Are you wondering why he is suddenly showing interest in you and he wasn’t interested before?
In this article, I will share with you several reasons that made him suddenly interested in you.
You may be thinking that he is just testing you but there is more to it.
Some things can push men away and some that grab their attention pretty quick.
And sometimes it’s all about a change of mind. Guys also change their minds sometimes.
Without wasting time, let me share with you this.
Why he is suddenly showing interest in you;
1. He realized something amazing in you.
If he is suddenly interested in you then you should know that he saw something in you.
The thing that he saw in you is what drew him closer to you and that is why he is showing interest in you.
You should know that every man is attracted to a woman for different reasons.
So, if he wasn’t interested in you earlier and he is now suddenly showing interest in you then know that he noticed you have something incredible and that is why he is drawn back to you.
It can be that he never noticed that thing before but when he distanced himself from you, he saw it and he just came back to you.
So, there is something that pulled him closer to you and that is why he is suddenly showing interest in you.
2. He is desperate and lonely.
If he wasn’t interested in you and he suddenly shows that he is into you then know that he is desperate and lonely.
I’m telling you from what I have come across and what I heard from most of the guys who are my close friends.
When a guy knows that he has so many options he will be choosy. He will not just hang out with any girl he feels like.
He will only want to hang out with girls he is interested in.
But if it turns out that the girls he is interested in are hooked up and he is left lonely then he will turn to a girl who showed him a positive response.
So, if you earlier showed him that you were interested in him and he pulled away from you he will then turn back to you.
He will suddenly start showing you that he is interested in you just to win you and kick the boredom and loneliness he is feeling.
He is now showing you that he is interested in you because he has no alternative.
This guy knows that you will let him in because you earlier showed him that you were into him.
3. He realized you are single.
Your relationship status matters a lot when it comes to guys hitting on you.
If a guy finds out that you are in a relationship no matter how much he finds you attractive he will restrict himself from falling deeper into you.
He will control what he feels for you because he knows he will never have you no matter what happens. After all, you are already in a relationship with another guy.
But we have a few guys who will not care about that. They will not care if you are in a relationship or not.
They will hit on you pretty hard.
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So, if he was never that much interested in you because he figured out that you are in a relationship and he later finds out that you are single then this could be the reason why he suddenly shows he is interested in you.
He knows that he can win you since you don’t have anyone else and that is why he is showing you that he is interested in you.
4. He finds you attractive.
When a guy suddenly shows interest in you without even knowing you that much then know that he finds you attractive.
He is attracted to what he sees and this can’t allow him to stop pursuing you.
When a guy is attracted to you he will not hesitate to make his move on you.
He will be quick so that you don’t fall in someone else’s arms.
So, when a guy is suddenly showing interest in you and all he talks about is how amazing you look then know that he is in love with how you are.
He loves the looks you have and this is the main thing that makes him show interest in you.
Anyway, is it bad to want someone attractive?
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It’s not bad, we all go for things we find attractive. But at the same time, this can give you a hard time figuring out if someone loves you for who you are or he is just into you because of your looks.
You can even fail to differentiate between lust and love.
What I can tell you about this is, when a guy is suddenly showing interest in you and he is coming pretty hard on you and you even fail to understand how he feels about you the best thing you can do is to slow him down.
Don’t allow him to move things too first with you simply because he is showing you that he is interested in you.
This is very dangerous. Take things slow with him and as time goes by you will be able to understand if it was lust that drove him to you or his feelings for you were genuine.
5. He knows what he wants from you.
When a guy knows what he wants from you then he will want to have you by his side.
If a guy knows that he wants you for a one night stand then he will be quick on that.
He will not delay. Suddenly he will show you that he is interested in you so that he can capture your mind and heart pretty early.
For instance, you met a guy at a party and he is suddenly showing you that he is into you to an extent he can’t breathe without you, don’t lie to yourself that he is in love with you.
He only wants you for a one-night-stand thing and that is why he acting such away.
This guy knows that when he shows you that he is crazy interested in you then you will have no choice but to let him in.
Without knowing his intentions you may think you have found your soul mate but he only came for one thing from you.
This is not only based on the negative aspects. We have guys who want something everlasting.
And they will show you that they are interested in you so that you give them the chance to prove themselves to you that they can take good care of you.
The problems always come in identifying who is the right one and who isn’t
What I can tell you about that is that times tells it all.
6. He is afraid he will lose you to someone else.
The moment a guy notices there are a couple of guys after you and he knows that the competition is going to be stiff then he will act soon.
For instance, you are just friends and he has never shown you that he is interested in you and suddenly some guys are starting to hit on you and he is afraid that he will lose you to them then he will act.
He will put aside the friendship badge and come for you hard.
He will suddenly start showing you that he is interested in you so that you give him the chance.
So, if the guy who is suddenly showing you interest is your friend then know that he noticed there is a threat and he doesn’t want to lose you.
Also, if he was a guy who was keeping you around, sending you mixed signals and you never understand what he wanted from you and he is suddenly showing you that he is interested in you then know that he is afraid to lose you.
He noticed if he keeps sending you mixed signals and someone else approaches you with a clear intention he will end up losing you.
7. He realized you are the best option for him.
A guy will not only be interested in you. He will be interested in different girls but he will have to choose which is the best girl for him to stick with.
Making this decision sometimes can be a pretty hard thing.
So, if he was still thinking of which girl to choose and he found that another girl was good for him and he pulled himself away from you, and he later noticed that he made the wrong decision then this could have been the reason that made him come back to you.
He noticed that you are the best option for him and that is why he is suddenly showing you interest after he pulled himself away from you.
So, if you find him to be the best option too then don’t keep him waiting.
Other girls also see him the same way you do.
When a guy shows you that he is interested in you don’t be quick in making decisions of letting him in.
If he comes hard on you, just make him stop and take things slowly.
Relationships that move too fast end up failing pretty fast.
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When you take things slow with him then you will be able to understand if he loves you or it’s just lust driving hard on you.
The moment a guy is suddenly showing you that he is interested in you then know that he has seen something in you.
He wants something from you. Some will want to use you while others will want to keep you.
So, be wise in choosing the kind of man you want to stay with.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.
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