn’t interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will always have a window for you. He will use the short breaks he gets from his work to spend them with you.

 

You will be the first person that he will call when he is free and wants to spend his time away from the work environment.

 

And if he won’t be able to spend time with you in a certain week due to his schedule, he will let you know when he will be free for you to hang out.

 

But if your boyfriend can spend weeks without spending time with you simply because he claims he is too busy with work, this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will do everything he can to ensure that he spends his time with you no matter the schedule he has.

 

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The time a guy will choose to spend with you means so much. Even if it’s an hour with you this show that he values you so much.

 

A guy can pretend to be in love with you, but he will never pretend to spend his time with you.

 

Time is precious, it’s something that you can’t replace.

 

So, if a guy doesn’t want to spend time with you this means you are not important to him.

 

He is clearly not interested in you anymore.

 

7. He flirts with your friends in front of you.

When a guy flirts with your friends in front of you or behind your back this clearly shows that he is not interested in you.

 

What he is doing is disrespecting you and you should not tolerate that at all.

 

Don’t let him give you excuses that he is flirting with them because he is too friendly with them.

 

If your boyfriend flirts with other girls in front of you this shows that he is not afraid to lose you and he is not afraid to hurt your feelings.

 

And this is the biggest red flag you can come across from your boyfriend.

 

When your boyfriend flirts with your friends before you and he doesn’t care how you feel about what he does then this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you.

 

If he was interested in you he wouldn’t have been flirting with other girls in front of you.

 

He would have respected you and considered how you will feel when he does such a thing.

 

A guy knows that when he flirts with other girls in front of you it will make you feel bad and insecure.

 

It will hurt your feelings and it will even lower your dignity before your girlfriends.

 

So, if a guy doesn’t care about conversing your image and ensuring that your feelings are safe this equals a lack of interest in you.

 

If your boyfriend flirts with other girls intentionally in front of you then know that he is not interested in you.

 

And he is going to end the relationship any time soon.

 

Don’t allow a guy to hurt your feelings no matter how much you value him.

 

If he is not interested in you and what he does keeps on hurting your feelings every time, the best thing you can do is to let him go.

 

8. He always threatens to break up with you whenever you mess things up.

As we all know humans aren’t perfect. You and I will always make mistakes.

 

We will always annoy the people we love. It’s not that we will do that intentionally.

 

That will happen because we can’t control the mess we make. We can’t eliminate the mistakes we make and that is okay.

 

And your boyfriend should understand that too. I know he is not perfect too. He probably makes more mistakes than you do.

 

If your boyfriend is the kind of person who always threatens to break up with you when you mess things up then this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who loves you will never threaten to break up with you whenever you annoy him.

 

He will get angry at you and even ignore you but he will never talk of a breakup.

 

So, if you always get into fights and the first thing he talks about is breaking up with you then know that he is not interested in you.

 

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The only thing he is thinking about is breaking up with you but you keep holding him into that relationship.

 

It also shows that he is not happy at all and that is why he always threatens to break up with you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will never talk about breaking up when you are in a conflict, the only thing he will focus on is fixing the issues so that your relationship goes back to normal.

 

He will always go the extra mile to find ways to fix the misunderstandings between the two of you.

 

Breaking up with you will never be an option for him.

 

So, if your boyfriend always threatens to breakup with you whenever you do something wrong, this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

The way you feel about him is not the same way he feels about you.

 

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9. He doesn’t prioritize you.

A guy who is interested in you will always put you first. He will never at any point put you before anyone else.

 

You will always be the first person that he calls when he is in trouble.

 

He will tell you everything you need to know about him before he does to anyone else.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t prioritize this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

We always prioritize the people we find important in our lives.

 

Your boyfriend doesn’t prioritize you because you aren’t important in his life.

 

If a guy chooses other people over you this is a clear sign that he doesn’t value you.

 

For instance, if he chooses his friend over you or he puts his family first over you then know that you don’t mean much to him.

 

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When you need your boyfriend to be there for you the moment you are stranded and he decides to put his work first before you this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is deeply interested in you will always put your needs first over anything else.

 

You will always be the first person to hear about any problem he is going through and the success that he will achieve.

 

If he doesn’t share with you anything first and always puts you in the last category to know what is going on in his life this is clear that you don’t mean so much to him.

 

The people that he shares everything with when they first happen are the ones he prioritizes in his life and not you.

 

If your boyfriend doesn’t prioritize you on anything that happens in his life this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

Don’t listen to the words he says to you, just observe the actions he does and they will tell you exactly how he feels about you.

 

10. He doesn’t bother introducing you to his family.

When a guy is interested in you he will want you to know everything about his life.

 

He will be so happy to share with you every detail of his life with you even without you asking him to.

 

If you have been dating your boyfriend for more than a year and he has never bothered to introduce you to his family this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you.

 

It can be that he is with you for a short-term thing. He is only using you and he will never go anywhere with you.

 

If he never talks about you meeting up with his family and he always ignores that conversation when you bring it up then know that he doesn’t want you to meet his family.

 

When a guy is interested in you he will let you fully in his life. He will never hide any part of his life from you.

 

He will be so happy for you to meet his family and take your relationship to the next level.

 

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If a guy doesn’t want you to meet his family this clearly means that he is not serious about you, he doesn’t want to make the relationship official and he is only with you for a short-term thing.

 

He knows that if he introduces you to his family and breakup with you after that it won’t be a good thing.

 

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so, if your boyfriend doesn’t bother introducing you to his family and he doesn’t give you a solid reason as to why he doesn’t want to do it, this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

If he was interested in you then he would have introduced you to his family a long time ago.

 

What a guy does for you in a relationship is what shows how he feels about you.

 

The interest I’m talking about is what will drive a man to do all the things that will make you realize that he wants to stick with you and not use you and dump you.

 

11. He hurts you intentionally.

If a guy hurts you intentionally this means that he doesn’t care about your feelings. You aren’t important to him and that is why your feelings mean nothing to him.

 

This generally means that he is not interested in you at all.

 

He is hurting you and he doesn’t care if you will walk away from him or stay.

 

A guy who hurts you intentionally doesn’t love you at all.

 

If there is no love this clearly means that the interest he had in you faded a long time ago.

 

A guy who is interested in you will always do things to make you happy.

 

He will never enjoy seeing you hurt in any way, he will do everything he can to see you smile and he will stop doing anything that will hurt you physically or emotionally.

 

When a guy hurts you intentionally and he keeps on doing it without even thinking about how you feel about what he does, this is a clear sign he is not interested in you.

 

What I can tell you is that a guy who is truly interested in you will never do anything to hurt you intentionally.

 

So, if your boyfriend hurts you intentionally and he claims that he still feels you and he is interested in you, he is only lying to you.

 

He is not interested in you anymore and you should find someone else who is into you.

 

And that is why you should end a relationship with a guy who keeps hurting you intentionally.

 

You are not a robot, you deserve to be happy and being with him will never make you get the happiness you want no matter how much you are in love with how him.

 

12. He keeps pushing you away.

If your boyfriend keeps pushing you away this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will never do anything to push you away because you are all he needs.

 

Instead, he will do things that will pull you closer to him even if you are far away from him.

 

Let me share with you some of the things that your boyfriend will do to push you away.

 

And when he does these things then know that he is not interested in you and he wants you to be distant or walk away from him.

 

When a guy wants to push you away he will always do things that will make you want to be far away from you.

 

He will intentionally hurt you and he will never bother to apologize to you.

 

This guy will say words and do things that will make you hate to be around him.

 

And when he does things that you hate, the only thing you will prefer is to be far away from him.

 

Also, he will never resolve any conflicts between the two of you so that you continue being distant from each other.

 

When you try to get closer to him, he will do things that will push you away from him.

 

He will never allow you to be closer to him anymore. Also, he won’t bother opening up to you at all when you need him to.

 

This is what will keep increasing the distance between the two of you.

 

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The moment a guy does anything to create a distance between the two of you and he never does anything to pull you closer this means that he is not interested in you.

 

If your boyfriend hurts you and he doesn’t bother to apologize to you this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

He just wants you to continue being distant from him.

 

13. He humiliates you in front of his friends and family.

When a guy does anything to humiliate you in front of his family and friends this means that he is not interested in you.

 

This shows that he doesn’t care how you will feel when he humiliates you in the first place.

 

He doesn’t have any consideration for you and that is why he embarrasses you in front of his family and friends.

 

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A guy who is interested in you will never be happy exposing your weaknesses in front of any other people.

 

He will never do anything to make you feel exposed before other people.

 

If your boyfriend is the kind of guy who humiliates you in front of other people this is a sign he is not interested in you.

 

You mean nothing to him and he doesn’t care what you will think about what he does.

 

If a guy has no interest in you he will always do things that will hurt your feelings.

 

So, if your boyfriend keeps humiliating you before other people and even when you tell him about it he doesn’t consider changing this is a sign he is not interested in you.

 

14. He manipulates you on every side.

A guy who is using you is not interested in you. It doesn’t matter whether he uses you for your money or body.

 

If your boyfriend is using you this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

He is only interested in what he gets from you and nothing else.

 

A guy who is using you will never consider moving your relationship to the next level.

 

Why should he bother moving your relationship to the next level yet he is only after one thing from you?

 

The only thing he wants is your money and body, and this is the only thing he will focus on.

 

So, if your boyfriend is using you for anything this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

Don’t confuse manipulation with you helping him. I know you may think that you are giving everything to him and you feel that you are helping him out.

 

But the truth is that he is only using you.

 

The moment a guy gets something from you and he never bothers to give you his attention and time this is a sign that he is using you.

 

It doesn’t matter whether it’s money, sex or attention.

 

When your boyfriend is using you for anything the only thing he is interested in is what you can offer and not love.

 

You will realize that the moment you stop giving him what he wants from you, he will never be the sweet guy you knew before.

 

He will distance himself from you, he will never bother being in touch with you and he will never put any effort to see you smiling.

 

When a guy is using you this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

15. He doesn’t include you in his future plans.

If you have been dating a guy for a while and he doesn’t include you in his future plans this is a red flag.

 

This guy is not interested in being with you for the long term and that is why he doesn’t include you in his future plans.

 

He will end up leaving you for someone else and that is why he doesn’t bother including you in his future plans.

 

When a guy is interested in you and he wants you to be a part of his life he will include you in his future plans.

 

He will talk about the things he wants to do in future and you will always be included in it.

 

You will have a role to play in his future. This is to show you that you matter to him and that he is planning to stick with you.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t include in the future plans that involve him building his life this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

He will end up leaving you.

 

When a guy doesn’t include you in his future plans and he doesn’t talk about them with you this is a sign that he is not interested in you.

 

A guy who is interested in you will let you know the role you will have in his life.

 

He will talk about kids he wants to have in future and he will term you as the mother of those kids.

 

Your boyfriend will want you to take care of the business he owns because he knows you are a partner he will stick with for the rest of his life.

 

If your boyfriend doesn’t include you in his future plan and he discloses any plans he has from you but shares them with other people this is a sign he is not interested in you.

 

16. He tells you straight to your face.

The last thing that will tell you that your boyfriend is not interested in you is that he will just tell you straight to your face.

 

He will tell you that he is not interested in you and that is it.

 

The moment a guy says he is not interested in you this is clear that he doesn’t feel anything for you.

 

The statement clearly shows that the connection he had with you faded a long time ago.

 

He is telling you that he is not interested in you so that you figure out a way out of his life.

 

If you will choose to date someone else or be single that is upon you.

 

It’s just like when someone tells you he doesn’t love you, that is something that he has been thinking of telling you for a while.

 

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So, when a guy says that he is not interested in you and he seems damn serious about it then know that he no longer feels you.

 

Lastly…

 

When a guy is not interested in you that will showcase in the way he will handle you and talk to you.

 

The things he will do before you will clearly show that he doesn’t want anything to do with you.

 

So, be observant and look at how your boyfriend handles you if you want to know if he is interested in you or not.

 

The moment your boyfriend doesn’t handle you the way he used to, he doesn’t give you his attention and time, he pushes you away and he never prioritizes you then know that he is no longer interested in you.

 

And when a guy loses his interest in you it’s usually because he is faded up with you, he is in love with someone else and how you handle him.

 

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There are so many things you can do to change his interest in you but that is a topic for another day.

 

When a guy is not interested and you have tried everything to keep him around and nothing is working the only thing you should do is to let him go.

 

If you keep forcing yourself to him you will only hurt yourself.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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